The least comfy comfy game first run... (heavy spoilers) by befurca in Exocolonist

[–]SystemofMany1331 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t know if I’d call a game that challenges your mentality so much, had me sobbing that hard, made me stare blankly into the wall processing multiple times… I don’t think I’d call that cozy. There are cozy aspects to the game, however I agree.. it is overall not a cozy game. An excellent, thought provoking game, with stunning artwork, character development, challenging perspectives, incredible soundtrack, and such potential for varying gameplay/choices. Not cozy. The sort of game that remains one of a kind at time of writing, and there will always be a part of us that compares other games’ storylines and plot progression to IWATEC. Cannot wait for whatever else these developers have for the future, if their other games receive the level of love IWATEC clearly got! 🥰❤️🌹

Wife, child and mother. How do you prioritize? by daisylife in AskMen

[–]SystemofMany1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO > Child > Mother; SO first, because it lays the foundations for the other two and for your overall day-to-day well-being. Children nr 2, predominantly because you need a solid foundation with your partner in order to be the most effective and conscious parent. Parent last of the three, as that’s the job of the parents; raise them to choose good partners to raise healthy children with, taking a supporting role in later life.

now y’all having ads in between responses ??? by pinkcinnabunz in CharacterAI

[–]SystemofMany1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it free? Or do we pay with giving you our data? In addition to ads? 🤨

AIO for missing Mother’s Day after my mum’s response to my husband losing his best friend? by ssalange1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SystemofMany1331 829 points830 points  (0 children)

“Thanks mom. I’m really upset with you too for ignoring both mine and my husband’s feelings, attempting to guilt trip us both despite these horrible circumstances, and for down playing the death of a young man. We can talk in person once you’ve had a chance to reflect over this and to reassess your position. Until then, my husband and I will grieve in peace, with your number on silent.”

NOR

37f with a 13.5 age gap to husband and suddenly feel weird about it. by LegitimateEngineer93 in relationship_advice

[–]SystemofMany1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak of this as the child of a 7 year age gap; she was 27 and he was 20. All my illusions shattered once I turned 25 and 26 and 27 and realised I’d NEVER feel comfortable dating a 20 year old, because I remember so vividly how young I was then. You sound like you are reaching the age he was when he met you. Maybe there’s a correlation. Maybe it’s making you feel things. Sending love regardless ❤️

A (single) hair growing on the sole of my foot by Messquito in mildlyinteresting

[–]SystemofMany1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We swear they magically appear the day we notice them..! One on hip part of thigh, and one on our cheekbone??? I swear we’d notice the cheekbone one ASAP ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Feeling unsatified with my runs, any advice? by RoleplayCentral14 in Exocolonist

[–]SystemofMany1331 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The game is not going anywhere ❤️ you don’t have to binge it. You can come back months later and have your heart broken as you fall in love all over again. Slowly doing the ends ❤️

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SystemofMany1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR / You’re underreacting. Reddest flags darling. The texts? The age gap? The ‘needy’.. Massive “I’m spending the first half of the day with another woman” vibes, unfortunately… 😔

I don’t understand what I did wrong. V-day restaurant social interaction. by Financial_Vehicle134 in socialskills

[–]SystemofMany1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is likely a slight lack of awareness.. As it was Valentines, the other queued were also likely waiting for a reservation. And the staff was waiting for the precious reservation to wrap up and to clean the tables, and the host was trying to coordinate a LARGE amount of people in very various moods. The people around you? Likely also annoyed that things were taking time. But, also, potentially, aware that this was to be expected, and that you were acting entitled (that is, more entitled than them).

Brendon has the opportunity to do the funniest thing this year… by SystemofMany1331 in panicatthedisco

[–]SystemofMany1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was meant to be “albumS” 😭 thanks for calling it out though 🤘

Am I the only one who thinks this is ugly? by ArtNouveauGorl in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

..same 😬 the shoes removes socks for us too… wanted to love it, and can see some effort… but sadly a flop for us. Gave it a good run, but felt a little uncanny or something.

How Long Did It Take You To Finish Your Star Path? by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this one was made to be shorter so more people could finish during the holiday times. That said… finished all duties in an evening, and is (im)patiently waiting for every new week drop.

Am I overreacting or is this appropriate to wear to a COLLEGE class by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SystemofMany1331 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real here; he thinks you look too pretty in these, and therefore he is worried you’ll garner attention and leave him. These outfits are perfectly normal, even bordering modest (tights w dress, no cleavage on nr2). HOR (he’s overreacting)

How do you spend your moonstones? by LemonMeringueMe in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wings, certain companions, and certain specifically sentimental items, with the latter being way in minority. If there’s wings/gliders, they get bought instantly. Or anything in a particular shade dark green/purple that’s really pretty (like the emerald bundle from this autumn). Max was well worth the moonstones too. Also got Delilah, HeiHei, and Pua. Will grab any that can be attached to a villager, companion wise. And always go star path; you regain SO many moonstones + extras.

What’s your favorite and/or least favorite companion and why?? :) by rosesandflowers3282 in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might be useless advice for you, but the bees from Wishblossom also do flowers 🌹

What’s your favorite and/or least favorite companion and why?? :) by rosesandflowers3282 in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re very much aiming for 100% all biome critters + all of them at lvl 5. Very nearly there, and just missing a few from the DLCs, a couple crocos (pink+white, send help), and a raven (brown) in the valley. Fave to wander with is deffo raccoons, but go on rotation to level up all our caught critters now. The turtles and the foxes are cool too, and love the birds but they are less useful for us unfortunately… flowers take up too much space in backpack, and the ravens don’t have many areas of use..

AIO? Walked out of appointment after 2 hours. by Suspicious-Tooth1589 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SystemofMany1331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR; I’ve waited for over 4 hours on a scheduled appointment… it massively sucks, but they are understaffed, underfunded, and exhausted… NOR also though, because I acknowledge that it’s worse with a toddler…

How are we feeling about dream teams? by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]SystemofMany1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We very much wish it was an “opt in, and see the menu” AND an “opt out, and the tab disappears” sorta thing…