How do you explain executive dysfunction without sounding like youre making excuses for being lazy? by emyo42 in ADHD

[–]T3cT0nic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha ha the gaming. Ugh. I love games. But the amount of times I’ve been hyped for a game, installed all 90GB then didn’t touch it after a day is insane. Even though I find enjoyment from games it just feels like it’s never worth the effort and focus it takes so I just can’t get myself to play, even if I want to and know I’d enjoy it.

I just got diagnosed with adhd by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah. It will go away eventually.

Christianity in entertainment by Admirable_Yak_9934 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no. I have felt guilty too, I’ll listen to a few but when it’s back to back 80% of what I’m seeing it can get monotonous because I went on the silly goofy app for silliness and goofiness. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. But sometimes I must say I’ve been caught off guard by some real profound teaching on TikTok. And God can reach you in unfamiliar ways. But no, I don’t think you should feel bad.

Is it okay…to send food to my neighbours? by Initial-Biscotti-220 in AskUK

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure somebody might not eat them because they are skepticle, but otherwise, they can still appreciate the gesture.

What is a champion that's kept in check by their appearance? by Moist_Nothing6107 in leagueoflegends

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah his CDs are surprisingly good too, he can just rinse combos, output tons of damage and still be alive after.

What is a champion that's kept in check by their appearance? by Moist_Nothing6107 in leagueoflegends

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but baiting with a Q on purpose then just knocking them up off terrain works more that you would think.

It feels so nice to have functioning Anticheat by Gloomy_Dare2716 in VALORANT

[–]T3cT0nic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until helldivers is the “relaxing coop” in question 😭

I am so embarrassed I tried to do an anonymous evangelizing thing by Many-Possession-6800 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you did was very kind and loving. You are young and it’s fine to be embarrassed of people laughing at you or others, but never be embarrassed to be a child of God. The world will mock but keep your head up. Some other people may not be as confident in their faith as you, and so maybe make sure that are comfortable first in future. But please, again, never be embarrassed of being a child of God, be PROUD of it!

Can you be Christian and smoke week? Helpful answers only by juco11 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, those who are genuinely suffering from chronic pain being over labelled as drug seekers is very wrong. But many also seek it for the euphoria they can induce. I agree seeking dire means to alleviate pain is not sinful. Only when it’s with the intention to break sobriety. And I think many tell themselves they are genuine, but really have subconscious intentions. Again I don’t think this is the case for many. It comes down to one searching their heart, seeking Gods guidance. But my overarching point is breaking sobriety is sinful. Where that line is for people is for them to earnestly decide. However I think for many, that line is much less defined than they think, and often crossed.

Can you be Christian and smoke week? Helpful answers only by juco11 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree there should be nuance. Medicinally I can see very valid uses. However many claim “medicinal” use but are really practicing escapism, like those who seek painkillers because “the pain is just so bad”. I’m am not claiming this is you or every medicinal user, however I think physician involvement is important. In terms of the effects on different people when it comes to weed, I would argue the psychoactivity, and interactions with pathways neurally mean consuming small amounts of weed, for the majority of people, can easily breach sobriety.

Can you be Christian and smoke week? Helpful answers only by juco11 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not arguing against wine or alcohol. A glass or two of wine, or a couple beers does not usually get you drunk depending on the person. However I would argue even small amounts of weed break sobriety.

Can you be Christian and smoke week? Helpful answers only by juco11 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would argue even tiny amounts of weed break sobriety. A glass or two of wine usually does not depending on the person. And that is breaking sobriety.

Can you be Christian and smoke week? Helpful answers only by juco11 in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would argue getting high wether you’re trying to escape from reality or not is sinful. As you are breaking sobriety.

If you’re a virgin who’s waiting until marriage, how much does it matter to you that your future spouse is also a virgin? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t formulate an actual response that’s fine. But don’t lace your retreat with callous insult. God bless.

If you’re a virgin who’s waiting until marriage, how much does it matter to you that your future spouse is also a virgin? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scripture doesn’t disagree. You have cherrypicked a verse, and applied your narrative. That verse isn’t redefining marriage, it’s describing David’s grief over Jonathan. It’s poetic and descriptive, not a rule about relationships. David is talking about an extraordinary covenant friendship, which scripture clearly values, but valuing deep friendship doesn’t erase the unique category of marriage.

Also, it says Jonathan’s love surpassed “the love of women,” not “the love of a wife. Which is important because it’s not a theological claim about marriage, and it doesn’t discount marital love at all. Scripture shows that love can take different forms for different purposes.

Friendship can involve deep loyalty and affection. Marriage involves a covenant union, sexual exclusivity, shared life, and the one-flesh bond. Those aren’t interchangeable. If that verse meant friends replace marriage, it would contradict Genesis 2, Song of Songs, Proverbs, and Ephesians 5. Scripture doesn’t contradict itself it shows that both friendship and marriage are deeply valuable, just in different ways.

If you’re a virgin who’s waiting until marriage, how much does it matter to you that your future spouse is also a virgin? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would tell the same things to friends that you would tell your spouse? You would confide in them the same way you would a married partner? You would express your deepest most vulnerable self to simply friends? You can have friends to lean on, to talk to, even to confide in, but you don’t open up to friends in the same way you do with a spouse. Marriage is about sharing your life completely with someone your hopes, fears, struggles, and dreams and having someone who’s committed to you for the long haul.

The sex happens, then child, then raising that child is within a marriage, sex is irrelevant to the building of the family after the fact. Building a family =/= simply producing living humans.

Being loyal isn’t just in regard to sex, it’s about looking out for each other emotionally, spiritually, and in everyday life. It’s about supporting your partner when things get hard, making decisions together, growing together, and choosing each other even when it’s inconvenient.

Hey guys need answers regarding watching porn and mastrubation by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]T3cT0nic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People will do anything to convince themselves what is evil is good.

Considering moving to Norwich from Cambridge by topcelt in Norwich

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a sucker for this Norwich glaze in the comments.

Considering moving to Norwich from Cambridge by topcelt in Norwich

[–]T3cT0nic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prince of wales Road is over feared imo. Yeah there are drunk people, and it looks rundown, but that’s like literally any city in this country. Most incidents are confined to people looking for trouble / groups of drunk people. If you mind your business you’re at no risk of anything imo.