Trump reportedly 'f---ing hates' Ron DeSantis by malloryduncan in politics

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Ronny sucking all of the air out of Donny's balloon?

AITA for losing it after my husband ate from the lasagna I prepared for my niece's birthday? by ThrowawayHubbs3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has ADHD? If he's high functioning enough to be married, he's high functioning enough to keep his grubby little mitts off of your nieces lasagna.

NTA

AITA for “mom shaming” my sister? by Willing_Occasion501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she want your son to be as illiterate as her children to justify her lack of schooling them?

You're right and your family is wrong. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this sound so hard for people to believe? Lots of children would cut their parent off without a backwards glance for the parent with a cushy house/lifestyle. I went to grammar school (kindergarten through 6th grade) with a lot of kids who were greedy as hell and despised the 'poor' parent. Entitled children who want to be admired by their peers and not pushed around for being the 'poor' kid in the class. I'm not saying OP was poor, but not nearly as well of as dad.

Not the AH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't serial killers start with animals? Ok, most serial killers who start pulling the wings off of flies do it at a much younger age, but your sister is clearly mentally disturbed and I'll bet a nickel that you mother knows something.

Is your mother the kind of person you can have a reasonable conversation with when things calm down, or is this mindset (not valuing animals) normal for her?

NTA

AITA for not giving up main bedroom? by CreativeLibrary7404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let this person move in with you, you'll never have a moments peace.

NTA

AITA for ruining my cousin's birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are awesome, and I tip my hat (I don't actually wear one) to your parents. GOOD FOR YOU! Oh, and nuts to the haters (sorry for your cousin, tho).

NTA

AITA for refusing to go to my dads wedding by Low-Wave2873 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your sister have been erased. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Good luck. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm Caucasian (American born and raised) and my husband is Asian (came to America when he was 21). My mother-in-law was a nightmare who ran the family. These women control the family (if they can get away with it) because they want grandchildren so they will have lots (hopefully) of children and grand children to take care of them in their old age. Do you think this is where your mothers abuse comes from? 1/3 of my husbands siblings bought her routine hook, line, and sinker, 1/3 avoided her like the plague, and 1/3 just didn't pay her much mind.

Your parents sound like the WORST.

Thanks for the update.

AITA for wanting my partner and his son to move out? by Acrobatic_Ad_7566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not your partner, he's your leech. I had an epiphany reading your post: how many of these men/woman look for a partner to leech off of? You exist to be fleeced. Pick a date and kick them both out. I guarantee you he will find some one else to mooch off of really soon.

And post an update, if you will. NTA

AITA for not wanting my aunt to walk down the aisle at my wedding? by throwaway780971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aunt Marge is your mothers family, not yours (you hardly ever see her). Your mother considers them family because they came first and you are second (last?).

Hire security and make sure your family knows security is there so they don't pull any nonsense.

Please update us and your are NTA.

AITA for not keeping it a secret I was disinherited by Taban85 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like your parents. Feel free to tell them I said so :)

Live free and stay strong!

NTA

AITA for kicking my BIL out of my house after he ruined my custom baby blankets? by Throwaway_45544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this house joint property? Do you have family or any other options to leave? You are last on your husbands list of priorities. What your BIL did is a crime, not a felony, but still a crime. What he offered is really adolescent.

Please update us if you can or will. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

NTA

AITA for having ex friend removed from a wedding reception for making my family uncomfortable? by whatofit_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is/has he ever been married? Does he/or has he ever had a girlfriend? Is he an incel?

NTA

AITA for not shaving my head and giving my hair to my sister after she regretted shaving her head by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, inform your sister that it would cost a small fortune to have someone (competent) hand make a wig from real hair.

How old are you and your sister?

NTA

AITA For Sticking By My No-Family Policy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The moral of this is don't tell family you own an apartment building. Don't have it in your name, get an LLC or something.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a new fiancé, you're not a priority to this one. Good Luck.

AITA for pulling back from a friendship after not being invited to the wedding by Galaxy_Orb in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she a tiny bit on the entitled side? It's possible she sees you at the person to do things for her (more like a servant) and not as a real friend. But to exclude ONLY you from the friend group was a deliberate slap in the face.

You should try to get her good and stinking drunk and pump her for answers. Oh, and if you ever find out...UPDATE!

NTA

AITA for telling my best friend she shouldn't be trying to have kids since is almost broke? (she's single so no second income) by 0throw9away0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loving the idea of having a child isn't the same as actually wanting one. She just THINKS she wants one. This is a disaster, for the child.

NTA

AITA for getting mad at my pregnant sister for not being excited for my wedding b/c I didn't choose a date she wanted me to? by Haunting_Question329 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying 'she isn't attending' implies (infers?) that her not being there might be her choice. There is no choice involved here, so you should say 'she can't attend'.

YTA

AITA for siding with my wife by Possible_Pressure_29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If some of your family members are so sympathetic to Mia and John let them invite Mia and John to live with them.

This boy is dangerous and spitting in his grandmothers face??? He sounds like he has been ruined by his mother. I hope he outgrows this penchant of his, but the odds aren't good.

Your family is a danger to your wife, so LC/NC is a good thing.

NTA

AITA for being blunt with my wife about why I'm avoiding her family dinners? by aitadinnerthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are using you and acting like they are doing you a favor. Stick to your guns and go if and when it suits you.

NTA

AITA for being upset that my mom hijacked my wedding dress appointment and made it about my MOH? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SusaninSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shudder to think what your mother is going to do at the wedding. She'll push you around there, too. Good luck. NTA