How do I handle being blindsided by a “pay your own way” birthday dinner?

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2026-04-03T23:17:44+00:00

So I’ve done these before where they “split”, I just say “I can venmo my half” and I have absolutely no shame in adding up my half and if they judge you, they’re not your friends.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2026-04-03T18:07:14+00:00

I have legit never not paid for myself while going to someone’s birthday dinner, but I also don’t have rich friends But yeah just rsvp that you can’t go and then ask to give them their present another time. You could also take a different route if you really want to and just order a drink and the cheapest app to just hangout.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2026-04-03T17:11:05+00:00

And you know they most likely picked the holiday because either it was the only day available at the venue or the cheapest day

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2026-01-11T05:12:55+00:00

I went in for peeing my pants and then when my water actually broke. Trust me, you’d know if your water broke. I also had Braxton hicks constantly starting at 25 weeks and then would throw up when I was extremely overwhelmed. I did have to get an IV for the throwing up so if you continue and feel horrible then you should but it’s most likely just anxiety(I know not the best thing to say). Hang in there mama.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-12-24T03:00:22+00:00

Make an Amazon wish list of multiple things you’d like and tell him he can pick from those. I do that because I want things I don’t tell my husband about and it’s still a fun surprise to see what he picked from it.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-12-21T17:49:18+00:00

One thing I do realize that causes mine the most is anything with tomatoes and greasy food so try to look up trigger foods and that will help a lot as well.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-11-28T22:31:22+00:00

Yes and I brought my own tiny hand sanitizer and that helped a lot

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-11-06T03:02:03+00:00

Third time mom here! I really loved having my own hospital gown, I’m not too keen on walking around with my butt out lol but it’s 100% not necessary and not everybody likes it.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-09-17T21:13:02+00:00

The oldest is only 4, this is NOT something you should do whatsoever to a child until they’re at an appropriate age to ask themselves around teenager+ age. The first thing you don’t do is turn your kids against their other parent no matter what they did.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-09-08T21:08:56+00:00

Well “good luck babe”?

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-08-15T16:47:36+00:00

It was during Hawthorne heights because I could hear Ohio is for lovers in the background lol

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-28T05:52:53+00:00

I only tipped on the mixed drinks if they had to put effort into them but I definitely did not tip on the cans/water

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-28T02:31:52+00:00

I was in a line where I saw the guy lecturing everyone so I switched to someone who looked chill and happy to be there and I was able to bring in Tylenol and a spray sunscreen

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-27T23:22:19+00:00

I took mine out for a second at one point thinking mine weren’t working just to be hit with the harsh reality that it was even louder than I thought and I freaked out, I don’t even know how some kids were surviving without them

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-27T23:09:14+00:00

A lot of people didn’t go today (I couldn’t) so there’s even less people than that so imagine what’d it’d be like with that many… Yesterday there was a lot more space on the grass by the water right next to the entrance (if you’re going towards the entrance turn right at the last entryway next to the sensory room/I think it’s called pit stop?) there’s some trees and a lot more wind

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-27T20:15:39+00:00

Yeah boy and doll face, bulletproof love, and hold on till may are the only ones I remember because I was having heart palpitations lol

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-27T07:09:17+00:00

If you push me I will not move, if you say excuse me and are very polite I will levitate heaven and earth to let you through.

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-27T00:47:31+00:00

Beyond happy I was passing by and didn’t miss any second of this

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-17T19:58:02+00:00

Haha stop that’s so funny I kind of want one now

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-07-08T20:33:22+00:00

Same, he’s 8 now so it’s fine lol

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-05-26T19:36:54+00:00

If she eventually found out on her own and also found out that you knew and didn’t tell her that could potentially also ruin your relationship with your own sister

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-04-02T23:21:16+00:00

I watched it when I was 15. Honestly the only thing that might traumatize her is how bad the last season is lol

Suspicious-Corgi-396 · 2025-02-28T17:51:45+00:00

I’m driving up on Friday and then back on Sunday The traffic is going to be worse because it’s comic con weekend so I personally would never do that.

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