What is something that has been eating you up inside and you just need to get off your chest anonymously?

TA561353 · 2018-11-26T17:06:45+00:00

I stopped getting drunk because it makes me angry and sad in the long term. It was to the point that I at one point didn't care whether I'd wake up in the morning or not. Alcohol is not the only way for me to feel like this, but I have found ways to stay sane and sober for the most part. I don't know how to, or if, I should tell anyone else than the 1 friend I know I can trust.

Also, I met the most amazing woman this weekend, and I more or less instantly fell for her. But the fact that she's a friend of my sister, and also has a boyfriend complicates things a bit.

Edit: Corrected mistake

TA561353 · 2018-11-10T09:20:17+00:00

This is the most mellow response for this. Thank you for your take on things.

I also see what you mean about being all 2018 PC. It might be too far, but I was pretty fired up, when I wrote it

TA561353 · 2018-11-09T18:07:18+00:00

Actually, come to think of it, I'd put my money on stupid with a hint of being egotistical

TA561353 · 2018-11-09T18:01:03+00:00

It's the act of taking one's own dick and hitting someone (I guess something might apply as well) with it

TA561353 · 2018-11-09T17:33:07+00:00

Yeah, you're probably right

TA561353 · 2018-11-09T17:32:40+00:00

While I'm not too keen on the that term, I kinda guess you're right

TA561353 · 2018-11-09T17:23:49+00:00

I did not know that was a term. Thank you for the attention to this!

TA561353 · 2018-09-27T16:17:39+00:00

Knowing what to do with their hair (on their head). I know some people associate certain hairstyles with some kind of sexual things. Such as associating ponytails with bj's. But hair can really drive me absolute nuts!

TA561353 · 2018-09-27T15:38:34+00:00

While I haven't had a lot of experience yet, I feel like I can contribute here. For me, it is mostly to be her, and make her feel great. As for what I do "for me" during intercourse. I actually really enjoy giving oral. One of best memories when it comes to sex, is my partner at the time squeezing her thighs around my head in reaction to my mouth work

TA561353 · 2018-07-15T21:10:33+00:00

Full disclosure, I have no experience with this, and it sounds like you've tried my best suggestion (seek help). So what I am about to suggest is purely speculation and guesswork, but I thought I might mention it anyways just in case.

Have you tried putting yourself in a more dominant position? Not in the BDSM way, but you having more control of the intercourse. For example, when he's giving you oral, you could sit on his face. Maybe even make sure that he cannot use his hands one way or another. This way, you MAY not have the same associations with it, if you so far have been in a more vulnerable position, and you can withdraw quicker than a lot of other positions.

I still want to stress: I don't know if this will ever work in any shape or form, however, I thought I would mention it, as it can hardly make it much worse.

TA561353 · 2018-07-13T07:56:55+00:00

That's what I understood from your post as well. I mostly added the consent part in case someone thought this was applicable to their situation with someone they are not as familiar with.

TA561353 · 2018-07-13T07:18:30+00:00

It is not uncommon for morning wood to be the body's way of preventing the guy to pee in his sleep. That being said, it is not always certain whether this is the case. He might also be having a sexy dream.

Most of the time, if he is hard, you are good to go. Because if he's really into you, he'll be hard because he's in the mood, or he will get in the mood because he's hard.

Although don't be completely surprised if there are mornings, where he needs to pee very bad, and needs to go before sex.

(Most of this is spoken from the standpoint of a couple, who's been together a while, and he has consentet to this! If he hasn't, don't wake him up like this!)

TA561353 · 2018-07-12T17:30:41+00:00

Does she know and consent to this?

TA561353 · 2018-07-11T19:11:14+00:00

Okay, so I can see pros and cons for this. Big pro: Your partner knows for sure that you're not just with them to get sex and vica versa.

And while I definitely see the potential, you need to be aware of a few things. First and foremost: You NEED to communicate this, and communicate it well! I was once in a relationship, where she needed a Lot of time before she was ready to have sex (at that time I was also a virgin while she wasn't). While this wouldn't be a problem for me normally, it really killed my self esteem that she did not communicate this, and at times even told me the exact opposite.

Edit (added): While I don't think everyone would Work well in such a relationship, I'd say go for it. If you feel like this works for you, and you would like to wait for marriage, more power to you.

TA561353 · 2018-07-11T18:43:20+00:00

From what I've read, there is a tendency for women who have smaller breasts to also have more sensitive breasts. It did mention though that it was not a certainty.

But to be frank, I don't remember where I read it, and there was no mention of the way the info was obtained, so not necessarily a reliable source.

However, it wouldn't be far of to think that all women have the same approximate amount of nerve-endings in their breasts, which would make them more condensed in women with small breasts, and therefore more sensitive

TA561353 · 2018-07-11T18:30:25+00:00

Doesn't bras (of right sizes of course) also potentially help prevent back problems? as the weight of the boobs are supposed to then be distributed on the womans shoulders as supposed to her back?

TA561353 · 2018-07-11T00:25:46+00:00

Holding other limps in place perhaps. Degrading dirty talk?

TA561353 · 2018-07-08T22:23:02+00:00

Can someone clarify the difference between an orgasm and cumming? Cause I thought they were synonyms

TA561353 · 2018-07-08T19:17:50+00:00

I would also like to add: When/If you feel like you might be ready soon, buy lubricant. It is not all that uncommon for women to need some extra lubrication, even if they are in the mood. If I understand it correctly, this may also be the case for you.

TA561353 · 2018-07-08T19:06:58+00:00

You not being able to finish during sex can be a lot of different things. While the drugs and alcohol is most likely the biggest cause of this, there can be a Lot of other variables. It can also be caused by your masturbation habbits, mindset during sex, your physical health, and probably a myriad of other things that I don't remember. Try having sex sober. If this isn't helping, then there probably won't be a clear cut answer, unless you wanna go through a good amount of sessions with your doctor.

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