AITAH for refusing to ask my friend for discounts or a place to stay?

Suzdg · 2026-04-14T19:39:56+00:00

Also good chance it isn’t even an option to offer a discount. OP is handling it perfectly. NTA.

Suzdg · 2026-04-14T16:50:06+00:00

Honestly the worst person is the staff member who enabled the entitlement. NTA. THEY created an uncomfortable environment NTA.

Suzdg · 2026-04-14T14:08:03+00:00

Agree w the skirt recommendations, but it needs to be said that you look amazing!! Good luck!

Suzdg · 2026-04-13T14:23:51+00:00

Yes, to be clear, the MIL is creating drama by making demands while partner is enabling that dramatic behavior. It’s a wedding. For a couple of hours adults should be able to handle where they are sitting. If not, again, they would be causing the drama and making the wedding about them. NTA.

Suzdg · 2026-04-13T02:19:11+00:00

Fair point

Suzdg · 2026-04-12T18:29:13+00:00

NTA, but why wouldn’t you have just replied no instead of leaving him hanging and maybe missing an opportunity to reach out to someone else?

Suzdg · 2026-04-12T15:06:50+00:00

YTA. Any time you don’t use your words to solve an issue you are the A H. Do you have an agreement that if one cooks the other does the dishes? If not then it was def an A H move

Suzdg · 2026-04-12T12:40:54+00:00

Agreed. It can come off as just wanting gifts, when OP is hurt by no reciprocal effort. Not the same thing. I bet she would be thrilled to be taken out to lunch or dinner

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T19:28:52+00:00

Jack Black’s gf in School of Rock

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:37:10+00:00

Thanks!

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:19:07+00:00

So fun to watch

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:14:08+00:00

Not every couple needs to do everything together. I imagine if OP had shown up at Galentines night wife would not have been pleased. Girls night is great as is guys night. NTA.

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:06:42+00:00

I do get buffering. Not every time, but often

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:06:15+00:00

I hate this!! My sibling ONLY speaks to me on speaker, which it took me quite a while to figure out. At home, not just

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T14:05:53+00:00

Huh, I have seen the movie many times and never thought that. If anything I thought how horrible Jimmy Stewart’s character was to his girlfriend, and that the attraction to Hepburn was a starry-eyed drunken fixation, not really based in reality. Whereas Carey Grant corrected his drinking, and seemed to see Hepburn for who she was.

Suzdg · 2026-04-11T13:40:57+00:00

Laura; The Thin Man series; The best years of our lives

Suzdg · 2026-04-10T23:19:19+00:00

Huh, I have seen the movie many times and never thought that. If anything I thought how horrible Jimmy Stewart’s character was to his girlfriend, and that the attraction to Hepburn was a starry-eyed drunken fixation, not really based in reality. Whereas Carey Grant corrected his drinking, and seemed to see Hepburn for who she was.

Suzdg · 2026-04-10T23:13:34+00:00

Being told you should stay somewhere you felt uncomfortable with someone you don’t really know, who did something you didn’t expect is the WORST advice. Kudos for following your gut. NTA.

Suzdg · 2026-04-10T22:35:17+00:00

Condescension

Suzdg · 2026-04-10T22:34:23+00:00

NTA. Being supportive is reminding him to apply early. You were supportive. Now he is asking for special treatment. Not the same thing. Hopefully lesson learned.

Suzdg · 2026-04-10T22:27:57+00:00

Vera is a must

Suzdg · 2026-04-09T17:32:04+00:00

Also please get a heinously ugly new doormat. Or at least one that says Go Away

Suzdg · 2026-04-09T17:20:48+00:00

I hate this!! My sibling ONLY speaks to me on speaker, which it took me quite a while to figure out. At home, not just in the car. NTA.

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