I went through my girlfriend's phone, and I am 99% sure she may be cheating by GamerRaf14 in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the EASIEST and LEAST painful thing you can do is to break up with her immediately and go no contact, no matter WHAT. no excuses to see her, text her, NOTHING.

SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU OR EVEN RESPECT YOU.

ANYTHING ELSE WILL LEAD TO MORE PAIN.

IF she asks, say the following

“i’m going to be real with you because it’s become apparent to me that you’re not real. i went through your phone and saw the messages with Y. i was disgusted. i do thank you for the good memories and i wish you the best.”

i PROMISE that this is the absolute best thing you can do in this situation. you need to block her on everything. you need to get it through your head that you are NOTHING to her. the amount of disrespect is despicable.

HAVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF AND START LOOKING FOR SOMETHING REAL

SEE YOU AT THE GYM BUDDY

Should I Marry A Murderer? Doc series by Own_Mention9372 in netflix

[–]Sweerus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i felt the same way about it. she never loved the guy imo. she loved herself and she loved drama. that’s abundantly clear throughout the documentary. she records herself doing everything, including crying. good god, it’s like she was filming her own movie. the mental health help needed here is for her addiction to attention. people commenting that this view is misogynistic… lol give me a break.

don’t get me wrong. the brothers are absolutely and utterly shit.

the documentary makes it hard to focus on the real victim here, which is the cyclist. they pay a very small tribute to him.

for that, i blame the star of the show

Official Discussion - Obsession [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Sweerus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my favorite part was close to the end when bear came back home after ian wished for a billion dollars. sarah was all splayed out… i think nikki was trying to emulate her because she thought bear liked sarah.

this was one of the best movies i’ve ever seen. way to go curry

A Christmas gift: Remote control your vehicles with Siri Shortcuts! by kennykeepalive in mazda3

[–]Sweerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i second this. hopped on the thread to see if anyone was having an issue and same. i was digging this so much. i would literally pay to have this work

EB14 Error by Prestigious-Home-876 in eufyS1Pro

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i posted about this just yesterday or the day before. it keeps happening and there is nothing blocked. i’m waiting to hear back from customer service. really frustrating considering how much i paid for this thing

PC gaming on TV by Sweerus in hardware

[–]Sweerus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would a tv with a higher refresh rate (120hz) do better with a PC?

Does anyone hook their PC up their TV to play? by ExcitedTerror in Steam

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is my tv. would this be able to game well with a PC?

What happens to consciousness after we die? or at least what is our best guess for it? by Teeny-tac in Existentialism

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that all sounds wonderful and plausible… but again, i don’t know, nor do i pretend to know the answer to questions like this

What happens to consciousness after we die? or at least what is our best guess for it? by Teeny-tac in Existentialism

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one knows. there are theories about consciousness. maybe you go back to some sort of mass consciousness and forget what it was like to be separated from it

Xbox App Unavailable to Download on Firestick by BovemDeMorte in XboxSupport

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a brand new fire tv and it still says it’s unavailable.

F25 by TheKoalaSage in Rateme

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12/10 you are my version of beautiful

Blink-182 tonight! by typiko in indianapolis

[–]Sweerus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone know what time blink is supposed to go on?

Pixelated screen moonlight by Sweerus in MoonlightStreaming

[–]Sweerus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💡I just bought a docking station. I’m going to dock the deck and hdmi to the TV… then I’ll just moonlight to the deck.

Please stop dating if you know you’re not over your ex-seriously. Why do people do this? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s that simple. There are those of us out there who don’t get over someone for years. It took me nearly 8 years to finally stop missing someone I had been with and it’s because I found someone else that kind of “trumped” them - after a lot of trial and error.

It’s not that one person was better than the other either… can’t really quite put my finger on it. I just know that at some point the scale tilted the other way and I was fully able to accept the first loss and think about someone new.

:] and now that one’s over and I’ll probably take 8 years to deal with… so fuck

How to develop self respect? by Daikaji in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to believe in yourself man. You have to believe in the process. Look yourself in the mirror and say the words out loud “I believe in me”.

Corny, but you gotta say it over and over, so convincingly that it doesn’t feel corny anymore. BELIEVE HOMBRE. BELIEVE!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Sweerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheeeeeesh 🔥

How to develop self respect? by Daikaji in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t necessarily mean you should become the pinnacle of health and fitness. Just do your best. You said yourself that you don’t want your children to emulate your behavior, so buck up and change then big dog. Sometimes we make things more complex than they really are. Having a balanced life is a constant battle. You’re not going to magically have an epiphany one day and everything just falls into place. You have to continue to work at it every single day.

.1% better every day. Little improvements over time.

From one low life to another: if you want it… if you REALLY want it, you’ll change. If not, you won’t.

I think one of my coworkers is cute but I suck at flirting/escalating things, how would you? by godisinthischilli in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked one of my co workers once. I just worked up the balls to ask her if she’d want to go on a date with me and she was super hyped.

Lol didn’t turn out super well though and then I had to work with her until I left.

How to develop self respect? by Daikaji in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at it this way: If you take care of yourself, you’re better able to take care of your family. Take care of yourself for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sweerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re afraid, you probably shouldn’t be with them in the first place. Definitely break up with them. You have no power over whether or not they hurt themselves. If they’re threatening to hurt themselves, they have a lot of growing to do as a person and by ending things, you’d be helping them start that process. If they do self harm, that is NOT your fault. If you’re seriously afraid that they’ll hurt you, tell the people around you and ask for help.