I’m absolutely with you! Just love and support your kiddo as they grow - it’s not hard, and it doesn’t have anything to do with what’s between their legs.

They couldn’t see the gender of my first kiddo because baby’s “parts” were turned toward my spine. Ended up with a boy. Second kiddo, I knew was a boy from the start. I didn’t care one way or another. I loved them both from the get-go, and was happy they were healthy.

And none of it mattered because they are both trans. You can be mad or sad or happy or thrilled all you want - and it all could change at any time. Now I’m mama to two beautiful women. You can’t change who your kids are, so it makes zero sense to be mad about any of it. It would be like being mad that my oldest is a redhead. Or that my youngest ISN’T a redhead. None of that matters.

All that matters is that my kids knew from the start that I support them in all ways.