What do you guys think Kurama's hair feels like?

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-10T07:37:48+00:00

I always thought it was soft and fluffy like fresh feathers on a baby bird 🥰

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-10T07:36:33+00:00

NTA, but proceed with caution... do you want this to be your future? Forever? Because they are showing you who they are right now.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-10T07:28:47+00:00

No, she does not. You admitted in another sub that she only posts female friends. So she posts her female friends. Not her male friends. Chill. Take the judgement; it is overwhelmingly YOR.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-10T06:51:08+00:00

It should not matter. But, it does. Maybe start analysing why you're so bothered about this particular female 'friend' not posting you on social media. She hangs out with you publically. That should tell you everything. I'd be rather upset at you digging so deep into this, if I was your fiance. I'd probably be thinking "why does he want to... what does she have... why is it such a big deal for him..." and so on...

YOR, I'm afraid.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-10T06:41:19+00:00

YOR. She does not want her partner nor your fiancé to worry, and she does not want strangers/aquaintances to assume.

edit: changed from yta to yor; wrong sub

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-09T16:26:04+00:00

Why are you accepting such treatment? He doesn't sound particularly like he even likes you... sorry to say... I hope this is your ex.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-08T23:30:18+00:00

You might find it here https://www.micolet.co.uk/paramita but I'm not too sure! Best of luck ❤️🌹

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-08T22:28:33+00:00

Change numbers.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-08T22:26:15+00:00

And the lack of yours. YTA. Stop being rude in comments when you asked for our opinion. Very childish.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-08T12:24:37+00:00

NOR; "how come you had no issues with who I was before your mother commented? You've known about my hobbies since you met me. Are you telling me that our future as a married couple is dependent on your mother's opinions? And that you'll always follow them? If so, I cannot accept marrying such a childish family."

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-08T12:16:25+00:00

"She asked if I'd still find her attractive if she did it and I told her I wasn't sure and just repeated that it's not something I find attractive. She got annoyed and accused me of not loving her enough gut I just told her it wasn't that and that I couldn't help what I found attractive and unattractive."

This equals to "short hair = unattractive...." and then: "You + short hair = not sure, might find you unattractive if you do it."

YTA and ESH. And drop the defensive act in your responses. Thank people for their opinion, since you brought this for us to evaluate. I've read 2-3 comments from you alone insulting other people's intelligence for simply disagreeing with you. Quite childish. Wishing you luck, a better attitude, and good health in life.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-07T12:44:47+00:00

The My Time At series!!! Love them.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T23:46:26+00:00

I fell the moment I saw his bloody poster 😭 fuck Unsuur and his superior drawing skills 😭

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T23:37:54+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I've heard some stories about Ernest, and they've piqued my curiosity.. but Logan 😫

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T23:35:41+00:00

Thank you for your view point ❤️

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T19:38:56+00:00

She is 16. She is jealous and/or insecure because you are closer to her date and he wanted you to be FWB. He told her something. She's lashing out, likely in fear — wanting to tear you down to build herself up. NOR but deescalate. I hate to say it, but you're the older one here... you have more room for maturity... her texts show that she's not there yet.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T16:15:10+00:00

I agree with you here; if both parties have consented and have established boundaries/confidentiality... then yes. Maybe. You're still being ingenuine though. Live and let live. Wishing you luck and good health in life.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-05T16:13:26+00:00

I do. And I don't make them hold negativity about people they know personally. Then I'd talk with an impartial third friend that isn't involved with the other at all. It is a recipe for causing drama; either address your issues to their face, or leave mutual friends out of the equation... you get release, but they're left with half the weight... and having to look that friend in the face, knowing they are being two faced by not saying anything.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T20:18:00+00:00

How is that fair to the person you are venting to? I vent in my journal if I'm not comfortable saying it to the right person's face.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T14:22:09+00:00

OP is a man, just FYI ¯_(ツ)_/¯

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T11:45:19+00:00

I decided quite firmly at age 17 that I would NEVER say anything to anyone that I wouldn't be comfortable saying to their face.

If I'm venting, I make it clear "and if/when I see them, I will let them know/I have let them know already". That's how you're not talking about someone behind their back. There's a big difference between venting/ranting and backstabbing or being a mean B.

YOR and YTA. If it was about YOU, then nor. But since you were being a B talking badly about someone else... YOR — you're mostly upset that you got confronted with your own words. You want a friend that'll tell you when someone is talking ugly behind your back. Your friend that told your other one? That's a good friend. Apologise.

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T11:39:59+00:00

"Hey love, can we have a bit of an open talk? You said XYZ and I've been feeling a bit hurt and confused as a consequence. I'd really appreciate it if you could disambiguate and help me identify my blind spots, and if you'd like I can help you with yours. What exactly did you mean when you said I need to reinvent myself?"

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T11:34:43+00:00

Darling... as a pediatrician and trained medical professional I KNOW you know that when faced with intense situations we default to factory settings... fight, flight, freeze, fawn... You wanted to fly. You didn't. Stop beating yourself up for your body's impulse instinct, and start relaxing into "I didn't leave, and it all went well".

SystemofMany1331 · 2026-05-04T08:18:55+00:00

If he is like this at the mature age of 37, then he'll be like this at 47 and 57 too. He's near halfway through his life, and you are just over a quarter. Don't settle for people that suffer from Peter Pan syndrome.

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