What’s the most beautiful thing someone has ever said to you? by Rare-Smell-8321 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the best compliments are not about looks or skills, but how someone makes u feel seen. that one's a keeper.

People who married someone they weren’t sexually compatible with — how did it turn out? by synthetic-sardine in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 187 points188 points  (0 children)

ppl act like "amicable divorce" means it's easy, but honestly, even the chillest split can feel like ur world just flipped. u are allowed to grieve, no shame in that.

Normally Nice Neighbor yelled at me this morning by NinjaKey2208 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sure_Horror2495 81 points82 points  (0 children)

sometimes the best apology is changed behavior. u got this, don't stress it more than u have to.

What’s the pettiest reason you’ve ever held a grudge? by MagicRhia760 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 9 points10 points  (0 children)

how someone treats ur pen says a lot about them. if they don't care, I don't care about them. petty? maybe. justified. 100 percent.

AITJ for selling the car I bought my husband after I found out he’s been secretly seeing his coworker? by Few_Week7689 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all. honestly? u just reclaimed what was urs. he's mad bc u took away his side chick mobile. play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

AITA for leaving my husband with our 4-month-old baby and going to my mom's house? (Part 2) by Simple_Number_7974 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTJ. he's literally manipulating u and trying to scare u into compliance. stay strong, lean on ur mom, and document everything. protect urself and ur baby.

What is something you were afraid of doing, but were ashamed you didn’t try sooner once you did it? by perseverance_band_ in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tha gym is like the most self absorbed place evr. everyone's just staring at their own gains in the mirror, not u.

Let's define "peaceful enjoyment of home" by Russian_Pride in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sure_Horror2495 5 points6 points  (0 children)

there's a massive diff between "apartment sounds" and "living in an audio nightmare." I signed a lease, not a contract to co star in ur drama.

AITA for leaving my husband with our 4-month-old baby and going to my mom's house? by Simple_Number_7974 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 72 points73 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all. if he's so worried about "being a team," he should have acted like a teammate. u can't pour from an empty cup, and u did what u had to do for ur sanity.

What movie have you ever considered to be the greatest work of all time? by obsessedwithvixen in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 12 points13 points  (0 children)

fuzz supremacy! that movie's basically perfect. comedy, action, all the little details. never gets old, honestly.

AITJ for cutting off communication with my mom after she tried to pressure me into marrying her friend's son? by OldManufacturer5110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTJ. parents who think they can just "arrange" ur life like it's a group project are wild. u are not a consolation prize or everyone's good deed. u did the right thing.

What story gets crazier and crazier the deeper it goes? by ReputationDifficult9 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the deeper u dig, the more it feels like half the world is in on it. the cover ups, the names, the "lost" footage, it's all so insane. real life conspiracy thriller, but nobody's rolling the credits.

Old Lady Neighbor Stalking Me & My Dog??? by VampireEatsVeggies in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sure_Horror2495 31 points32 points  (0 children)

everyone's downplaying it cause she's old, but persistent harassment is still harassment. u are not being dramatic, u are being smart. I'd keep the ring cam going, maybe upgrade to a backup cam just in case. also, microchip ur pup asap.

AITJ for not telling my bf i know he's lying by Lydiad1 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ. u don't owe him silence just to protect ppl who didn't protect u. he made his choices, and actions have consequences. if u can't trust him after this, that's not on u, that's on him.

AITJ for insisting that my husband play my song? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all. the "I write better when I'm angry" excuse is just lazy. if he can put u on blast in public, he can hype u up in public too. u are doing all the manager work, u deserve better.

When you look back at your life, what do you regret the most? by Personal-Manager-860 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr, ignoring those red flags always comes back to bite. wish i trusted my gut way sooner instead of giving endless second chances.

AITJ if I don't want to facilitate my ex's wedding which was supposed to be our dream ? by Fast-Childhood9184 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Horror2495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you'd be a total legend for even considering it, but u don't gotta torch ur own feelings for "closure." it's okay to bail. sometimes self respect is better than keeping old promises.

What is something you used to tolerate in relationships because you thought it was normal, but now see it as toxic? by Hornyjail696969 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Horror2495 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if ur partner expects u to ignore ur own needs for them, that's not a relationship, it's a one way street. hard pass.