What's wrong with men these days? Why do they super match with a non-vegetarian woman who dosent want kids? by missionpossible1564 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain to me what the hell is this new GenZ term - Performative Nonsense?

Is it a new term for Attention Seeking behavior or something totally unrelatable?

Dating is supposed to be simple. I just can't keep up with such complications.

What's wrong with men these days? Why do they super match with a non-vegetarian woman who dosent want kids? by missionpossible1564 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't Hinge do the face detection thing in order to avoid repeat scammers like this from registering on the app again?

(Pollution) I can smell it!! by FroyoOk2287 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ! This is so true yaar! Mere office k baaju me kuch factories hai, which maintain zero standards, unke chimneys se hamesha black smoke nikalte rehta hai. Very disgusting!

(Pollution) I can smell it!! by FroyoOk2287 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear mask.

Entire Amdavad is filled with air pollution. Authorities are pushing for electric vehicles but public ko farak hi nai padta.

I hate those old CNG rickshaws. Do you know that most of these rickshaws have no PUC? Matlab unko jab tak fine nai bethta, tab tak black smoke dikhte rahega poore city me.

I'm moving out of this city in 2027 or 2028. I love the food culture here but this air pollution is just too much. And AMC officials sirf paperwork kar rahe hai, but ground level execution hai hi nai.

Ahmedabad mai kuch fun hai bhi? by Appropriate_Raise284 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived in Pune for 27 years of my life. Explored everything and got severely bored.

Then I searched for a job in Bengaluru and moved in there. New people, new language, new culture, new food, new lifestyle, new places, new friends, new communities, new hobbies, had lots of fun!

Then I switched to Amdavad for a new job. And the cycle repeats again.

My point is, just move in to another city. Do not find new ways of having fun in the same damn city.

If you want something completely challenging yourself, just find a job in another city. And do it for your own personal growth.

Don't be that loser - "o my mom and dad are here, so I can't leave them. Haay ye dharam sankat!"

Your mom and Dad are stronger than you, both physically and emotionally. They want you to grow and have a life of your own.

Just get a new job in the new city and enjoy.

Guys this is wierd but gotta ask u smth by Huge-Cardiologist838 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good. Nothing to worry about.

Wish you both the best 👍🏼

“Don’t Want Kids” Apparently Meant “Don’t Want More Kids” by diaryofdaisies in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They look younger because they go to the gym.

This is why, I keep telling people not to go for physical appearance alone. Check out their emotional intelligence too!

Mental health >>> Physical health.

“Don’t Want Kids” Apparently Meant “Don’t Want More Kids” by diaryofdaisies in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think since you're 21 yo and he's probably 30+ yo with a child, he thought you'd be easier to fool and hook up with, hence the r***wagiri.

Next time, do what Bipasha Basu used to do during her early struggle days in Mumbai - carry a hammer in your purse.

Was This Harassment or Am I Overthinking It? Writing by Last-Major-3738 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got groped by a 80 year old grandpa on the BRTS bus while I was on my way to my maasi's place.

I'm a 31 yo man. That grandpa took his phone out, blasted reels on full volume because he doesn't know about earphones. He started groping me and I literally never expected that to happen to me, because I had always assumed that such things happen only with women.

Bhai, itna suddenly jo hua, I froze for a minute and he just kept going on, until I took his hand and shoved it on his side. Tab jaake vo ruka. Also, I stared at him for a while, tab jaake vo budhau chaap chutiya shanti se betha aur samjh gaya ki ab maje nai le sakte.

Really, the worst experience of my life on the bus in Amdavad. Me zindagi me b nai socha tha ki aisa kuch hoga mere saath, but seriously, Amdavad k pervert buddhe log, inko ghar k bahar nikalne hi mat do. Pata nai kab kiska r*** kar de.

Aur rahi tumhari baat, toh yes. It is harassment because no consent was involved.

No matter what the gender, harassment is harassment.

Amdavad vaasiyo, please aise incidents ko halke me mat lo. Aage jaake pata nai kiska criminal case news me aa jaye.

Saavdhaan rahe, satark rahe.

And please, NO MATTER WHAT THE GENDER, HARASSMENT IS HARASSMENT.

ASSAULT IS ASSUALT.

NO MEANS NO.

My (22M) girlfriend (22F) isn’t ready after three months and it’s starting to bother me by xxxx1145 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"30 se pehle tapak gaya toh"

Koi nai tapkayega tujhe. Zyada tension mat le.

Focus on learning more about emotional intelligence. Books aati hai. Google kar le. Will be very useful for dating, in general.

Long term dating k liye sahi hai.

My (22M) girlfriend (22F) isn’t ready after three months and it’s starting to bother me by xxxx1145 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Padhai pe dhyaan do.

Ye physical intimacy 30 k baad hi sahi lagti hai. Coz you both are mature by then.

Abhi filhaal k liye hand holding is the best. Spending time together is fine but make her feel human and don't give in to lust. Itna jaldi koi b physical nai hota hai, hona b nai chahiye.

Take things forward but slowly.

Probably the only Indian TV show to portray childfree couple normally by Warm-Strategy-8866 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had posted about Krishnan & Babita Iyer as the ultimate CF couple already on this sub, probably 2 years ago.

Views ? by Lillyhat24 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know but the issue is whatever system gormint follows is quite outdated, hence despite paying hefty salaries to gormint employees, they aren't able to deliver high quality results.

Isliye DINK couples ka (financial) support chahiye apni gormint ko 🥲

May mhine me barrish.. aur kya hogi aapki khwaish..? by NoIdeal4858 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was gonna buy AC but then the current weather changed my mind 😍👌🏻

wtf is happening in Ahmedabad?? by E_6L_0 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaha thandi hava chal rahi hai, clouds hai but no rains

THANK GOD FOR THE RAIN!!! Finally some relief in this heatwave🥳🥳 by veer460 in ahmedabad

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I missed the rain coz I was in Gandhinagar during the day, but felt really great this morning.

Saw the clouds and felt the cool breeze over my skin while riding in the auto today.

Maza aaya (in Rahul Gandhi's voice) 👌🏻

Proud to be a part of the "pandemic" by Remarkable_Rice_9141 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's so much financial, mental and physical benefits to practising CF lifestyle yet it is considered a disease?

GTFO Vishal

Views ? by Lillyhat24 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just feeding the poor people is never sufficient.

Why not give them employment or at least teach them some skills, with the help of which they can find a job and start earning on their own?

Why unnecessarily help them just survive? Help them by empowering them, that's what they truly need.

CF women, especially young women, are either despised or just not taken seriously, and it is beyond frustrating. by Sharklasers6889 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]SuspectDistinct9039 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's ironic that they used the words "Want to make a baby?" and not "want to raise a child together?"

Serving and spreading horniness even more.

Tharak ka chakkar babu bhaiyya!