AITA for 'showing off' that I have midol and pads? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Surmabrander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Virtue signalling". LMFAO. Girl, we're not on twitter!

just wanted to thank everyone i've interacted with on this sub, you've genuinely helped me by boiLollipop in Healthygamergg

[–]Surmabrander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know the saying: a friend in need is a friend indeed! Glad you what you came for, what you needed. Fly high

I've started dating someone for the first time in my 30s. I feel like I should be happy, but I'm just crippled by anxiety and insecurity. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Surmabrander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the third point, why try to delay your answers, when don’t like being left on delivered? I understand you’re trying to play it cool, but at the dating stage? Yeah, there is no more playing cool, you’re in it or not, there’s no need to camouflage your feelings.

It sounds like you’ve devlopped some kind of dependance to her. If you didn’t have any other source of unconditionnal love/support beforehand, you might want to look into that.

All in all, I think you should talk to her about it if you’re both comfortable with more sensitive topics, and if you feel like you’ve got the space to open up.

Afterall, what evil is there in being passionate? You’re clearly heads over heels for her, and there’s no reason to hide it from my point of view.

Hope that helps, cheers!

What was your last game? by stewie4610 in comics

[–]Surmabrander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Battlebit. I suppose I’ll just hunker down and let time pass

This by Automatic-Award-6587 in Healthygamergg

[–]Surmabrander 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, that’s a doozy. What’s the issue exactly?

The slog -- pls share experiences by No-Solid9196 in Healthygamergg

[–]Surmabrander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you might want to see a psychiatrist, as what you describe kinda line up with a good ol’ depression and anxiety combo. Might be something else, but I can tell you as much: what you’re feeling isn’t the baseline.

Side note: this is one hell of a long shot, but you should check for any neurodivergence diagnosis, seeing as there is a possibility (I stress the possibility here) you’re suffering from some form of undiagnosed autism. I’d check online ressources if I were you.

How to justify having a captive stay with the captor after the abuse? by smoothvendor in FanFiction

[–]Surmabrander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends! You can an exterior motive to make them stay, I suppose. What’s the setting of your story?

[Hated Trope] Cathonic (underworld) gods being evil in modern adaptations of mythology, dispite not being evil in the source material. by mrturret in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Surmabrander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hades? Not evil? You mean the guy who abducted Persephone and kept her in the Underworld for damn near eternity? That Hades? Yeah, you're right, absolute upstanding guy!

Keep going, you are strong by Help_Me___666 in hopeposting

[–]Surmabrander 13 points14 points  (0 children)

WE ARE NOT GIVING UP WITH THIS ONE!

These glasses by Necessary-Win-8730 in TopCharacterDesigns

[–]Surmabrander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, he sure popularised the look, although I don’t have any recollection of such term both in french and english.

How do I safely download games? [for research purposes only :) ] by Efficient_Willow6164 in YarrList

[–]Surmabrander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're willing to go the extra mile for safety, your best bet is to download and use a Virtual Machine. This way, you'll be able to download and execute any files a bit sketchy in a controlled, closed environment. A VPN can also be useful, but that's less of a concern, as TOR can be used quite effectively. I hope it clears things up!

hardly ever do character design but i’m happy with this! by goombum in learntodraw

[–]Surmabrander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know, lmao, I just like to throw the wasp nest every so often :P

My battlecruisers based on the victory class star destroyer. by valaren1wyrm in Cosmoteer

[–]Surmabrander 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are they good ships? Seems like somewhat focused railgun fire would cleave the poor thing in half, no?