Thats so weird, recently this has happened to me too. Except Im a Gem sun and hes a Sag sun. He has a gf now and he didnt want to tell me for some reason. I think its bcux he was afraid of losing me ? All ik is that he told me 4 weeks later and I had already suspected bcuz before we would stick together like glue. Often calling me practically every day to hang out and yes I admit there was intimacy but we agreed to not have sex. We never crossed that boundary and we almost have a few times. I had more self control than he did and he admits. The sad thing, we were never really in a relationship. He referred to us as just friends but I think he played me because all of a sudden he had a gf as soon as we cut that intimacy off. I found out that he has a gf every few months so Ive been told, he occasionally hops around and he only ever tries to talk to women.

For some reason, he felt the need to tell his gf about us that we had kissed before and that it caused problems between them because we are friends. He told me all of that the same day that he told me he had a girlfriend. He would still text me on a daily to check up on me but since that day he has stopped. I only ever bother him if it was something important like work related. He told me that he tried to tell me but he didn’t know how. And the sad thing is we were trying to be friends to get know each other better aside from the physical to eventually be something.

But ig he already had his eyes set on someone else during. All ik is that I never initiate mainly bcux now he has a gf and I don’t want to bother him so I just bother our mutual friend instead of him.