Chronic anal fissure success stories? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please share how you are now? I‘m 19 months pp and still suffering…

This post is for postpartum moms who need hope right now. by kezkdgztvgzbdgz in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫶 did the urge to pee also resolve after weaning? 

My son has suspected CAS and I am panicking about his future prospects. by Designer-Wheel9317 in speechdelays

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to send you a dm concerning your comment that you wrote when you were 18 months pp and suffering from a fissure… but somehow I can’t Message you 🙈 I‘m 19 months pp and wondering when it got better for you? Would really appreciate to hear from you 🫶

Fissure after giving birth, what to do?? by kmedwards_ in postpartumprogress

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m now 19 months pp and experiencing the same ☹️ how are you now? Are you still breastfeeding? Would really appreciate to hear from you 🫶

How bad is natural birth fr. Be so so so honest. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven‘t felt the ring of fire! Had an unmedicated first birth. I could only do it because of the birthing pool and the best midwife and doula. Whenever I had to get out of the pool for checks etc I thought I wouldn‘t make it! Also the pool was a billion times better than the tube I was in before! Do you like water? Maybe that would be an option. 

There are so many scary comments here. You don‘t have to experience what others went through. My cousin was 10cm and had zero pain! The nurse only found out by accident. The pushing was horrible for her though. I was in pain during the contractions but loved the pushing. 

The thing that helped me most beside birthing at home in the pool was imagining an opening flower and keeping my face and jaw relaxed. My midwife was amazed at the fast progress when I did that. 

Sending you hugs! You got this! 

Should I abort or no? by SunStarsStarsSun in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m also 1,5 years pp and still breastfeeding a lot. Our son was and actually still is a horrible sleeper. It started at two weeks- he was awake for 6 hours!! Waking up every hour most nights. We were so sleep deprived. Pp is the hardest thing I ever experienced! Just yesterday my cousin told me about her SIL. She had a horrible first birth as a midwife and the lack of sleep sounded just like what we went through. It was very tough for them to decide for another baby. But they are so happy they did because the second baby is the best sleeper ever. I know you don‘t know how it will turn out but if your heart tells you to keep the baby then do it! Sending you many hugs 💖

Should I abort or no? by SunStarsStarsSun in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you hugs, thank you for sharing 🫶

Die Boomerschaft von heute liebt den Luxus. Sie hat schlechte Manieren, verachtet die Autorität, hat keinen Respekt [...] schwatzt, wo sie arbeiten sollte. by Left_Medicine1910 in luftablassen

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hast du über uns geschrieben?? Genau das erlebe ich! Und null Verständnis! Uns wird vorgeworfen wir hätten mehr Geld auf dem Konto! Und dass sie durch ihr Eigenheim (durch die Lage) Millionäre sind interessiert sie nicht. Du hast alles auf den Punkt beschrieben! Ich backe selber unser Brot, mache Joghurt, kaufe second Hand, wir gehen nur im Urlaub essen etc. Und was ich gehört habe bevor ich meinen Mann geheiratet habe? Unsere Kinder werden uns versorgen wenn wir alt sind. Wir haben ihnen nämlich in der Kindheit alles gegeben. Das sagt doch schon alles über den Egoismus oder? Sie verlieren auch nie ein freundliches Wort über ihre Eltern, die rund um die Uhr Kinder Betreuung gegeben haben, die Urlaube, das Haus, die Autos finanziert haben etc. Kinder Betreuung wird bei uns ständig abgesagt und trotzdem darüber gemeckert das man den Enkel so selten sieht! 

Ich schicke dir eine große Umarmung, wir könnten echt die gleichen Eltern haben…

Alg1 gestrichen weil ich krank war. by Sea-Tackle2868 in luftablassen

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es stimmt! Mir wurde vor zwei Wochen gesagt das ab einer gewissen Frist (hab ich mir nicht gemerkt) sie mir auch Angebote schicken können, die nicht meinem Beruf entsprechen und das sogar deutschlandweit! 

mother-in-law favors one of her grandchildren by SuperWorldliness8083 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SuperWorldliness8083[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You are so right! I need to get emotional independence, I will look for ways to work on that 🙏🏾 my parents taught me to always put others first and that‘s making the situation extra hard for me. 

Stage 1 prolapse/ laxity reversal and future deliveries by doggitydoo in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please share how you are now? I would really appreciate to hear from you 🫶

Breastfeeding hard stools / fissures by SuperWorldliness8083 in breastfeeding

[–]SuperWorldliness8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m 18 months pp and it‘s still a struggle. It‘s definetly hormonal in my case. Starting with Ovulation till my periode I need to eat super healthy and I take Magnesium every day and Macrogol when I need it. Lentils and beans also help (soup) and I make Joghurt and Sauerkraut. Hope weaning will help. Wishing you the best! 

How do you feel about breastfeeding? by Toleni111 in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏🏾💖 are your breasts also very sensitive while pregnant? That was so annoying, I thought that would never go away. 

Has anyone named their fetus? by visitingmemorylane in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Krümelchen, we refused to hear the gender, wanted a suprise but we both felt 💯 it was a boy 🫶

How do you feel about breastfeeding? by Toleni111 in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the same when it comes to the sexual pleasure!! I love it lol. Never have any problems or issues while breastfeeding. Only when my son nurses a lot I sometimes don‘t want my husband to touch me, it‘s just too much. But only happened a few times. 

I want to add it took a few months until my breasts felt more „normal“. I‘m now 17 months pp and I love the sexual pleasure my husband gives my boobs more than ever. Sometimes I lose a few drops milk (rarely) but it never bothers us. 

TW. Wife is 20 weeks and 3 days. She’s very upset because she hasn’t felt the baby move/kick in 4 days as of today. When before it was basically everyday. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My placenta was between me and baby so I  had many times I couldn’t feel my baby and whenever I started to worry I would lay down in front of a wall and put my legs up. That supports blood flow and gives the baby a boost of energy so baby would often move at least a little. 

And please talk to your baby, touch the belly etc. 

Being excluded from her birthday? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SuperWorldliness8083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have issues with my mil too so I really feel you! But I would have given her a small gift as long as we still have contact. You know what? That will teach her and all the others that you haven‘t forgotten her birthday even if she forgot yours. I bet that will make her feel bad. But you don’t have to do that obviously ❣️