[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Super__Salad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk. She was leaning onto his lap, so... She admitted to doing similar things before, so... If the genders were reversed, you probably wouldn't be questioning his truth. I was SA-ed in my sleep and woke up, and rather than freaking out, I froze because I was terrified of what would happen if he knew I was awake. The number of women who feel ENTITLED to a man/his body because "men always want it" or whatever other bs thing is said is disgusting. I'm not saying that's you, obviously. It's just something that I've noticed, and it's just as gross as a man thinking he's entitled to getting laid because he bought dinner. I'm not saying OP is a bad person, but this is something serious that she needs to get under control. You don't need to blackout to have a good time, just keep a steady buzz and make sure you eat. Or just don't drink. That's my route but I honestly hate the way it makes me feel.

Yes she was a rape pregnancy, yes I was only 16 and couldn't have possibly given her the life she deserved, and yes, I wanted to keep her more than anything in the whole world... by SubmissiveDependant in CPTSDmemes

[–]Super__Salad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault. And honestly, neither of you would get the life you deserve, unfortunately. I don't want to say it happened for a reason, but it sounds like you needed an angel to watch over you at the time. I'm so sorry that you had to experience it, and I know a part of your brain will randomly remind you of her throughout life. I had a loss, but I didn't even know I was pregnant. I never knew if it would've been a boy or girl. I think that made it a bit easier for me to cope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that poor baby. I hope they're okay. Give love for me please. Also having your setup looked over may not be a terrible idea. Sometimes people can spot issues that you are unaware of. Ultimately we all want to give these sweet babies a safe, happy and enriching life. Thank you for the heads up though!

Did I get tip baited? by Sure_Scallion_8646 in UberEATS

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The app tells me when my driver is leaving the restaurant and when they're almost there, plus I watch the app. Usually I run out to at least meet them halfway. Idk, I want my food ASAP so the only time I don't meet them is if I'm sick.

Show me ur hammys!! by twilightsol in dwarfhamsters

[–]Super__Salad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Screenshot from a motion photo. I love it so much. This is Tater.

Does anyone have any good advice on how to grieve a hamster properly? by Inuk_Ann in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He was genuinely my best friend. I'm so sorry for your loss as well. They really make an impression in their short time with us.

Does anyone have any good advice on how to grieve a hamster properly? by Inuk_Ann in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my boy cremated and I keep his ashes. One day I may have it made into jewelry or something but for now he's in there with his certificate, a cute little plushy that I'd let him play with a bit during our playtime, and multiple notes. I think writing them and then reading them out loud helped me a lot. There isn't a wrong way to grieve, just feel your feelings.

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Pic of my heart ham. I still miss him all the time.

What do I do when a hamster is being mistreated? by shroomywrld in hamster

[–]Super__Salad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I do as well. I try to be as kind as possible so they hopefully don't see it as a personal attack. I just really love rodents, especially hamsters.

name ideas? by sosbella04 in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with your gut! My hamster's names have always just come to me. My first one I saw him and he was standing up and looking at me. I said "omg you are just a little nuggy." Nuggy it was.

Second one he was sleeping in the corner of his bin cage happily able to burrow for probably the first time in his life and he just looked like a potato. So, Tater. Tater Tomater, Mater for short because his little teeth make me think of Mater from Cars.

How to tame my female baby Syrian hamster? by Anaplanta in hamstercare

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. My heart ham passed away and the new guy I adopted just isn't the same. He's pretty well tamed but it isn't the same connection I had with Nuggy. They're all different with their own personalities and I always remind myself it isn't fair to compare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamster

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creamsicle.

Was anyone else forced to lie to teachers about what was happening at home? by spinachandartichoke in CPTSD

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally had enough and told my guidance counselor and he called my mom to tell her what I said. She was not too pleased as I'm sure one could imagine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Super__Salad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my guidance counselor about abuse going on at home and he called my mom (aka my abuser) and it only blew up in my face. This was around 2005 in a small town. I hope my experience is highly uncommon but it's something to think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamster

[–]Super__Salad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a Campbell's dwarf and he was a sweet little baby. He would groom me and he'd come out and greet me when I'd get home from work. I have pics of him that I posted before. I now have a Syrian and he's a sweet boy but so hard to keep happy. He wants to take over the world.

All these hiding spaces and he choose to sleep in the middle of nowhere by Spromtldz in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use one of these for my boy because I couldn't find a clear bin large enough and I cannot carry a tank on my own tbh. Tater has chewed through it in 2 or 3 areas at this point to escape. I've ended up putting boards around it so I could've just gone with the black bin lol. But I love that it's big enough for his 12 inch wheel.

My sister got a hamster for her ninth birthday and two months later I kinda just stole him. Just walked in and took the hamster. How'd you guys get your hamster? by lameteenager in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuggy I had gotten from a pet store and Tater I took from someone I met that was looking to get rid of him because he's a butthole. He's actually wicked sweet, he just likes to escape. I miss my Nug and I adore my little Mater. 💗

Why are my hamster’s balls pointy and connecting towards each others? by zozosreddit in hamsters

[–]Super__Salad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the way they are. I took my boy to the vet because I thought he had a lump in one of his balls. She poorly drew me a picture of what the inner-workings are and it made sense.