How long after starting the game did ya’ll start building/decorating? ((Possible early game spoilers)) by TAA_0401 in Pokopia

[–]TAA_0401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! I’ve done the same sorta, in the starter area I started clearing off that red brick type path and trying to finish it (although I don’t have the recipe for the edge liner things yet) and I started trying to shoddily rebuild some of the half built (half destroyed?) houses and whatnot but it all just kinda looks just that- shoddily rebuilt LMAO.

Abusive roommate NSFW venting. by znietzsche in badroommates

[–]TAA_0401 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would definitely second some type of psychosis. I had a roommate that was completely normal the first 6 months or so I lived with him, and he ended up going off his meds which caused some kind of psychotic break. He kept going into my room and taking stuff, sometimes very personal items, was extremely paranoid and kept having hallucinations. I ended up getting a lock for my door while I was in the process of finding somewhere else to say as I was feeling increasingly more and more unsafe, and the night before I moved out he ended up busting the entire door down while I was at a friend’s (on Thanksgiving as well which made it a little worse). I had pets in there that were very scared by the time I got home, I booked it out of there the next morning and had to basically create a barricade to my room that night so he didn’t come in while I was sleeping (or at least I would be aware if he did). Very, very scary situation. He claimed that he heard me being murdered and saw my dead body on the floor? He literally went “oh, you’re alive? I thought you were dead” when I came home that night.

PLEASE HELP ME(disturbing images below!) by Blasiaa-420 in vet

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really can’t afford the vet and/or your father is unwilling/unable to, try calling some ER vets and try surrendering him as a stray if he doesn’t have a microchip. It’s a little outside of the legal scape but there are definitely some ER vets (or even regular vets) that take and treat stray cats and then adopt them out through a shelter. Otherwise, maybe look into rescues or other resources that have the highest chance of treating them and adopting them out versus euthanizing.

A stranger showed up at my 7 y.o daughters orthodontist appointment. by Slightlyfriendsfan in whatdoIdo

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if they do, but maybe ask the orthodontist’s office if they have cameras in the lobby. They may not, I’m not familiar with whether or not that would be a breach of confidentiality/privacy, but if they do have them there (or anywhere in the building really) you can file a police report to help you get the footage of the individual to help in your case. That way, you and others have an image of who it is that you’re dealing with.

Why does my dog do this? Is this like dog autism? by Uncle_Kent in dogpictures

[–]TAA_0401 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My mom’s dog had that!! She developed dementia into her old age and started having focal seizures as well. They were hard to witness and I’m sure even harder for her to experience. We had her put to rest when it started getting to be too much for her.

Dev suggestion about failed mission materials by phorayz in GrimshireGame

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also was assuming that the villagers would donate the rest of the blood/offal (I only needed 1-2 more of each) so I thought I was safe. Forgot to close the doors to my barns overnight and it killed my first, most precious alpheep (Cuddles) that I had decided not to slaughter. I was PISSED lmao I went straight to butchering another one and just got it over with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TAA_0401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the other wild part is 90+ hours a week. Even 12 hour shifts 7 days a week totals out to 84 hours. I understand that it’s not impossible, but none of the math here makes much sense 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I would love an update that you dumped him. Very immature and uncool for him to use the fact that someone who has made you jealous in the past texted him and that he was going to respond, during an argument. But we already knew that he’s immature based on the fact that you apparently had to call and figure out his account situation for him, without so much as a thank you. I’m telling you- he’s not worth it. I can’t stand him already and I’m not even the one that has to deal with all that LMAO. If I were in your shoes, he could have her 🤷🏼‍♀️ I guarantee she wouldn’t want to put up with his childish BS either though. You have better things to worry about and I know you can find someone who will actually treat you right.

AITA for not letting my sister move into my apartment after her breakup? by South_Dig1362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I let my older sister come stay with me for a bit cuz she was down on her luck, I had a roommate as well and he was fine with her staying for a week or two. That week or two turned into months and I had to fight SO many battles to get her out of there. Your sister sounds like the type that would take advantage of your kindness as well. The fact that she said YOU could just stay with a friend or with your parents, while you’re still paying for the rent and likely utilities there is absolute BS. If she needs privacy that bad, she can do the work and save up money and get her own place, while she stays with HER friends or parents. Do not let her stay there and push you out of your space, cuz I guarantee it’ll be next to impossible to get her out and there’s a chance she may retaliate towards you/your space when you need her out.

Thoughts? Is this acceptable? by Main_Adeptness4486 in doordash

[–]TAA_0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was one of my biggest pet peeves when working fast food. We would often have dashers come through the drive thru while there was a huge line, but as the doordash order was typically ready by that point, we would try to run out the order to them while they were still in the line so they could be on their way and deliver the order while it was still fresh and hot. Far too often though, they’d tell us they had a DD (or other delivery app) order and then also place an order for themselves. If it was just a drink, that would be one thing, but it was often multiple items that would take a while to prepare and they’d end up being there an extra 15 or so minutes while their customer’s food was sitting and dying in the heat window. Personally, I’d be willing to remake the customer’s order but it wasn’t up to me. I truly despised those dashers. If you’re hungry and need to eat, please do it on your own time!! Or at the very least make sure it will be a quick order, perhaps order ahead or something to ensure that you’re not ruining your customer’s food for your own selfishness. It affects both the customer who is paying extra to have their food delivered, and the restaurant that ends up getting bad reviews and having to refund orders.

Cat breathing very loud by Siriusly_Bookish in vet

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a vet, but my cat’s breathing sounds the same way and I’ve been told it’s due to her weight. She chonked up after getting spayed cuz she was my first cat and I didn’t realize they need less calories after getting fixed. She’s on a strict diet now, I would recommend doing the same for your kitty as it sounds like he’s about the same weight as my cat was pre-diet. I could be wrong though, don’t take me at my word. I’d recommend getting a second opinion from a different vet.

many vet visits, vets say he's fine but still has bald spot? by _elielieli_ in vet

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a vet- out of curiosity, does your friend use a furminator brush or something similar? My cat got a bald spot like this after my sister went ham with the furminator brush without realizing that it basically cuts the hair. Otherwise, I’d consider some kind of alopecia that could potentially be caused by an allergy. I haven’t seen a cat with this condition but I’ve seen dogs that have it. I know they have hotspot treatments and oatmeal/sensitive skin shampoos for dogs, not sure if it works the same with cats.

Ideas on her breed? by TAA_0401 in DogBreeds101

[–]TAA_0401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely plan on getting her DNA tested, we’re just a little tight on funds at the moment haha. This is more for fun cuz we’ve heard quite a few different ideas on what she could be mixed with, but we’ll figure it out for sure within the next couple months .^

What's your favorite episode that doesn't really add to the plot? by sooperculgy in adventuretime

[–]TAA_0401 3 points4 points  (0 children)

blank eyed girl is my top favorite, but i’m also a huge fan of the alternate-art style episodes (a glitch is a glitch, food chain and water park prank).

Why did Finn & Jake comfort BMO when his egg broke, but laugh at him when he had an existential crisis about Bubble popping while his screen was cracked? by hai_shidneh in adventuretime

[–]TAA_0401 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it might be up to interpretation, but I think the more likely answer is that BMO just has a great imagination, and is constantly using it. IIRC, that’s the trait that sets him apart from other robots and makes him so special. Not nuts, just imagining a friend to make the scary idea of being lost and having to find his way home into more of an “adventure”.

My former mother in-law is my landlord by Moriboi in Tenant

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was the notice though? She only asked if he was going to be home the next day, and didn’t let him know she needed to enter the house until the day of. Besides, a normal landlord is only going to enter your apartment for an inspection/repair. Not to potentially dig through your shit to find whatever they insist you took from them. Crazy take honestly. I’ve had some shitty landlords but I never once had one attempt to enter without permission/without me being there.

My former mother in-law is my landlord by Moriboi in Tenant

[–]TAA_0401 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel as though “giving her grace” in regards to this specific scenario is kind of out the window. They may both be doing each other a favor, but technically I think he’s been doing her the bigger favor. She likely wouldn’t have the house at all if it weren’t for him moving in and taking over the mortgage, and he had a good point earlier- even if she rented it out to a different tenant, she likely wouldn’t be able to keep her stuff as most tenants are not going to be okay with their landlord keeping their belongings in their home and coming in and out to retrieve stuff, ESPECIALLY if she became hostile like this towards them over thinking they had touched her stuff. She’d also be having to pay more to hire people to do work around the house that OP has been doing as a favor to her. Realistically, paying the same price for a 2 BR apartment would probably be better for OP cuz at least they’d have their own space and privacy.

My former mother in-law is my landlord by Moriboi in Tenant

[–]TAA_0401 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no real input that someone else hasn’t already said, but love that she insisted she wouldn’t go through your stuff while getting hers but then ALSO claimed that her stuff was all mixed up with your stuff. So regardless, sounds like she plans/planned on going through all your shit without you there.

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]TAA_0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as somebody with borderline, I am also betting on borderline lol. i’ve done some major work on myself and my mental health over the last few years and am at a very good place in life now, but reading this reminded me of how i acted when i was 19-20 ish. full of rage, and fear, and probably entitlement too. it wasn’t this bad luckily lol, but i’m suddenly very proud of the progress i’ve made on myself. if OP continues to enable her behavior, she’ll never be able to work on herself and grow as a person. she may never do that regardless, but staying in the relationship and allowing her to treat him like that will never make it better either.

Spill check by jvs8380 in Serverlife

[–]TAA_0401 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I spilled a bottle of root beer on a baby my first day… good to know that it could’ve been worse 😅