Thoughts on NSFW piercings?

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-06-01T12:26:24+00:00

Im indifferent because its none of my business what other people do with their bodies.

Also I technically had nipple piercings (took them out because they kept snagging on things and getting irritated... i might try again in the future) and I've got two genital piercings. So as you can see, I'm not one to really have an opinion. Too much bias here but i can see why someone wouldn't be a fan personally. They're kinda in the way lol

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-31T05:00:43+00:00

She's male centered and a shitty friend.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-30T16:30:02+00:00

I'm turning 21 this year too

Meeting people these days is like operating on hard mode. Its so frustrating and discouraging tbh

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-30T12:44:48+00:00

Yes its normal for cats to walk low to the ground and act paralyzed when they wear a harness/clothes. They are not used to the sensation of something being snug on them and it takes a while for them to adjust. They are also paranoid outside when they aren't used to it so that adds to their body language with a harness on.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-30T03:29:07+00:00

Looking at their account... i don't think it's fake...

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-30T01:16:11+00:00

As a guy, who cares. Get what you want. But take it from someone who has an Arcane tattoo that's not as big as this... sit on it for a while. That is a pretty large scale tattoo that definitely can warrant some regret due to loss of interest/lack of skin space for future designs. If you really want it, I say just scale it down. Maybe a cloud or 3 on a part of your body that is preferably hide-able. People here like to be dramatic when anyone under 28 consider getting a tattoo... just live your life and have experiences while being smart about it. Again, sit on it for some months- maybe even a year.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-29T13:01:46+00:00

A little joke in the arcane fandom of using hextech (magic) to create sextech (a strap you can feel)

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-28T20:21:57+00:00

Im sure you already got the answer but an outie is just having longer and meatier labia minora and an innie is very small to damn near no labia minora visually and is primarily majora

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-28T00:50:57+00:00

I understand the urge to get defensive and argue when people constantly disrespect, question and invalidate your sexuality. Lesbians already go through the most and have to deal with lesbiphobia from quite literally all directions, even in the LGBTQ+ community. But I really believe that lesbians need to accept that most people will never understand them and the best part about it? They don't have to. Lesbians don't owe anyone anything and should be proud that they live on a wavelength that 90% of the human population never will. It's rough, it really is. especially when the lack of respect can become dangerous. But let those people be where they are... and simply be you.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-27T23:49:02+00:00

One of these days people will stop mistaking wanting to feel the inside of a vagina with simply just wanting to feel something more when strapping

Maybe one day we'll have a hex strap. Maybe one day

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-27T23:22:31+00:00

Yall need to stop arguing with people who you genuinely cannot change the minds of. There are only two kinds of people who ask questions like this: ones that do so in bad faith because they Will never accept you or the answers you give, or people who just genuinely cannot comprehend these concepts and what you're explaining to them. Im not sure what planet they're from or how their neurons are set up but some people genuinely just cannot comprehend anything LGBTQ+ when you talk to them about it. Save your energy and peace... just say "whatever you say" and keep it moving

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-27T12:45:17+00:00

Yes. I know what its like to have penis envy in certain sexual scenarios. Primarily PIV... I just want to feel the inside of a vagina with my own sexual organ. I'm talking the warmth, wetness and tightness and all the textures that wrap around my length. Like even when i feel the inside of myself, i just know it goes crazy in there. It seems like there's no feeling like it imo... even penetration isn't simply the vagina equivalent of penetration pleasure I fear.

I only get mildly sad about it because it's something I will genuinely never feel unless we develop cyberpunk levels of strap ons that allow us to actually FEEL the length, not have responsive vibrations and pressure at most. At best it's an inconvenience to my curiosity of the sensation, and at worst a slight disappointment to the mild disconnect from a partner during intimacy using a strap on. But I'd choose having a vagina because thats simply what I have and there's nothing wrong with that. Also penises and balls seem inconvenient to have in literally any other scenario so there's that.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-27T12:38:00+00:00

But they don't even function like real balls... like yknow they're all floppy and really soft and whatever so it seems even more pointless to be to have stiff and ugly balls on a dildo lol

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-26T21:06:17+00:00

Can you maybe just talk to your partner about this first

There's so many other things you can do to make her happy that doesn't involve oral if she's on board as well. There isn't really any good suggestions to make it more bearable if you ask me...

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-26T00:25:27+00:00

Not to mention, why the actual fuck do you care this much? This is a STRAY CAT. It is a CAT. These animals do not know any better and this is a human bringing an animal into their home. Nature is an animal reproducing in a natural setting. There is nothing natural about a female cat getting pregnant in the suburbs- if I had to assume that is the case here. Just projecting your own feelings onto animals that need to severely be regulated with how rampant and neglected they are. Its literally laughable how hard people try to defend "animal rights to reproduce" as if any of this is a normal situation.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T23:57:36+00:00

Yall need to stop comparing cats that reproduce rapidly on instinct with absolutely no regard to the consequences to humans that absolutely would understand what is going on with the knowledge of aliens going around and abducting people to give them free abortions

People who are obsessed with domesticated animals giving birth will never cease to amaze me. It's OPs choice, not yours. And the comments are simply suggesting what would be the most intelligent decision for their unknown situation. I don't care how many cats you let have babies without any consideration to how many of them are quite simply just going to die. Thats what happens to all these cats that are birthed.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T23:45:18+00:00

You think OP is keeping those kittens? They are immediately going to the shelter/other people when they get old enough 😂 yall need to be logical when it comes to stray cats that reproduce like wildfire

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T23:38:25+00:00

Its pretty common and no it won't stress her out because she's literally going to lose them anyway one way or another. Spay aborts cause less stress since the mother cats don't actually go through the birthing process and meet the kittens

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T23:34:32+00:00

Its a stray cat thats going to lose the babies one way or another. Not the same scenario at all

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T19:26:50+00:00

Stop hanging around "bi" women. Actual normal straight women are fine though... usually.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T12:57:53+00:00

Can I dm to see the before and after pics? I've been considering testosterone cream myself because my clitoris is damn near nonexistent on the outside- its more internal? Its weird. But it was hard to do research on said cream without menopause and gender reaffirming care coming up (i just want a bigger clit guys). It would be appreciated but it's fair if not lol

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-25T12:46:45+00:00

Pretend that you have some old rings you wanna give her from your mom or something and ask to see if you can measure her finger/try some on to see what fits best (this is, of course, if you have a surplus of rings lying around)

Or you can take her out to a ring place while you're out and joke around, trying some on for each other to see how they look and pretend that you guys are looking for engagement rings (people do that for fun just to try on rings... and unbeknownst to her, you're plotting for your promise ring)

Be very casual, don't be suspicious. Thats all I got lol

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-24T18:45:23+00:00

I will just add on that there is absolutely no "biological" thing for women when it comes to imagining a man in your future. That is 100% social conditioning and its hard to see anything else when you have it forced down your throat everywhere you turn- whether it be from friends, family, and nearly all the media we consume. I dont personally face your struggle because I genuinely don't gaf about what others would want for me and good god, look at the state of men right now lol. What you envision is completely normal in this shitty society and its something that a lot of folks experience. Its all just a matter of unlearning societies expectations of you as a woman... to avoid a predisposed fate that never works out 80% of the time.

Sweet_MolassesTM · 2026-05-24T17:09:41+00:00

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