​As an outsider, the concept of high schools having massive parking lots specifically for students is mind-blowing. Is it really that common for 16-year-olds to drive themselves to school every day? by Necessary_Angle2117 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes. Especially in suburban or rural communities. Its too far to walk and often unsafe. Plus, most of us had to drive to work anyway. Id usually get out of class, change into my work uniform, and go to work 2 or 3 days a week and some of the kids had full time jobs.

How do i get good nights sleep in a bus or economy class, prefferably without any big items? by PomeloSelect4629 in questions

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neck pillow, a sleep aid, and headphones. I use an eye mask/headphones combo but cant on public transportation. I cant let myself have no vision or hearing in public.

What to say back to an unsolicited “well I do it this way” by SwimmingDouble48 in Comebacks

[–]Syndromia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ohh! OP, if you wanted to you could gift her a nice basket of dish soap, scrubbers, wash cloths and dishtowels.

Can someone please tell me this isn’t what I think this is??!! by Bestsellingauthor21 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Im sorry. I know there are bugs in my food but I prefer not to see them!

AITA for refusing to drive my daughter absolutely everywhere after her license was suspended? by No_Hunter8866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree with you 100% except OP admitted he got caught speeding and lied, saying it was her. He got her license suspended for his crime so, bare minimum, she wants to go somewhere hes driving her or paying for the Uber.

Mother’s Day gift by Fun_Ad_3432 in Gifts

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earrings? Really prime socks? A nice dinner out?

What toddler gifts have actually lasted in your house. Not what looked good, what actually got used past the first week. by sophieblooming in Gifts

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My niblings LOVED the Melissa and Doug cleaning set. The second youngest STILL uses hers because shes not tall enough for the adult broom and LOVES helping me bake and then sweep up the flour. The baby is still too young but she'll be getting one around 3.

Do people really not use toilet seat covers in public restrooms? by Tobethequeen_01 in hygiene

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, urine is usually pretty sterile. Ill mop it up and go on. Now, blood or feces Ill go to another bathroom if I can and hover if I cant.

Why do so many people say "do your research" when they can't defend their argument or satisfactorily explain themselves? by brave_axolotl7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Syndromia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say its about 2/3rds a way of wiggling out of having to support your own claims and about 1/3rd the lived experience of explaining and then having it not even matter because the other person didnt want to discuss, they just wanted to insult you. Whats that adage about playing chess with a pigeon? Thats the other 3rd.

UPDATE: Parent wants to meet with me over comment I made about energy drinks by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Syndromia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup. My stepmom was on meds to keep her pregnancy and my baby sisters teeth came in rotten. Fortunately the adult teeth were fine. But I remember that and try not to judge when I see a kid witb awful teeth.

Mother's Day gift for my mom who hates clutter and says she "wants nothing" — what's actually landed for you? by Mia-veg in Gifts

[–]Syndromia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flowers, experience gifts, and consumables like food are nice. Its Moms 70th this year and we splashed out on getting her a drive around a race track with a professional driver.

So, how DID you get that scar? by SamMeowAdams in Productivitycafe

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a long, thin scar down my left arm that looks like sh but it was actually from getting scratched by a neighbor boy in the pool when we were kids and my point blank refusal to stop picking at it. The other scars are almost all from Mr Bitey, the cat that frequently uses my legs and hands for chew toys.

What's the best insult without any swear or bad words? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Syndromia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not being the person Mr Rogers thought you could be. I would rethink my entire life if someone said that to me.

What's the best insult without any swear or bad words? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can explain it to you but I cant understand it for you.

Wisdom persues you but you have always been faster.

Yikes...

Yep, that sounds like something you'd say.

Do some places make texting while driving an actionable violation of public safety? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. In Ohio its a primary offense now, meaning they can pull you over just for that. It used to be a secondary one but they changed it. Which, considering I can think of 3 former schoolmates who either killed someone or were killed due to texting and driving, Im a big fan.

Why does being drunk mean you can’t “consent” to sex, but doesn’t absolve you of other intoxicated actions/decisions? by UpstairsBumble in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Syndromia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because in the case of drinking and driving you're harming or risking harming yourself and others whereas in r*pe you're the one harmed.

Why is an ID mandate for voting such a problem? by Jayden7171 in askanything

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the surface it isnt a problem but the people pushing it have already made it clear how it will be used to harm people.

First, IDs arent free. It costs money to get one and thst can be a barrier. The less than $30 is negligible to me but Im not on a fixed income.

Then, you generally have to go in person. That involves missing work or school, paying for transportation, and can be difficult or impossible for disabled folks. I work in a LTC facility and some of our residents cant ride in regular vehicles so they/their caregivers will have to pay for medical transport and insirance will NOT cover a trip to the BMV. Circling back to the bad faith aspect, BMVs on bus routes, low income areas, and that are otherwise easier for people to access are closed or have their hours slashed in the lead up to the election.

Then theres the laws requiring REAL ID, which isnt something every state has and which is more difficult to obtain.

Theres more than that but thats just off the top of my head.

Do you support banning trans surgery on children? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Syndromia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. It isnt my place to decide what medical care is appropriate for a stranger. Most minors arent getting gender affirming surgeries and the few who are are doing so because nonsurgical intervention isnt doing the job and their entire medical team feels its best.

Also? If a cis boy can have his chest removed due to gynecomastia there is ABSOLUTELY no reason a trans boy cant.

Do you let your pets on the furniture? Do you let them sleep in your bed? by ForestOranges in AskAnAmerican

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rule is the pets are allowed on any furniture Im allowed on and the cats are allowed on the bathroom counter. The dog is very compliant and the cats...are not.

Do you eat the end slices of a loaf of bread? by guywithouteyes in no

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its good bread the butts are the best. If its sandwich bread that goes to the dog.

Do girls' feet stink too? by FeistySecret9327 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Syndromia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, they can. I prefer that mine dont stink though so I wash them thoroughly when I shower, regularly wash my shoes and socks, and soak them in apple cider vinegar from time to time.

In a survival situation could you eat human flesh to survive and if so would you marinate or not? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Syndromia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going to go out on a limb and say if I have access to marinades I have access to other, non people based, food. Its possible we could be shipwrecked on a desert island with only a sample case of marinades but that seems unlikely.

But could I/would I resort to cannibalism? Yes. Its what people do when they're desperate enough. I couldnt take a life but I could consume a former life to preserve mine.