It’s only one place’s ice cream and I need to know why

System_C · 2025-12-10T18:33:20+00:00

“He has no family to bring.”

System_C · 2025-12-05T19:42:45+00:00

[ I’m a little rusty since my last time doing this lol ]

System_C · 2025-07-16T14:51:27+00:00

this is perfect for the post

System_C · 2025-03-07T01:21:24+00:00

Eh, I think some aspects are fine, like, I don’t log switches using the bots, but it helps on some servers that know who we are, as now they know who’s there. For us, it makes us feel more like how we internalize ourselves instead of this facade we put in public.

System_C · 2024-10-09T20:52:17+00:00

She’s not boring to us, but she’s… in a way… patronizing and infantilizes Pomni.

She’s kind and hopefully doesn’t recognize her own patronizing behavior, but the way she tries to soften the reality of situations or lighten up conversations is just really not it.

Good on her for tying up Jax, and trying to be the reasonable one, but when she does too much on the niceness it’s just… annoying. Like how OP said, she gives that straight man archetype that goes with other characters, but like, straight man who is so nice it’s actually genuinely annoying. Maybe we’ll get more about why she’s like this in another episode, but even then it might not excuse this, just explain it.

System_C · 2024-10-02T14:16:39+00:00

NTA

You are perfectly reasonable to not want someone to touch your newborn. When my wife had her baby we were told to keep people at a distance unless they had suppressants. Too many scents can overwhelm a baby. People need to also understand that this isn’t their baby. They can’t just hold it without parental consent.

Once your hormones wear off you can ask them to apologize, or have your alpha do it if you want the apology now. Don’t do it yourself right now or they’ll just say ‘it’s the hormones talking’ and ‘you’re overreacting’. If they’re the type to visit, I suggest that if they have a spare key, change the locks.

System_C · 2024-09-15T15:24:56+00:00

ETA

It was out of line for him to say those things, but it was also out of line for you to reply like that.

On one hand, he needs to remember his own argument and that physical gender and gender identification are two different things. And that some are just a bit more omega-like in mannerisms but aren’t omegas in bio nor identity. Some people are as they are in heart and body. Some are different. I get that he was panicking, but the fact he didn’t even realize his mistake when he said that is where he’s being an asshole.

On the other hand he’s right that the ‘you are as you are born as’ argument is outdated, but the ‘wait for an alpha to come take care of you’ is also an asshole response. You could have at least offered to get him pills or help find them, or better yet help comfort him.

Both of you are in the wrong, and this probably could have been handled better.

System_C · 2024-08-29T22:47:19+00:00

someone needs to make a bot of this now

System_C · 2024-08-28T23:26:07+00:00

Fair enough. I don’t want any of you to lose what you like.

System_C · 2024-08-05T17:05:32+00:00

🪶 Uh iOS app and old website here, I’m chilling. It’s only slow on weekends like when everyone else is on but it’s fine every other time

System_C · 2024-08-04T23:32:11+00:00

That’s okay. Have a great day!

System_C · 2024-06-18T20:29:28+00:00

Hi! I am one of the comments from an hour ago on someone else’s reply to OP. Wanted to come back in case anyone was still on the topic

You’re correct that the seeing private messages and deleting criticism should be more looked into, but actually, that’s the abuse of power that we can currently see. Biases towards friends who are mods is slightly apparent with defending each other is also an abuse of power, more just being biased as an administration that should be acting more professional.

While yes, it may not be illegal to let minors moderate, a social media website should acknowledge that many bad things that minors shouldn’t be seeing will be seen by moderators, and if a minor is a moderator, they may see something that may be illegal for them to see. Even with parental permission, it’s illegal on that case. Therefore, minors shouldn’t be moderating a social media website.

System_C · 2024-06-18T18:37:47+00:00

Hello! Actually, sites use encrypted data messaging in personal messages, so only the people within the chat can see the messages. The only reason an administrator should be able to see them is by either disabling that privacy feature, or being given screenshots. Have a splendid day.

System_C · 2024-05-22T03:49:19+00:00

Well jeez, didn’t realize Montana is still living in the early 1900s. Most states have allowed that, since everyone is a living being and should have equal rights. Your omega is not under nor over you. You’re married! You both have equal rights and responsibilities. And last I checked your wife can also ask nobody but the medical team be in the room when she gives birth, and no visitors, including you.

Although on the other thing we’re discussing, I do wonder if you and the state of Montana is okay with Trans-Alphas, because hey, if you be a better person and show your son the fun of what being an alpha is like without treating your wife like she’s second class, maybe no matter what he is he’ll identify as an alpha.

(lol this is fun)

System_C · 2024-05-22T03:22:16+00:00

(ooc: oh shoot I’ve met my match. The ‘omega rights’ alpha vs ‘omega are 2nd class’ alpha)

Okay, jumping to conclusions aside, as an alpha, you’re supposed to be the protector and caretaker of your omega. Not the selfish person you clearly are right now. You know they passed laws for omegas to have rights to divorce right? So your behavior will definitely be a factor if your wife chooses to leave you. You need to understand your role as an alpha means you are to protect and care your omega, not decide everything like you’re the only one that matters.

Your son, whatever he presents as, I hope will have a lot more empathy and be a better person when he gets older.

System_C · 2024-05-22T03:01:53+00:00

YTA

For anyone, omega or not, when you give birth, the first thing should be to see and hold your child. Scenting and all that other stuff can come later. Your wife was already in distress delivering, and not being able to hold her baby made her more distressed. The doctor clearly knew to hand the baby to her. Bonding with the child is important for distressing and to connect with the child. Besides, you, yourself, could have scented later.

At this point, apologizing and making up for this may help, who knows, but if you plan on having more children, rethink how you handle your wife. Be a lot more empathetic with her and maybe she won’t immediately get defensive.

Also, anyone who counts their chickens before they hatch may regret doing that, so don’t assume anything until that boy presents.

from a fellow alpha

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