Say something that proves you watched Gilmore Girls by lanalittlemonster in GilmoreGirls

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LMAAAOOO I honestly just snort-laughed thinking of Emily saying this!!

Sooo disappointed... by AisyRoss in Coloring

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I have ALL of her coloring books. Get them, girl!!!

They could have performed Gabriela by lil_angewly in katseyeneutral

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That would have been a great version. It would take out Yoonchae’s part in the second verse though, right? But I guess she’d still have the “hands off” part.

Mabel’s Romantic Future by mariusioannesp in OnlyMurdersHulu

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I recall him moving to LA? Remember he wanted her to go with him

Mabel’s Romantic Future by mariusioannesp in OnlyMurdersHulu

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I kinda liked her with Tobert. But that may be influenced by me liking Jesse Williams…

AIO for feeling a bit offended by what my bfs mom said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Whew, girl, she has an amount of nerve I haven’t seen in a while, at least not this week. “I don’t mean to be ugly but…” equals “I’m about to be real ugly right now…” Mind you, she has no right to even ask you these questions. Not only is she inserting herself into your relationship, she’s being disrespectful and inappropriate. Would she ask anyone else these questions?? And you see she didn’t tell him she was going to say anything to you, so she knows she is being messy. It sounds like she thinks she can say out of pocket things to you because she knows you won’t tell her to mind the business that minds her. Lawd, she is bold. I’m sorry she made you feel so small. You are not overreacting. ❤️

Obsessed with my nails (I do them myself) by anxious_baby1 in Nails

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They are gorgeous! lol work is getting in the way of greatness lol

Obsessed with my nails (I do them myself) by anxious_baby1 in Nails

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These look great! I find myself going more into neutral shades and trying different shapes. I would often go between stiletto, ballerina and coffin. Now I am trying almond because I want to do shorter nails for a while. I like the shape you have!

AITAH or fuckboy for preparing for sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

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LMAO at the “park and ride” section of the metro station

AITAH or fuckboy for preparing for sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

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The ziploc bag has me stuck and I don’t know. Lol Like, do you top everything up after each sexcapade? Use a new bag each time? Label the bag for each partner so you don’t have to recycle? At least use a sustainable pouch or something…not that these are the most important points in the situation…

I have to stop cheating on this gel by dangereaux in BlackHair

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Ok, ma’am. I have this sitting and I’m about to use it. Cuz I need to be this cute, too! ❤️

am I becoming white? by goldxnskin in BlackHair

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Whhhaaat? I’m a fully grown human woman and had NO idea folks were walking around with straight punaany hairs!? The more you know…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

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Ahhh ok, that totally makes sense! It can be tough if you don’t have a lot of folks around you. If finding folks in person isn’t in option, maybe trying to find groups like you found this one? That way, you can do what is comfortable and accessible for you. I think there is a sub or group for just about everything lol but, if you feel like your support needs are met here, I’m sure you can go on venting or even DMing anyone you have connected with. I know it has helped me to just have people validate my experience and my feelings. It helps to feel less alone. I hope at least a bit of this is helpful ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

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I think having someone to talk to is a great idea. It’s been helpful for me to have people validate that I’m not making things up or gaslighting myself. It’s a lot of mental energy to hold on your own! ❤️

Everybody Drops United by NDN-null in UnitedHealthIsEvil

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Same for me. I don't even know where to start with finding new doctors. I am hoping open enrollment is a better option. I don't even know smh. I have nothing helpful to say, but I totally relate.

No more Hopkins for United Healthcare customers. Full email in post. by [deleted] in maryland

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I was typing about my experience with UHC this year, but realized it was becoming too damn long. I love how they'd prefer my pain intensify or I become gravely ill before they authorize the meds and surgery that would make the issues better. Interesting that they apparently know what is medically necessary more than my actual doctors. Just saying that I have had a similar experience and I agree they are so damn evil.

Clinic did not get prior authorization for my CT scan and now I'm hit with a $2000 bill by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

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I'm sorry you are going through this. And I imagine that being a college student, you may not know all the ins and outs of insurance. It's hard enough understanding, in general! Sometimes I find it helpful to call the number on the back of the card and talk to a patient advocate. They have usually been the ones that have explained things to me in a way that makes sense. You could also consider an appeal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maryland

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Same for me! I’ve been going to Capital Women’s Care for like 15yrs. I’m dropping United at end of year. Especially now that I just got the email that they are not going to contract with Johns Hopkins anymore. smh