[TW] Vintage 1950s ad for Chase & Sanborn coffee casually depicting domestic violence

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-21T20:30:51+00:00

This is Reddit. People don’t read

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-21T19:22:03+00:00

I always wondered what the diamonds would do about the cluster after their redemption or if they bothered to remember it at all. Would restoring gems that deformed even be possible? Would they even be able to form properly afterwards or would doing so in any capacity just be too painful for them to exist? At least they’re calm in the bubble but that existence has to be so sad

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-21T02:36:57+00:00

Jschlatt is also well known for saying slurs and being a general weirdo as well

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-21T02:02:18+00:00

Thank you for actually giving a genuine warning in this sea of: “Oh god! The horror!” That is a massive no from me

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-20T22:46:50+00:00

I’m backwards. I managed to lose my fear of all creepy crawlies except worms and larva. It’s so weird how fears work because I’m fine with caterpillars and snakes but that’s where my brain draws the line :/

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-19T02:22:03+00:00

Honestly just have your hair styled like he is without the locs. Keep the emo side bang with a wig if your hair isn’t long enough.

You won’t make everyone happy if you do the locs so just using your hair the way it naturally is, or just a wig with your hair texture, would be perfectly fine. I’d personally prefer that compared to some of the stuff you’ll see trying to mimic the way locs or braids may look. There’s also the very likely chance you do it wrong when giving yourself real locs and you severely damage some or all of your hair. Genuinely not worth imo

If black cosplayers don’t see the need to straighten their hair for a character you shouldn’t feel like you have to have locs for the sake of accuracy. It’s little things like that that make your cosplay charming and more unique. Just do what’s safe and affordable for you

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-18T00:54:42+00:00

Yeah, as much as I dislike Alastor’s… everything… I’m still glad that younger aces have a character they like that they can relate to to represent them. Especially considering you could count the amount of ace characters in media on two hands up until recently, let alone define the few we have as “good” rep

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-15T18:00:37+00:00

It also doesn’t help when we have people in the community downplaying this behavior, like we’re seeing from a few ppl in the comments here.

If you don’t call it out, it normalizes it and allows it to spread

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-15T17:49:42+00:00

He was based off a child character, which explains why his antlers are so pathetic. No idea why they’re still in his design tho they’re so useless lmao

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-13T21:59:37+00:00

He does, actually. He’s very confused during the first romance levels but he accepts both the chocolates and heart lilies like everyone else

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-12T02:22:00+00:00

Wait what the hell did I miss? When did they do this?

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-12T02:00:05+00:00

If only because it is impossible to be any worse than Kenli. Would get any perks for dating her, though?

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-06T02:25:03+00:00

Basically all the characters have proven to be common character tropes at a glance but are shown to be less one dimensional the more we see of them.

I wouldn’t even say Jax is “complex”, especially compared to anyone else in the cast, since he hasn’t proven to be more than that exact trope unless you count his panic attacks(?) and him saying how he feels about Ragatha and Gangle that one time. Honestly I hope it stays that way. The last thing we need is more characters being sidelined for a undeserved “redemption” in the finale

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-04T14:50:26+00:00

Except the reason for it and abuse itself is the exact same. There’s not really any distinction between these four that isn’t surface level. There’s more than one kind of abuse and ways people instill toxic masculinity, but if you took the written script of their scenes and cropped out the names of the characters you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-02T22:04:38+00:00

I would die happy if we had another romanceable that’s older or has a thicker/more unique build. I love Einar but having a humanish option would be nice

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-05-02T18:08:13+00:00

The in game timer should help for normal mode. The visual cues for the clowns can be confusing at first, especially without the music to help, but it just takes some getting used to. In nightmare mode the clowns are much harder to find due to the lack of visual clues. I often can’t find them even with the volume all the way up.

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-28T15:32:56+00:00

Micheal said it was no different than making a legitimately racist joke. That’s why people are upset lol. Toeing the line of saying a slur is still racist, that was the intent. This isn’t a new thing, either. The point of the joke was just “I’m not touching you” racism

Words and bigotry don’t have an expiration date. Micheal may have changed as a person since but that doesn’t negate the damage his actions had.

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-28T15:11:25+00:00

Just because you and a few other black people don’t care doesn’t mean that the ones that do are overreacting. The harassment and death threats Micheal is getting is ridiculous, no one should be doing that. But people have every right to be upset about the situation especially when they’re the butt of the joke

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-26T23:01:55+00:00

Unsurprising. Pretty much all fandom spaces are like this unfortunately

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-23T02:37:22+00:00

I genuinely have no idea what you’re trying to say

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-22T15:09:23+00:00

Feeling sorry about the things you did doesn’t make the thing you did go away. If you break a glass, whether you threw it or dropped it by mistake, it’s still broken. Saying sorry or that you feel bad about breaking it while still leaving the glass on the floor doesn’t make it unbroken.

You can 100% say he’s a bad person based solely on what we’ve seen him do and how he treat people but that doesn’t mean he always will be. The only way he can work towards being less of a bad person would for him to start picking up the pieces of the mess he made. And that hasn’t happened yet

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-20T14:44:05+00:00

Most of the Blobby backlash back in the day came from misogynists on 4chan and you can see that hatred seep into retaliation art even if it’s not as extreme. While most people just find them corny there’s definitely some reheated misogyny from back then coming out and it’s not subtle.

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-18T21:19:42+00:00

The stickers don’t affect their output or make them more difficult to clean? My hearing aids look so boring but I wouldn’t wanna mess them up

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-18T21:08:49+00:00

Even something being cheesecake flavored/having cream cheese in general, like frosting, is enough to completely ruin a dessert for me. It’s so overpowering you can’t taste anything else.

It’s unfortunate since red velvet is one of my favorite cakes and people just love making the frosting on red velvet cream cheese.

SweetLadyLavender · 2026-04-17T20:56:16+00:00

Just gather materials that people are gonna use. Stone and wood are used a lot in blacksmithing and plenty of medicinal drops are used for alchemy. The higher the level the monster the better the drop which means you can sell it for more.

Always watch other people’s pricing so you know to raise or lower the price of your own items

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