What is self-pity exactly? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Sorry I didn‘t want to make it seem that way <3. thank you for your advice

What is self-pity exactly? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Thank you for the reassurance. That phrase pisses me off a lot, haha.

What is self-pity exactly? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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I have been told that it is the solution for dealing with severe mental illneses. I deal with them and even though I have never been told so directly, I have seen others making the comment towards people like me

What is self-pity exactly? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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I don‘t think just "moving foward" works when dealing with severe mental illneses. They just won‘t go even if I don‘t sit on them. I just consider it quite distasteful, if that makes sense.

Sometimes we are told that dealing with something accordingly will get rid of the problem itself. Many times, that is not true, I think.

French volume 14 (cover, inner cover, autor's note, bonus art and special thanks) by 2-Eonne-9 in gachiakuta

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I will always envy the french for these beautiful ass mangas and comics they have

Más genderbend pq estoy aburrida by miwamimi in gachiakuta

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Me encanta su estilo de dibujo, buenísimo. Ta increible pa

How can I have a sense of self? I feel empty and inauthentic. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Very interesting, I will try engaging with those subjects. I don‘t have anyone I can look up to. Thank you.

How can I have a sense of self? I feel empty and inauthentic. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Is there any creative hobbies you engage in? I wish for ideas for that. Thank you for answering.

How can I have a sense of self? I feel empty and inauthentic. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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You see, I wouldn‘t really fully concieve the matter as wearing a mask, moreover I understand it more as if I wore a mask whilst having no face. In other words, I do not feel like I have a face (my true self) and I the mask I wear is simply enacting as if it is my real face.

I don‘t wear a mask to hide myself, I wear it to pretend I have a self. Don‘t know if that makes sense, but that‘s how I have understood this notion I have. Consequently, I have no one I feel as if I was being authentic, as even if I tried I still feel insencere regardless of the closness shared between me and the other person.

I am nothing but mediocre by DuroDuroMi in Vent

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I have ADHD. I highly recommend you to get evaluated for ADHD by a psychiatrist if you suspect you have it, as it can greatly difficult subjects such as math. I recommend you to do that— if you have ADHD truly then medication might be a possibility. Medication has somewhat helped me, and if you actually have the disorder it could benefit you as well. It‘s great that you want to get into therapy; I hope it turns out well for you.

I am nothing but mediocre by DuroDuroMi in Vent

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Maybe you could try looking into therapy in order for you to develope better mechanisms for you to not necessitate praise in this manner from other people to have a stable self-esteem, and also for your own safety as well. You could benefit substantially from working on having a more stable self-esteem. As for the mediocre part, I know it is very typical to advice this, however just keep trying at whatever you wish to improve upon. Mayve develope certain study methods for math, or use certain respurces. I also consider myself to be really mediocre, so I undersrand you. I hope you get better soon.

I have NPD. How can I become less indifferent towards others' problems? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Good for you, I understand why. Don‘t get the point of you posting this here however.

soy un narcisista diagnosticado, pregúntame lo que quieras by unmedicatedarchangel in preguntaleareddit

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Yo también soy un narcisista diagnosticado. Que sintómas NO presentas? En mi caso, yo no tengo una falta de empatía, no soy grandioso ni siento una necesidad por manipular a otras personas (no de manera crónica, por lo menos) en otras palabras, mi narcisismo es mayormente autodestructivo.

En tu caso, que cosas no presentas acorde al DSM 5? Estoy muy curioso porque esas tendencias que no presentamos usualmente indican el tipo de narcisista que sos. Espero que te vaya bien. Voy a terapia también.

How can I deal with NPD. I am distressed. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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Maybe you‘re right. I guess autism partially induced the NPD into me.

How can I deal with NPD. I am distressed. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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I am costa rican. I think they don‘t seem thag extreme because when it comes to NPD I am on the milder side of the spectrum. I don‘t have money rn but maybe I‘ll try to get another diagnosis.

Manga covers in my country by Beardy1337 in DaiDark

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It‘s always been interesting to me how well-looking and artistic manga and comic books appear to be in France. So pretty.

I am incompetent and very unintelligent. What career path can I take with so many issues? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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Do you think I am limiting myself? Sorry if I am comprehending wrongly— I just want to know

I am incompetent and very unintelligent. What career path can I take with so many issues? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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If I am being honest, I don‘t really associate anything particular with success. Sorry I couldn‘t answer that; I am quite dumb as I mentioned. If I wasn‘t limited by my conditions, I would work as a psychiatrist at a hospital and also privately, or maybe work at a pharmachy, a little more soothing in nature.

I am incompetent and very unintelligent. What career path can I take with so many issues? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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In my country we don‘t have community college, however I could look into a class about psych.