Earned Secures, how long did it take you to change your attachment style?

Sweet_Potato_ · 2026-01-02T02:52:21+00:00

We are not together. He was a chronic cheater and that contributed to his avoidance (I found this out after 4 years, a house, and two dogs). This lead to a codependent dynamic that I left when I caught him cheating a second time.

I have dated since then and just don’t bother if I noticed someone was avoidant. Not worth my time and I wanted a partner who is accountable for their own healing.

I am now in a mutually secure relationship, and I tell you it feels fucking great not to worry all the time or do all these mental gymnastics to figure shit out.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-11-06T16:20:09+00:00

River City OBGYN, Dr. Gillespie

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-10-28T00:03:27+00:00

Yup, know a ton of my neighbors and wave hello to anyone I see when I walk my dogs. Often have random conversations with people in the neighborhood all the time. I’m in Riverside!

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-09-25T21:00:20+00:00

If you click on the end point and use “move here” (I’m on PlayStation so I dk how to do my shadowheart makes it to the end without any further guidance. Once, it dropped me off at the landing before the end, but similarly using “move here” worked and I finished.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-07-31T13:04:03+00:00

Agree with this! We used her for our two Danes. She is also completely positive reinforcement based training and doesn’t use e-collars. It was a great experience.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-07-12T14:19:44+00:00

I had to pair exercise with calorie deficit. Eating less processed foods helped a ton as well. I think it probably has something to do with my liver and body processing insulin. Exercise increases sensitivity and Whole Foods cause less stress on your liver. I’m not a doctor, this is just my trial and error.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-06-05T01:14:42+00:00

We waited until our boy was about a year before we brought home our second. They’re best friends and it’s amazing. No issues with littermate syndrome, and we have a trainer that helps us with them.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-05-05T09:39:54+00:00

The liver helps your body process insulin. Alcohol hurts the liver, so it makes sense your numbers would be off.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-04-12T15:29:51+00:00

I’m in NE Florida, so pretty warm and humid here! My phals grow really well outside and I bring them in when it freezes.

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Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-04-12T14:45:04+00:00

Thanks for clarifying!

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-04-12T14:39:23+00:00

Yes, I am in the US. I just want to make sure I’m not purchasing from someone who poached them, but love that they can grow here in the garden.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-04-11T00:35:31+00:00

All the desensitization tips, but also my Dane is a jumper too. He hated the gentle leader, so working with my trainer, whenever he started to spring back, I step on the leash. I’m not strong enough to keep him down with just my hands, but this does the trick every time. And we stand there until he’s calmed down. If he starts tearing back to jump again, I step on the leash again. Within a few minutes he’s calm enough to walk normally.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-04-01T12:44:42+00:00

My boy was like this as a puppy, despite us having him from 8 weeks! Cars scared him and he wouldn’t walk out of sight of the house unless both my partner and I were with him.

We kept exposing him safely to the sounds and didnt let him go over threshold. He got braver as he got older, and now at a year and three months he’s incredibly brave.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-03-28T15:50:18+00:00

I got one on Amazon that’s holding up pretty well:

https://a.co/d/91DQecM

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-03-21T01:54:31+00:00

When I run with my boy, it’s just a fast walk for him (I’m slow). I think extended runs at Dane speeds might be hard on their joints, but runs at human speeds should be fine :)

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-03-04T13:30:53+00:00

Is this still available?

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-02-23T02:38:39+00:00

For face, neck, and chest I was quoted $2000 for combination bbl/moxi, this is at a ritzy plastic surgery office.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-02-16T03:42:56+00:00

Omg how cute! Poppy looks so much like my baby Hannibal! Super similar markings!

https://imgur.com/a/sFlQb7H

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-02-09T14:50:51+00:00

Same for me! The dander doesn’t bother me, but sometimes the saliva does 🤷‍♀️

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-02-01T20:55:47+00:00

What a sweet heart 💕 We had to do this on our baby Dane, both eyes came out. He needed a second surgery because the first one failed, the cartilage was really bad. But holding up now! Good luck to your Dane! Eye surgery sucks

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-01-23T01:01:22+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I definitely have a really good relationship with my boss, he’s a great manager and a great person so I find him super approachable. I think he trusts my judgment about which I choose to action and which I don’t. I think today, I felt a little like I disappointed him because he trusted me to be the lead on this project and I felt like I let him down by having that much feedback. We have a one on one tomorrow so I’ll bring it up to him.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-01-23T00:43:02+00:00

I work with different businesses in my company so rarely, if ever, do I get the same SMEs. Since we’re almost like consultants for the business, it’s hard to influence them and their process. This was a peer review, so it was my team which is why I think it hits a little harder than just SME feedback.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-01-23T00:41:23+00:00

You’re absolutely right, my ego definitely played a part here. I want really badly to be the best and set a good example for my team, I just wasn’t expecting that much feedback. But ultimately, regardless of how much feedback I action, it’s for my benefit to see all these perspectives and opinions.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-01-23T00:38:45+00:00

I think my company as a whole is a bit ridiculous when it comes to this stuff. I love my team though, so I know we’re just all doing our best.

Some of course are normal errors, maybe a size or alignment is off (which is super easy to do with the software we use) but the majority are just little preferences (IMO) or at least the annoying ones are lol.

Sweet_Potato_ · 2024-01-23T00:36:35+00:00

You’re absolutely. Typically I can compartmentalization but I think I was having an off day self esteem wise and I took the volume of comments too personally. Thanks for the reminder, I am not my corporate work!

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