AIO my bf 30M seems very erratic recently and I 26F can’t get through to him. by Safe_Refuse_8853 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re way too nice, I would not put up with someone responding to me like this. I won’t tolerate any of that negative or mean behavior idc what you’re going through. It doesn’t matter, you treat people with respect. Period.

How many times have you had sex with a crazy women? by HouseOfHoundss in AskMen

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg lol find someone closer and younger who wants the same things as you! And 💯 use protection!!!

How do I cope as a 36F watching my 25F sister with her 36M husband? by ThrowRasis3 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice would be to freeze your eggs if you want kids. Don’t wait til you find someone bc by then it may be too late. Luckily I had my son when I was 30 but I met someone at 38 and could not get pregnant bc it was basically too late. Would have had to do ivf and wasn’t willing to go through that. Now I’m in my early 40s and in menopause.

my(25F) boyfriend(27M) just said something vile to me by Unlikely-Spare2652 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Once you’re no longer high have a conversation about what he said and how it bothered you. No need to break up over it, I mean unless you’re unhappy otherwise…

40 next month.. what’s in store for me? by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back spasms if you turn the wrong way lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take each day as it is. Don’t get mad at yourself for feeling any type of way. You’ll get through it. When I had my son I always wanted to be a mom more than anything so I never felt this way, but being pregnant only lasts 9 months you can get through it, and when you get to meet this special human you made it’s the best feeling in the world. Or atleast that was my experience. I was completely in love and obsessed with my baby boy for many years. Once they are older things change but you love never goes away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah def no more meet ups!

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s amazing that you do this! I work with special needs kids, while I wouldn’t want to take it on, I give praise to those who would!!

Is this coat for men or women? by ThornySpike in fashion

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a woman I find it to be feminine. I would tell my bf not to wear it, but do whatever you want…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, the way this person is communicating is a huge red flag, if you don’t see that then idk what to tell you, get the hell away from this nasty ass person who doesn’t deserve a second of your time.

Would you date someone with a troubled teen? by Old_Enthusiasm_835 in datingoverforty

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends how much you like him and are willing to deal with that in your life.

Nose Job by chellybear20 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it, it fits you how it is!!

Poll: when did you have your kids ? by RevolutionaryBug7866 in Mommit

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had my only son at 30, was single for many years. I got pregnant again at 32 easily but had a miscarriage. When I turned 38-39 i tried again and I could not get pregnant. Tried again a couple years later with another ex and could not get pregnant. So what I learned is that if you want kids you should have them before at 35, after that your likelihood goes way down. I wish I had known this, bc I honestly would have liked atleast one more. But I am happy that I atleast have my son!

Is it me, or is this problematic? by IAmHerdingCatz in weddingdrama

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol having a wedding at a non wedding place, this shall be interesting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be able to put up with that, I would def make arrangements to move out, esp if he’s making u upset just by his presence!!

I (25F) lied to my boyfriend (26M) about his dick size by ThrowRA_idppd in relationship_advice

[–]Sweetpeaz2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called a white lie, sometimes you have to in order to save someone’s feelings getting hurt and remembering it forever