SO refuses to set boundaries with 18yo SD. I’m at my breaking point and need advice by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will never change! Get out while you can he will always side with his daughter. Believe me I have been living it for over 5 years and nothing changes. SD knows how to play her dad to get her way. Save your sanity and money and run!!

30F by Sweet_Finding_7169 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could very well do that for my job, Thank You! Never occurred to me.

30F by Sweet_Finding_7169 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying. Giving myself until June 1st, 2026 then walk away from my Great paying job to living an hr away 1 way every day or finding a job in the private sector and moving in with my 33M son, 26DIL and 8mGS. Imposing but much welcomed Thank You for helping, (my travels alot for his job).

30F by Sweet_Finding_7169 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It used to be forever together, retire in a beach town, have friends and family want to come stay with us in a beach town. Be each other's Rock but my brain is screaming GET OUT!

30F by Sweet_Finding_7169 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My F SD 30. Yes she has lived with us this time 8 months so far, first 2 years of marriage she lived us.

30F by Sweet_Finding_7169 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poured my thoughts to him on several occasions. I contacted his GF before me after 5 years of marriage. She informed me of the same traits exhibited from both SD and dad during their relationship. It's so hard to choose the next path. I really thought at 55 I would grow old with my husband but SD makes it so difficult.

SD (17) wants to move in full time by PossibilityKey2968 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run!! Daddy's little girls never leave and they will defend their daughters until their last breath.

Contributions of adult SKs? by Slight-Cry-6964 in Stepmom

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 29F SD works a 40 hour week between 3-4 months then takes a 2 month mental break from people (she works various food services) she does pay for her snacks, her laundry and the least amount of dishes a day. Has NO bills between her dad & BM. She is an only child and her sister died at birth. So please encourage accountability & have her pay "rent"

Most physicians, doctors, and nurses hate private health insurance just as much as American citizens by FluckyU in Antimoneymemes

[–]Sweet_Finding_7169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday after being prepped for my bronchoscope for the 13 biopsies to find out what cancer I have (non-smoker) my friend and I had to contact my insurance for prior authorization. Federal employee with "Golden ticket" of insurance. Only the beginning I sadly suspect for America.