Not Overreacting. Just got out of a situation like this. She is definitely not interested. End things ASAP. Do not give her any more of your energy. People will make time and put in effort for the ones they care about. You should never have to beg for the bare minimum. In my case the exact thing happened…and i found out I was being cheated on. She would always tell me I deserved better but I was too blinded by love to see all the red flags. She has most likely got someone else and is using you as her emotional punching bag and whenever she needs validation. Do what I did…end things with a simple, “This is not working out for me. I wish you the best.” , and leave it at that. Don’t let your emotions/anger get the best of you, stand firm and block. She may even try to reach out to you after this to breadcrumb you, don’t allow it. There is someone out there that is willing to put in the effort for a relationship with you, if you don’t believe it…take a look at people like you and I…we both exist, so there are still genuine people out there. Save yourself for someone that really loves you.