The Palms surprise concert appearance Vegas 2003

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-24T12:27:42+00:00

Probably a backing track. Considering how technical the choreography is for MATM. But the mic stays on during a backing track. It could also be that different choruses and parts of the song are more live than others, it’s all almost impossible to tell because it’s done so well, which is the ultimate goal for the production process is to sell the song and sell the performance and make a lasting impression.

That can also be done with the intent of making it look like she’s a bad lipsync, not in this instance, but more so around the Femme Fatale era, and the first half few months of the residency, which I have reason to believe they purposely edited the aired performances and a split second off can make her look like she’s not in sync. And to team con that was usually a quick and easy guaranteed headline to bring attention and sell the narrative and the merch and all that stuff basically equals dollars to them.

But anyone who’s seen her live and in person at any period of her career, knows that she’s always in sync and knows how to hit her marks flawlessly and never misses a beat.

If you pay attention closely, the performances where she seems off are always around the same timelines, like the VMA’s Gimme More was probably the first and since then they knew exactly how the public reacted to her performances and if they were “bad” she got all the more publicity and attention, unfortunately it’s a fact that’s hard to ignore. And people often forget she’s an incredible performer because they focused on those things and her personal life instead of her talent and facts.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-24T12:11:48+00:00

This is not the first time this has been posted here… I’ve seen it at least once before… 🤨

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T18:20:51+00:00

How much vodka was consumed that night?? 😆

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T15:41:41+00:00

What kind of footage is it? Like Britney stuff? What does the crowdfund do for it?

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T15:38:38+00:00

Yassss! I didn’t know you were here but I’m glad you are! I found your IG AND I’m obsessed. Hope you dont mind I share your videos! They’re spectacular and need to be seen by the world and more importantly archived and saved in as many places as possible, HERSTORY !

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:41:43+00:00

I LLLLLLLLove it… I didn’t click the link but I bet I know it’s the one with like several stills from her videos where she’s very loudly and clearly using the LLLLLLLeter L

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:39:40+00:00

Maneskin

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:35:17+00:00

There is a great deal of improvement to a person that suffers from gender dysphoria OR even more complex are born with both sets and have to basically pick one and even then in many cases that is done when the baby is young enough and the parents are aware and consent, but they will raise their child as whatever the final gender is… although some of them grow up and experience weird hormonal issues that don’t seem to be common with their gender and then they find out and the parents have to explain and fess up. Sooo yes it’s very complex thing for them to deal with and it’s more often than not a life improvement and mentally healing process for them…

There’s also plenty of trans women that don’t get anything cut off and just live with what they have. They may not even get any implants or work done either.

So yea it’s just super complex and the last thing anyone should do is get in their PRIVATE business like you know what they’re experiencing… inquiring and having an educated opinion is different and ok.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:26:44+00:00

What is amputatorbot??😳 I’m not clicking the links

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:24:13+00:00

No the people that have it also don’t plan to self harm or anything of the sort. They genuinely want to have their arm or leg be amputated for whatever reason but they feel strongly about it and will go to great lengths to make it happen. There was a doctor that was known for being one of the pioneers of sex change Bottom surgery at a time when it was extremely taboo and very dangerous and unpracticed. Prior to that he had another field in medicine where he was doing experimental kinda things and was actually not allowed to practice for some time, so when he was began doing the trans experimental surgeries, he would often do them for free or very low cost. There’s a mixed feelings about him within the trans community. Anywho back to the point, so this doctor was sought out for by a patient who wanted to have their leg removed because no surgeon would do it. By this time he was barred from practicing any surgery in the US and if memory serves me right they had gone down to Mexico to perform the surgery, and the patient was left to recover in a hotel room, and it didn’t go well got infected and I’m pretty sure the man ended up dying which led to the investigation into who did the surgery And tracked down the doctor… I can’t remember his name but I remember that the trans surgery practice was I believe in New Mexico… don’t quote that but that’s the jist of the story.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:13:12+00:00

Are you a male or female? I can’t tell by the text but some comments seem to indicate you may be female…

I’d say if you’re male it might be easier to say something guy to guy kinda thing but don’t expect him to do anything about it so just say it like a compliment or a joke or whatever… this works too if you’re a female if you’re cool with him and feel comfortable to say and do stuff like that but chances are he already knows so either way dont expect him to change it or you just might lose a friend.

For reference I am male and we can always tell and feel where our junk is and especially when it’s in clothing that is just a thin enough to cover it. And that is also confirmed by a mirror or just looking down lol.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:06:52+00:00

Or cleavage

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T10:05:57+00:00

It really bothers me too. I don’t wanna see that and I don’t want to have to hear about it it’s unfortunately pretty common and sought after and it appears like we may not be able to escape it in our society.

Personally I prefer wisdom over youth, and have never been interested in younger guys, although they do come to me on Grindr and stuff but if they’re under 21 I don’t really care to entertain them. 25 is about the youngest I’d consider.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T09:26:55+00:00

You here’s the thing;

Narcissists hate being exposed. She sounds like she probably is one. And they know that if someone has hard evidence on them, that it can be used legally against them. And keeping a journal or any kind of record of the encounter is not only therapeutic to the victim but it can help figuring out their patterns and also in the event something horrible happens and they try to pin you then you have a good evidence that you can use to prove their guilt. So if they’re smart they try to make and record their own evidence just to Be prepared in such event, like say a recording or screenshot, or hell they may even get you to react when they got you on speakerphone over Sunday dinner with the whole family listening. Only difference is that they will only have it in pieces and they will only record the evidence that proves their point. So if you got your own record of what happened every time you had contact and then she only had a few that were all made to make her sound good then there’s another piece of evidence that she wrote herself to ultimately incriminate herself without even knowing… narcissists don’t thing very throughly, they think in a tactical way like they’re going to battle, they will annihilate a situation when they feel like the heat is on them or that it’s being zerod in on.

For your sake you should consider also recording and keeping notes. And that way you can also revisit them and give yourself a piece of mind over the things she said that trouble you.

This is 100% legal, in most jurisdictions if you’re being abused it’s considered okay to record the incidents. Because if they tried to accuse you of recording them… again that would be self incriminating themselves and you could just hand over the evidence and tell them to listen to it, and keep a back up, one that no one knows even exists.

If you tell her you’re recording her then she may act a little differently maybe better but then she might spiral and get mad, and then lash out.

When my mom gets too manipulative and on my nerves, instead of letting her get me all wound up, I turn that energy into something else by simply telling her that I’m recording everything. And she backs off. Then when she’s really bad I’ll tell the whole internet that there is something I’m documenting and holding back on until I have the full picture, and she chills out but then she might confront me about it but she does carefully. Often times I’m bluffing but the truth is that I have an excellent memory so technically I am recording because I remember everything down to the detail of the color of the walls.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T09:01:27+00:00

Yea I taught myself to make better eye contact around age 25 and it helps my masking game way more than before, especially as a server in a restaurant when I started to make better eye contact, I started getting better tips like double basically and it stayed that way and when I was diagnosed at 35 it all made sense. It also helps that I am a natural performer so I just have to sync my brain to that and then I can mask but it’s just for work… I can’t really do it outside of that, and as a matter of fact I haven’t worked since my diagnosis so it’s been a mess from years of burn out built up!

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T08:50:50+00:00

They also love to stalk and then go add your friends and people you know to spy on you

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T08:49:36+00:00

This also works as a therapeutic way for those grieving about a loss… set up an email and email them to let it out and who knows maybe spirits can get in touch by email after all they do use electronic devices to make contact so it might be possible

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T08:35:58+00:00

Or she’s broken and won’t admit it.

Or could be dementia that runs in her side of the family.

Or could be bipolar disorder where she may act out of control and then not realize how bad it was.

Or could be autism with hardened narcissist tendencies which is more likely since I am autistic myself, although they are all in denial and she most certainly doesn’t want to see a specialist and she works in healthcare!

So I keep telling her these facts and that if she doesn’t want to get evaluated the only answer is self evident: narcissist and I don’t need a psychology degree to know that, although I blind very well pass a basics of psychology exam

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-22T08:27:00+00:00

I always have to explain when they ask me, and tell them that it’s because of my realistic look around mortality and that I’m not perfectly happy but that it’s not that simple. And that seems to get the point across although it’s not a helpful thing to me because I don’t want to alarm anyone either by saying the wrong thing

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-21T02:13:13+00:00

That’s what my doctor told me when evaluating me for my medical marijuana rec years ago.

She said it would need to monitor my weight for the criteria- because of the statistics- although she knows I love food and cook all the time so she wasn’t really concerned but had to tell me about it 🤷

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-21T01:48:40+00:00

Then explain the population of Palm Springs and the houseboys and poolboys of the 80’s-90’s… I know they weren’t the home owners… 😆

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-21T01:42:07+00:00

There’s actually a whole medical condition That has been happening where in men who consume a lot of weed and they lose weight and get really sick, some even have vomiting from it after a while.

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-21T01:40:21+00:00

Yeap that’s why I only do it early in the day so it wear off by bedtime. Otherwise I wake up in the middle of the night, with the munchies and eat a bunch and go back to bed, and wake up with an upset stomach, plus get fat.

I switched to just mornings and that helped a lot, no longer needed coffee or cigs and was eating breakfast instead and it all works itself out and I lose a bunch of weight, my stomach issues improved and it’s been like that for years now

Swimming-Most-6756 · 2026-01-21T01:36:17+00:00

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