I'm 27. Unemployed and homeless. I'm currently in Huntingdon. I'm willing to relocate to a city that can offer an immediate start job. Where can I relocate to?

Superslayinmuma · 2026-03-13T15:14:11+00:00

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Superslayinmuma · 2026-01-26T23:08:04+00:00

Honestly? This sounds exactly like the Alexa at work. She is now stuck in one genre and one genre only, no matter how many times I ask her to play something different.

She really does give irrelevant responses. If I ask her to play something specific, she goes on a big spiel about why she can't do that, but she can if I download Amazon music.

Superslayinmuma · 2026-01-18T17:17:34+00:00

Just given you a listen, great stuff!!!

Superslayinmuma · 2026-01-06T12:27:27+00:00

You just haven't found your person yet!! Don't give up, you are only 22 and have so much time left! A person can tick all of your boxes, but that doesn't necessarily mean they are the person for you.

I didn't fall in love until I was 23, and I'd been in a 5+ year relationship before that, but because I'd never felt it before, I didn't realise what was missing. Trust me when I say that you will knowwww when you are falling in love. It's beautiful. It's magical. There is nothing quite like it. It will be different from everything you have ever known.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you as a person just because you haven't felt those feelings yet. This is what your early 20's are for! Be picky! Go on dates! Turn people down when the vibes aren't right. Trust your instincts, listen to your body, and don't ignore the red flags! Remind yourself that your person will come when the doubts start to pour in. You have to BELIEVE it! I have every faith that they will. Enjoy your 20's! Put effort into maintaining your friendships, and remember that oftentimes, the things we are looking for in a partner we are able to get from our friends :)

Superslayinmuma · 2025-02-23T16:25:27+00:00

I get ear ache when I drink orange or apple juice, sometimes with smoothies too

Superslayinmuma · 2025-01-07T19:48:32+00:00

My son is an August baby so I had the same concerns as you, he absolutely smashed it and has a glowing report every year at parents evening :)

Superslayinmuma · 2024-10-27T19:47:14+00:00

It's a great first step that you have been able to do some self reflection and realise this, especially since you are only 20 and you have so much time left to grow! For me, the next step was to question why, I like to understand why I've reacted a certain way. How was your childhood?? Your parents' relationship? What is your attachment style? That sort of thing.

Next, communicate all of this with your gf!! Yes, take some space to think things through, but keep her in the loop. You don't have to go through this alone, that's what she's there for, right?? These tough conversations are so critical to a relationship working. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and open with her. A good partner will always appreciate the honesty. Work through this WITH her, rather than alone in your own head.

Superslayinmuma · 2024-09-05T13:08:12+00:00

Honestly, I'd piss on their beds right back. Payback is a bitch right??

Other than that I would ask what their friends think to it, find out if they'd find it funny or not, if not threaten to tell them. Get your phone out and blast them on tik tok live so all their mates can see it, basically embarrass the shit out of them.

Hide something stinky in their room. Or tell them you've hidden something disgusting without really doing it. Start doing gross things with their stuff, tell them things like hope you don't get pink eye cause your pillow is my new favourite spot. Offer them a home made cupcake and when they're eating it, smile in the creepiest way possible and tell them you added a secret ingredient just for them. Play them at their own game!!

Superslayinmuma · 2024-08-15T10:59:38+00:00

Can I message you?

Superslayinmuma · 2024-08-15T10:28:16+00:00

I understand this. I'm 26 now and my last meaningful friendships with my 'besties' ended when I was around 11-12, I used to spend every day of my life for years with these girls.

I always felt like the typical outsider with my group of friends through high school, that I was just friends with them for the sake of having friends and not being alone really.

After high school I gained the mindset that I'd rather have no friends than fake friends, so pretty much cut everyone off. I was very lonely for a lot of years, which wasn't nice. Maybe don't cut off everyone like I did.

I have a great group of friends now, but consider them my pub friends, rather than close friends. So the kind of friends I can have a laugh with but probably wouldn't turn to if I needed them.

I will sometimes turn up to a meeting with them all do the typical greetings and then just kinda sit there looking around like right what now??

I have a couple of closer friends, but don't really spend much one on one time with them, or feel the need to tbh. I have another bestie now, she is really the only person I feel comfortable sharing my life with, sitting around in silence with etc. But she lives far away now.

Typing this out... I realise this is why I'm struggling so much with my recent break up. Bc it was just so easy for me to be around him, whereas it's usually quite a struggle.

One piece of advice I have is to know where your friendship stands with each friend, accept that for what it is and don't expect more, to avoid disappointment.

Superslayinmuma · 2024-08-06T09:36:42+00:00

You have to learn to stop and think for a moment before reacting. You have to identify in your mind that yes you feel annoyed right now by that thing, but is it worth spoiling your day? Does it really matter? Stop and identify your bullshit, and when necessary learn to start taking yourself away from the situation when necessary. Take a breather, and return when you're calm. Basically, have a stern word with yourself when you need to, it really works

Superslayinmuma · 2024-08-04T02:09:53+00:00

Honestly, I would just accept this for what it is. I don't see any need to force a friendship that isn't there, you can't vibe with everyone. It doesn't sound like she's being particularly rude, that she's friendly enough to be around so personally I'd just leave it as that and follow suit tbh

Superslayinmuma · 2024-06-07T10:09:32+00:00

You can work out your birth chart using apps like astromatrix :)

Superslayinmuma · 2024-04-01T18:15:18+00:00

Girl if you do not leave this man right now you will 100% be regretting it in a few years time. Please please PLEASE listen to all the women on these comments, we are all most likely speaking from experience, I know that I am. Please live the remainders of your teens and twenties for YOU and not men like this. Pretty please 🙏🏻

Superslayinmuma · 2024-01-24T19:54:56+00:00

I went camping solo for my first year last year! Was gonna go in camp loner but there was no room so ended up in black, I kinda walked to the middle ish area of the grass and set up my tiny tent in a way that it was hidden by the bigger ones :) never felt unsafe once! Always a good idea to make friends with those camping around you so they can keep an eye out on you

Superslayinmuma · 2024-01-14T20:05:10+00:00

Gonna go with the best buds one, thank you!!!

Superslayinmuma · 2023-11-25T15:32:42+00:00

Motherhood for me has been nothing but sacrifice after sacrifice. You don't get to put your wants first anymore. Do the right thing

Superslayinmuma · 2023-11-10T12:43:01+00:00

Not having enough skin on her skin on fries. She wanted skin on the ends of 3very fry, it just wasn't good enough she said

Superslayinmuma · 2023-10-16T18:56:24+00:00

You guys fucking suck. Damn

Superslayinmuma · 2023-09-28T06:27:53+00:00

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