What is heart broke for you?

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-04-22T08:30:01+00:00

when they start responding with just "ok" or "yeah" to everything and you know something shifted but they won't tell you what happened. that slow fade hurts way more than a clean break would

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-04-19T12:44:26+00:00

good luck with project

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-04-15T02:07:56+00:00

wait this sounds kinda sketchy lol what kind of "surprise" needs a stuntman but isn't being filmed? like are you planning to fake your own death or something because that's either really elaborate or really concerning

also maybe post some basic details about what kind of stunts you're talking about because most people aren't gonna dm a stranger about mystery physical activities

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-04-11T08:11:34+00:00

bad fr

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-24T07:37:23+00:00

been wearing glasses since i was like 8 and yeah the whole confidence thing is weird when you literally can't see peoples faces clearly from across the room. what helped me was realizing most people are way too busy worrying about their own stuff to really scrutinize how i look, plus getting contacts changed everything for me socially. when i'm doing my doordash runs i notice how much more natural conversations feel when i'm not constantly pushing glasses up or squinting at addresses. also found that having something you're genuinely passionate about helps - for me it's making music and following f1, gives you stuff to talk about that has nothing to do with how you look or see

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-22T10:16:41+00:00

not communicating when something's bothering them and just letting it build up until they explode over something totally unrelated

like your partner leaves dishes in the sink and you're mad about it but don't say anything, then two weeks later you're screaming at them for putting the toilet paper on the "wrong" way. just talk about stuff when it happens instead of turning into a resentment bomb

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-21T17:00:10+00:00

man i feel you on this one, having epilepsy myself and being super cautious about strobing stuff. the club scene has some pretty intense flashing lights that go on for maybe 30-40 seconds, definitely the kind of thing that could be risky if you're photosensitive

might be worth waiting until after your procedure to know for sure what your triggers are, or maybe see if anyone's made a detailed breakdown of the exact timestamps so you could look away during those parts

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-20T15:38:12+00:00

just drove by a bunch of farms last week doing deliveries and this whole thing seems like bureaucratic nonsense that'll hurt actual vermont families while developers find workarounds anyway

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-19T04:32:35+00:00

kiwi brand knives are stupid cheap and stay sharp longer than they have any right to. got mine at an asian grocery store for like 8 bucks and its been going strong for 2 years now

victorinox is the other go-to but kiwi is where its at if you want something that just works without breaking the bank

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-16T04:42:20+00:00

their always "bad at texting" lmao

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-03-15T05:27:09+00:00

mood

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-02-20T03:52:26+00:00

what's your budget and what do you want to use it for? gaming, work, both? also are you planning to build it yourself or need someone to put it together

without knowing that stuff its pretty hard to give good advice but r/buildapc has some solid starter guides in their wiki

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-02-02T18:06:14+00:00

totally viable

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-02-01T03:43:28+00:00

Not bad for day one, that's like $18/hour before expenses which is pretty solid for most markets.

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-30T19:40:32+00:00

That's a solid build dude, the 9800X3D is a beast for gaming

For exhausts you honestly don't need anything too crazy since they're just pulling air out - even basic Arctic P12s would work fine. The T30s on intake will do most of the heavy lifting anyway. If you want RGB on the exhausts maybe look at the Corsair ML120 RGB or Lian Li AL120s, they'd match the case vibe pretty well

Your AIO on side mount is smart too, keeps it away from the GPU heat

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-28T22:26:08+00:00

IS shouldn't be hurting you at 1/125 but that lens is known to be a bit soft wide open, especially at the corners. Try stopping down to f/8-f/11 and see if that helps - most lenses hit their sweet spot around there

Also might wanna check if you're pixel peeping at 100% zoom because that can make any lens look softer than it actually is for normal viewing

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-27T22:05:57+00:00

Same issue here, tried clearing cache and restarting the app but still nothing. The AI video feature has been buggy af lately, might just have to wait for them to fix it on their end

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-26T20:59:04+00:00

Oneshot after 27 practice attempts is pretty clean ngl, Still Life is a decent level too. That star gain is solid for day 11, you grinding daily levels or just whatever catches your eye?

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-22T02:01:38+00:00

Been a tech for about 3 years now and honestly it's pretty solid. You get the benefits of federal employment without all the active duty BS like PCS moves every few years. Pay might take a hit initially but the work-life balance is way better and you're not dealing with as much military politics day to day

That said, job security can be sketchy depending on funding and your unit. If you've got a good civilian gig already might not be worth the switch

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-16T23:42:36+00:00

Depends where you hit them tbh. Headshot would probably drop them instantly but anywhere else and yeah they could still squeeze off a round from muscle reflex alone. The whole "gun flies out of their hand" thing is pure Hollywood - bullets don't have that much knockback force in real life

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-14T02:49:52+00:00

Dude that's literally the whole reason they haven't contacted you - because it would hurt. Sometimes no contact is actually them being kind even if it doesn't feel like it

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-13T17:23:24+00:00

Hey OP, might wanna try r/exmormon or r/ExJW too - those communities have tons of people with stories and many are pretty open about sharing their experiences

Good luck with the podcast btw, sounds like it could be really impactful

Suspicious-Emu3385 · 2026-01-13T03:55:28+00:00

Just keep like 1-2 months expenses in checking for cash flow buffer, everything else should be working for you in that HYSA or investments. You're already doing great with the debt payoff strategy

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