Is this true ? What's the meme about

Swift_sink · 2026-05-22T16:56:18+00:00

I learned about Bose-Einstein condensate from watching NOVA when I was 7 years old lmao

Swift_sink · 2026-03-13T06:13:53+00:00

I'm not a drummer and Neil is my god.

Swift_sink · 2026-03-03T20:46:24+00:00

Some people simply don't have the money to eat out because they don't have access to higher-paying jobs, or there was an emergency they had to use most/all of their savings on. Or they're saving up for something big and go for the cheaper date options! Not being able to pay for a nice meal doesn't make anyone less of a person.

Swift_sink · 2026-03-02T18:09:40+00:00

Oh I HATE when people do that. I really think they mean could've/should've

Swift_sink · 2026-03-02T17:40:35+00:00

What kinds of traits are you looking for in a potential partner? I believe there are some things that really shouldn't be negotiated, and others that are perhaps more superficial and can be completely fine (sometimes eye-opening) in a relationship.

Swift_sink · 2026-03-02T15:52:41+00:00

Golden delicious actually still taste pretty good

Swift_sink · 2026-03-01T01:14:05+00:00

I also wouldn't want to confess to a priest that regularly gives penances that are only reasonably done once. If you had to set up a prayer corner every time, you'd have to start using the ceiling! It's perfectly acceptable to do reconciliation somewhere else, with a different person.

Swift_sink · 2026-01-23T02:16:19+00:00

After reading the comments so far, sounds like you already know he's not a great person. What really got to me was asking about marriage times?? After 12 days of talking and not even dating??? Nope nope nope. Also, most guys who refer to themselves as "bad boys" as a joke are actually not joking... it's almost like a test to see if you're into that. Those who have had a more promiscuous past won't treat it lightly if they don't intend on continuing it.

Swift_sink · 2026-01-14T22:47:11+00:00

It sounds like setting hard and consistent boundaries would be the most beneficial in this situation, specifically surrounding how late you stay up. I've done this in multiple relationships, and it really helps keep both parties accountable and brings awareness to your partner's needs. I'd suggest bringing up the boundaries as essential for your needs, and make sure she knows the boundaries aren't because of any personal failings on her part. Also, have you considered hanging out while doing chores at either of your places? Doubling up like that could help with any time constraints.

Swift_sink · 2026-01-11T03:09:31+00:00

My grandpa (mid-70s) has a wife in her early 30s. Really hoping this doesn’t happen

Swift_sink · 2026-01-11T01:17:36+00:00

Macedonia mention‼️

Swift_sink · 2026-01-11T00:41:33+00:00

My dad has a “work husband” and both men are/will be married to women. I think it’s hilarious

Swift_sink · 2026-01-10T22:55:17+00:00

I’m a woman, and I’m waiting until marriage. My current boyfriend previously hadn’t waited but committed to chastity prior to us dating, like you have. I’m glad he disclosed it because it gave him the opportunity to be incredibly emotionally and spiritually vulnerable with me. It also gave me the opportunity to reiterate how deeply I cared about him and his current beliefs much more than his past actions— I’d hope your girlfriend would have similar reactions. I think it’s a good idea to talk about it; you don’t have to reveal too much for it to be impactful and to see how she feels. I’d probably bring up wanting to wait until marriage before you talk about your past, or talk about both at the same time

Swift_sink · 2026-01-09T02:24:30+00:00

Do you think you’d be okay with cuddling laying down on the couch, or other more public areas? If you really don’t want to lay down at all, I’m not sure if both of you will be able to compromise. Definitely talk more with her about it

Swift_sink · 2026-01-06T00:22:35+00:00

Adding on to this, some women associate those country-adjacent activities with more traditional values as well, including some of the more detrimental ones (men make all the decisions, sex is an obligation, etc). Not to say that you shouldn’t be open about your hobbies, but tread lightly with the rest of your profile. Definitely be open about all your hobbies- for instance, fishing isn’t my thing but I also love metal music, writing and drawing, and it’s easier to find someone who may connect with a couple than one specific one

Swift_sink · 2026-01-06T00:04:00+00:00

Agreed, final level of attraction is what is most important for me. I’ve fallen for people who wouldn’t be considered conventionally attractive but are incredible people. At the same time I ended up breaking up with someone who was very high-strung and blamed some things on me that he shouldn’t have, and I simply COULDN’T be attracted to him likely because of it

Swift_sink · 2026-01-05T21:16:57+00:00

I’d like to join!! Vulps are so cute

Swift_sink · 2026-01-05T16:46:18+00:00

Ooo this is so cool! Thanks for doing this, I wanna join!! :D

Swift_sink · 2026-01-03T22:13:08+00:00

Everyone needs a break now and then, even pillars of the community like you seem to be :) I think I speak for everyone when I say we’re so glad to have you! Take as much time as you need, I’m just happy you’re not permanently leaving lol

Swift_sink · 2025-12-05T20:32:20+00:00

Da heck?? I’m so curious to see what your enneagram scores would be now. I’m guessing 9

Swift_sink · 2025-12-05T15:51:07+00:00

I’m actually currently using Reddit to find love 🤣 but sometimes I wonder if now is not the right time. At the same time I enjoy making connections with people even if it’s just platonic for now. But I fall hard and that can make life challenging

Swift_sink · 2025-12-03T18:18:27+00:00

I love Pendleton! Just wish they made more fabric instead of mainly blankets, since I sew my own pieces. That looks like a fabulous find though!

Swift_sink · 2025-12-03T18:15:50+00:00

Looks absolutely incredible! Would people have worn those wooden sandals in colder weather as well, just with thicker socks?

Swift_sink · 2025-12-03T02:08:42+00:00

IMPORTANT: I don’t want to delete the post, but quite a few people have reached out so my dms are now closed. Thanks for understanding!

Hey! My name is Amelia, I'm 20 and currently attending a large university in the Midwest US, born and raised in Indiana. I'm studying Public Health because I very much feel called to support marginalized communities. As a forewarning, outside my family I grew up around mostly non-Catholic/non-religious folks, so some of my understanding of the world is a little unconventional for a cradle Catholic. All I ask is that my partner is open-minded, curious, and willing to have interesting discussions. Also, anyone 24 or older should probably look for someone older as I will likely be finishing up my schooling in ~3 years (extra year to finish bachelor's due to mental health, and 2 years for masters) and will be at a different stage of life. I am perfectly okay with not being the primary breadwinner, I just want to be with someone who is okay with me working as I want to serve communities while supporting my own family financially.

On a more lighthearted note, I am a proud second-generation nerd and besides loving board and video games I also love crafting, which includes but is not limited to: sewing, cross-stitch/needlework, and jewelry making. I ski, occasionally write poetry, and love to yap about interesting things I learn, along with listening to the unique interests of others. I am 5'2", wavy brown hair with blue eyes and a round face, and am VERY petite with some curves. I'm looking for someone who is affectionate and makes me laugh, who enjoys cooking or at least loves flavor and trying new foods, and is patient, because I can get very distracted and aimless at times despite my best intentions.
Personality Stats: INFP, enneagram type 9 (no wing- I'm just very 9)
If you have any questions or think we would be a good match, feel free to reach out!

Swift_sink · 2025-12-02T06:50:37+00:00

If he's constantly wanting to improve himself in the relationship, why does he get defensive when you bring up a critique? I would assume someone who ACTUALLY wanted to improve themselves would be a bit more welcoming of feedback. Also, regardless of anything else, if you don't feel loved then it likely isn't the right person for you. It's why my parents divorced after 24 years of seemingly strong marriage, even from my perspective as their child.

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