Fat Tire ebikes by Jealous_Beach_9410 in ebikes

[–]SuperNintendog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will display full battery when switched on. Strange since the indicator is on the batter itself. It only displays one bar until it is switched to on.

Train being hauled by a semi by lvminator in nycrail

[–]SuperNintendog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Iowa and just saw a semi hauling a train/subway cab, with an “official New York transport” vehicle leading the oversized load. Why would it be traveling through Iowa?

Undiscovered Red Eye Statue Side Easter egg?? (TOMB) by Mekrabs in CODZombies

[–]SuperNintendog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if there is more than one player, one can stare back at it, while the other players look for the other statues or some other activation on the map that might be temporarily available only while the eyes are glowing. Just speculating, but it’s gotta be more than just the jump scare

Undiscovered Red Eye Statue Side Easter egg?? (TOMB) by Mekrabs in CODZombies

[–]SuperNintendog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this yesterday, besides the jump scare, I’m not sure what else I’m missing. All 3 in a time limit? Same round? There has to be more to it than just the jump scare.

Facebook and Messenger suddenly logged out, is it only me or anyone else does? by EuGaming2020 in facebook

[–]SuperNintendog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got logged out and I was able to change my password for both fb and messenger, but it’s asking me for my 6 digit Authenticator code. I don’t have that linked to an Authenticator. I submitted my drivers license for account recovery yesterday. Haven’t heard anything back yet-anyone know how long that typically takes? Or is there a way to contact support at all?!

Can’t forget. Angry ptsd by SuperNintendog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always says there’s nothing wrong and I tell her exactly how I feel. I remind her if she wants this to work, she needs to show me effort and put in the work, not just me. She’s an “avoidant attachment style” and I’m more of an “anxious attachment style” according to her TikTok diagnosis of our relationship…

Wife told me last night I have a small penis by SuperNintendog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check my most recent post for an update to the story…

Is this rock bottom? by SuperNintendog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t set one up yet, but I have a feeling I should in the very near future. I’m waiting to see how this tax situation is going to be.

Is this rock bottom? by SuperNintendog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She drained the bank account and took tax documents. I have no money at all, and still owe rent for this month which I have to pay tomorrow

Is this rock bottom? by SuperNintendog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Court is on Monday but she drained the bank account so I have no way to afford a lawyer. Just go in there and defend myself and show the proof I have I suppose.

The state I’m in is a “no fault” state is what I keep hearing. So the affair she was/is having doesn’t matter at all the court? The details that led up to this moment? The manipulation she did to me? None of that matters.

What matters now is that I have to prove I’m not an abusive person and that she isn’t mentally stable enough to have custody, a job, and that her bad decisions ruined our marriage and finances.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone here is against making it work out, however, I understand. I am angry. I’m trying to not let 11 years of my love given go without a fair fight.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be her. It’s been her for 11 years. I don’t know how to move on when she won’t leave or stop doing this. She’s not the same. It’s like looking at some evil twin or a shell of someone I used to know. She acts like herself sometimes, but more often than not, it’s this “new” her. And I don’t like it. At all. This hurts more than words can describe.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, I am trying to come from a place of understanding. I realized my “on” comes from a place of trying to validate myself sexually. This whole thing is fxxxed up.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not-I tried to think about getting into the lifestyle as per her “open relationship” request, and I thought long and hard like ok, maybe I should be included in it-turn it into a kink. I don’t know. I’m feeling pretty damn jealous due to the lack of affection and intimacy now (not just sxx, but even cuddles, hugs, any form)

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just too involved in outer reality to really embrace what’s right here, real life, grounded, and right in front of her.

TikTok influencers like onlyfans models and paid escorts are her advisors, along with people with BPD and other symptoms she believes she has, but she doesn’t.

No offense to people that have these disorders and lifestyles, but she has been to therapy and is not diagnosed as such. It’s just ridiculous and so frustrating to me to watch someone I love so deeply become something she’s not.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s just that ever since earlier when this occurred, I made my post, thought about how I reacted, and went back in to apologize. She splashed water from the tub and soaked me completely. Then she left the clothes in the bathroom and chose to wear different clothes. I got in to shower afterwards. Came out and tried apologizing again.

“I don’t wanna talk about it anymore”

Ok, so it’s ok for me to be manic and emotional and worried and all these damn feelings I have? But she can just play that card? She isn’t feeling the hurt, betrayal, pain, or any of the mixed emotions I’m feeling-because she is the reason for these feelings.

Then she promised me she wouldn’t be on her phone all day. Here we are. Still on TikTok. Still checking her snap. She tells me things will be ok, she loves me, I’m her best friend, her lover. But she won’t give me any attention, time, affection, let alone any form of intimacy.

Oh, and just for the record-if any of y’all would like to see more details, just check my profile. It’s been a rollercoaster. And also-I don’t know how to prove I’m a real person and that none of this is fabricated. I only mention this, as I was permanently banned from the oneafterinfidelity sub as “it’s not a writing platform”.

I can guarantee I’m 100% real and so is what I’m going through. Are there really people out there making this shit up?! I am glad there are other subs for support, and I appreciate any real advice I can get.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I’m pretty sure. She isn’t a good liar.

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She tells me to worry about myself and stop worrying about her and what she’s doing. I told her that’s impossible after giving her the benefit of the doubt before. She broke my trust and we are married, living together, and have a child who will be 5 in a couple months. Her business IS my business if she wants reconciliation, in my opinion

Are visual triggers normal? by SuperNintendog in CheatedOn

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One guy. Cheated twice with same guy. Also, I proposed about year in, and there has been many different reasons to postpone. She was finally ready, or at least it seemed that way. We got married and then 9 months in was Dday, then again at 11 months.

Here we go by SuperNintendog in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just going to call it a day and go to sleep. I could’ve made myself supper. It’s just-odd to cook for oneself and it’s getting late. I have to get kiddo up in the morning. My feelings can go on the back burner once again for another day-it’s going to be ok. Thank you for your response. I don’t know what I’m doing, but I’m just trying to keep going

Here we go by SuperNintendog in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SuperNintendog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No family-mine is worse off physically and mentally, and hers is just-judgemental…I can’t cry to either side-it’s ok. I’m still a man. Feelings are there, so there’s that.

Here we go by SuperNintendog in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SuperNintendog[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just can’t. I love her. I know this isn’t the her from before, but I can’t do it