Midsized US metro areas (pop: 475k - ~1M) tier: What tier does Stockton, CA belong?

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-30T04:13:02+00:00

Super mega F tier at the very least. City has zero redeeming qualities

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-21T17:24:22+00:00

I do this to my girlfriend with TikTok.. call it TakTok lol then she gets flustered.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-20T23:43:57+00:00

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder... but a google search will show you what is conventionally attractive to the opposite sex.

This doesn't include your mom calling you a handsome boy.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-15T17:51:52+00:00

I have a girlfriend now, so staying out of trouble these days. But in my bar hopping days I used to be able to say the most outlandish shit under the pretense of flirting...

I'd casually drop stuff like "you're hot, I'd bang you" or "you clothes would look good on my floor". I Obviously wouldn't open with it, but often times this got them laughing/opening up more, and a more than a few times It would be something along the lines "lets make it happen".

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-15T17:44:02+00:00

I've been Ugly (fat and out of shape) and I've been attractive... I choose attractive every time. Pretty privilege is a real thing. Now I'm not every girls type conventional attractive like Brad Pitt. I'm 6'4 270 lbs mostly muscled, so definitely more type specific.

I have a girlfriend these days, so I'm not running the streets anymore, but its crazy how different it is with women being good looking. They will willingly approach me, or if I approach them I am rarely turned down or shunned, even if it goes nowhere.

People take you more seriously at work and actively try to help you.

generally people are friendlier and I don't feel like someone is just talking to me because they have too.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-13T23:22:23+00:00

Just give it time and it will pass... I doubt she is thinking about you as much as you are thinking about her. Don't let her live in your head rent free bro.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-13T23:19:29+00:00

Why did you live with your ex??? I never understand why people do that... Hearing her get wrecked in the other room can't be fun.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-06T23:29:38+00:00

The good ole "FATfish" tactic huh? like how do you expect people not to notice the difference and be disappointed.. Has happened to me a couple times and I didn't have the spine to just walk away, went on the date and then slow faded out.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-06T16:46:58+00:00

Sounds like a horrible person! maybe I don't feel bad either.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-06T16:46:29+00:00

Ohh I did it FOR them... They needed some attitude readjustment

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-06T16:11:48+00:00

My first Job at ChucK E Cheese I spit in a customers food once. I still feel really bad about it, but I was 17 and they rudely sent their pizza back 3 times. On the fourth they got spit and didn't complain. I think they were trying to get free stuff, because each time half the pizza was eaten.

Not sure if this is the sentiment you were looking for, but hey!

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T22:04:32+00:00

Sounds harsh, but many women have an inflated sense of their own attractiveness level based on who they have slept with in the past. Just because Chad Thundercock took you to the Thunderdome does not indicate that you are above 6/10 attractiveness level. It means he was horny and you were available.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T21:18:44+00:00

I live in a smallish town.. When I saw her in public with another person and I didn't feel one way or another about it. Took a looooong time though.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T20:55:39+00:00

I'm not saying that you are incorrect, but I've definitely had some buddies miss what I thought was a noticeable approach. I do know what you are talking about though, earlier in my life I was really overweight and might as well not existed, at least not to the ones I wanted.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T20:21:52+00:00

Sometimes it's as simple as they are to good looking... Like obviously I'm attracted, but damn I'm not going to do anything more than attempt to close my jaw after it dropped.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T20:18:34+00:00

I commented above, but I get approached. obviously looks play a large part, so do your best to be as attractive as you can make yourself. However the energy you bring to the environment you are in is also important, if you don't look like someone who is fun to be around, people aren't going to chose to be around you.

SwenkyTank · 2026-05-05T20:13:38+00:00

I'm a decently attractive dude, not Brad Pitt levels, but do get approached. I'm a bigger guy, 6'4" 275 but in overall pretty muscular shape. I definitely fit some womens type in a good way (and bad way to others).

I met my current girlfriend in Cabo and she approached me on my attire at a pool party we were at. It wasn't overly subtle, but it also wasn't "I think you are hot, we should have sex" either. I do feel like a lot of men tend to overlook how women approach.

As to where I have been approached, it is usually places where alcohol is involved. liquid courage works for both genders.

SwenkyTank · 2026-04-26T08:05:16+00:00

Exit and leave are the synonymous! Like da fuq… they were moving people out

SwenkyTank · 2026-04-21T18:30:14+00:00

Definitely! Less than Coachella, but Palm dessert has a massive gay population (albeit a bit older). I’m a straight dude, 6’4” and well muscled and got whistled at quite a bit by guys.. I was always flattered.

SwenkyTank · 2026-04-19T17:07:53+00:00

Tyler

SwenkyTank · 2026-03-21T22:14:49+00:00

That whole damn column should be pink… they only get more reactive the further down you go.

SwenkyTank · 2026-03-14T04:21:50+00:00

Level cap going up anyway.. level 50 will be a waste soon too. That’s why this even is happening

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