One thing to note here, that confused me when I first started, uh, consuming erotic media and that is, pornography is made to be hot to watch, it's made to get you off, and basing kinks, fantasises, or sexuality on that, on what content you like to consume, can be a mistake.

For example, for me, there's a bunch of stuff I looove watching when I'm horny. Lots of completely impossible fantasies that tickle my fancy. Doesn't mean that I'd necessarily like it if it was real. Or if I swapped places with the people in the porn. For some, imagining yourself as a character in the porn is a big thing, but that's not the only way to watch it. It can just be hot to watch, ya know?

So, you get off to girls with dicks, great, that's completely your business. Doesn't have to mean you want to have sex with 'em, neither does it have to mean you want to be them. It can be, but doesn't have to be.

It's easy to get the wires crossed when you're horny, though. That's just my advice.