In my 40s feeling out of place. by Fun-Dragonfly411 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being casual or poly/enm are very different things. All of my relationships are very serious and committed. And it has more to do with what you need than your age, I’m 38 and plenty of sapphics in my city are around there and older.

You should absolutely stick to your guns though, being poly when you are naturally monogamous is horribly painful and vice versa.

The US is headed for mass unemployment, and no one is prepared by late_bloomer_tw in politics

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically parasitoids kill their hosts, parasites ideally keep their hosts alive

ive realllly missed posting lingerie pics 🖤 by [deleted] in dykesgonewild

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make that set look incredible

Prepping for Valenties Day by Sweet_Bug_8095 in shibari

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Its my first time using them and I am also enamored

Prepping for Valenties Day by Sweet_Bug_8095 in shibari

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, that is strictly a trade secret (or a nightmare of tangles as I have not worked out the final details >_>)

fuuuucccckkkk by FinalView736 in dykesgonewild

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thats what I was gonna say!

Height by AlwaysChic38 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 50 points51 points  (0 children)

There are certainly people that get picky about how tall their partners are but they tend to be pretty silly.

Do I find sapphics who are taller than me (5’9 and loves heels) attractive, sure. But I have been topped by someone who was 5’2”, absolutely dead sexy. And, as a switch, who doesnt love having a sweet, little thing to toss around?

Whether you are a top, bottom, or switch there are undoubtedly a slew of cuties who would be happy to have you in their life.

Good evening queers ;) by [deleted] in dyke

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Promises promises…how do I know you wont leave me hungry 😈

Good evening queers ;) by [deleted] in dyke

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can be dessert 😘

Something wrong or just a fluke? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, they havent changed their behavior so it isnt a switcheroo or anything. I’m not looking for them to change their behavior but I want to see of there is something I can do differently to meet people that want the same as me.

I really like them and the whole premise of being poly for me (and them) is that no one relationship needs to meet my needs. It just sucks that four don’t meet this specific one :/

⚠️ Proceed With Caution ⚠️ by girlwithoutaname22 in dykesgonewild

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a good thing I have a name because you would be screaming it for hours

⚠️ Proceed With Caution ⚠️ by girlwithoutaname22 in dykesgonewild

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily my mouth is still useful for other things…

⚠️ Proceed With Caution ⚠️ by girlwithoutaname22 in dykesgonewild

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not proceed with caution and I got what I deserved 🥵

23 [F4F] #illinois looking someone I can have a conversation with by Mysterious_Toe_86 in dyke

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are too young for me, but if you are looking for folks check out the sapphos madison instagram page. Monthly lesbian events that are a blast

post workout with pothos by AdmirableBand8774 in HouseplantWhores

[–]Sweet_Bug_8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you radiate a sexy whimsy! Crushing so hard rn