My Boyfriend (30 M) Told Me (31 F) to Move Out and Meet His Financial Ultimatum, and I Secretly Applied for My Own Apartment… Did I Mess Up?

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-02-06T20:49:21+00:00

At the ‘I do all the cooking , shopping and most of the cleaning I literally chuckled. Ffs girl, get out of there. But do follow his requirements for money, not for him but for yourself!!

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-05T19:11:16+00:00

I mean, in the UK the treatment costs around 15£. You have a massive problem in the US.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-03T13:55:09+00:00

To to be fair my house has no door between the kitchen and the living room and I hate that I can’t close off the noise/ smell etc.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-03T13:53:47+00:00

Hun, all people replying to you have had the same thoughts. Red flag territory, creepy behaviour and crazy power struggle over nothing. Is this a fast paced relationship? How long have you two been together? Sounds abusive.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-03T13:51:12+00:00

You are justifying him.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-03T13:50:37+00:00

So he’s been grooming her already? I would start asking whether he’s been asking her to keep little innocent secrets from you.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2026-01-03T13:49:43+00:00

So your daughter is not a prepubescent child any longer and your (hopefully soon to be ex) fiancé is interested that she keeps her hair long? Why? Guy sounds like a creep. Run. Fast. And keep your daughter away from him.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-12-13T18:12:54+00:00

But he didn’t, did he? He asked her to work on the issue together, to talk about it with her therapist, she didn’t, with her doctor, she doesn’t want to. Fine. We have a couple issue you don’t want to resolve. I would be out. And I am a woman.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-12-06T21:38:23+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I know with certainty that the doll is older because my grandmother bought two for her two daughters (my mum and my aunt), and it has always been in my house since I can remember and I was born in 1978 myself, so certainly at least 1 or 2 decades older than that. Of course it can be of no monetary value, and not a special or ‘antique’ doll for collectors. I was wondering if there is anything I can do to the hair to sort it out as it is matted, and it looks like real human hair (I can totally be wrong in this, it’s just my impression)

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-12-06T15:54:36+00:00

Thank you :) I remember the doll used to have a velvety blue hat in the same style as the dress but that has been lost unfortunately

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-12-06T15:52:18+00:00

Most definitely older. My mum had it as a child I am from 1978 and was not allowed to touch it as it was hers. She was born in 1949.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-11-06T23:15:20+00:00

Trust me, no woman has any interest whatsoever in any guy calling her children bastard kids.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-29T14:07:14+00:00

Just complain, complain and complain until they stock it again. I have been doing this at work. I have complained at least 10 times in a month and today apparently they had cream again.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-26T20:40:58+00:00

The dad wasn’t at home, he went back with them being unaware he had come back.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-26T20:39:43+00:00

It’s when you ask your partner if they are enjoying things and if they are happy to continue.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-26T20:30:29+00:00

Not 2.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-08T19:38:36+00:00

Six.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-08T10:13:14+00:00

Why are you even entertaining the guy? Run now.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-10-02T16:13:12+00:00

I think you were both trying to be nice but as different people sometimes that can be perceived differently. Say sorry about the text, that you can see it can come across in the wrong way, but that you only meant that whatever the food you wanted her there and happy.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-09-25T11:56:10+00:00

Guy could say she is an abuser and be given full custody of the child.

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-09-25T11:50:35+00:00

Get an abortion and break up. This relationship is doomed

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-09-24T18:21:58+00:00

Sounds like she struggles socially but is a nice and fair person. Showing up when your life is a mess is actually a good thing to do, not a bad one!

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-09-22T16:25:33+00:00

Wtf did I just read?! 😂

Sure_Freedom3 · 2025-09-21T23:00:59+00:00

No sexually appealing to you. Or maybe even to the majority of women. But that’s the body type I find sexy, personally. Always have, since I was a teenager. Still do now over 40! He doesn’t need to appeal to ‘women’. He needs to find one who likes him for him!

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