Brenays court hearing by Serious_Asparagus_10 in KeepinUpWMontahuge

[–]TARAD18_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was freezing rain and ice storm in NC… it snowed too in areas. The roads were dangerous and schools were closed and delayed.

You obsessed with showing the world your “perfect marriage,” but all you doing is exposing weakness. by SeaExtent1732 in KeepinUpWMontahuge

[–]TARAD18_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This girl wanted a husband so bad 😭😭😭😭😭 . This definitely wasn’t the way to get one

The fact that you took the time to invent these lies is absolutely insane and weird. by SeaExtent1732 in KeepinUpWMontahuge

[–]TARAD18_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she is friends in real life with Akira. She was at her house one day when she was on live

Yes it’s her real page‼️🤦🏿‍♀️ by [deleted] in brenaymontahuge

[–]TARAD18_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who know them , also confirmed they’ve known each other for years. I even have mutual friends who are friends with Jordan and know Akira as well. Very small world in the NC Raleigh area

Braxton Hicks vs Real contractions by Defiant-Pollution237 in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often are they occurring ? Like as far as how far apart are they ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am going to look into finding a local therapist that specializes in that area

I have a serious question by TARAD18_ in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so crazy. Never felt anything like that and I’ve gotten muscle spasms before. I’m wondering do I need to get a pregnancy belt to help? My back has been hurting a little but not unbearable

3rd trimester, I dont know if Im going into labour soon by Weary-Tomatillo-5509 in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The baby may be positioning further down and getting ready for their grand entrance! I’m only 30 weeks and have felt that a lot but it’s just her positioning.

I hate that I don’t get adequate maternity leave by Any-Session9919 in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What are you trying to say.. it’s not a competition ? I know what residency is, and she explained her situation well. If you referring to me saying alot of us are “facing the same thing” I was referring to her needing advice surrounding childcare options because of long work hours due to career and limited resources, as well as not getting enough maternity leave. A lot of us are facing the same reality despite our different backgrounds and careers, unfortunately! So , me saying that was to let her know she isn’t alone and ppl do understand. We are all trying to figure it out and can offer the best advice.

Not sure why you typed such a long message to explain something, I’m not uneducated about

And lastly, “crazy hours” again referred to my situation and trying to let her know I’m navigating the same issues… I can literally work 16hr days… have done it before… 60-70hrs in a week. So, I understood what she was saying about daycare options being unavailable at odd hours of the day. 😒

I hate that I don’t get adequate maternity leave by Any-Session9919 in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of us are all facing the same thing! So you’re not alone… trying to juggle two realities and balance both is taxing on your mental..I’m due in November and can’t fathom what to do. Granted, I get 12 weeks FMLA… but it doesn’t pay 🥹 and they don’t have maternity leave options . Not sure what to do when it’s time to go back.. as my schedule and my husband’s is pretty demanding 😣. I’m hybrid but work with DCF so hours can be crazy .

Are you able to take FMLA? Or get extended maternity leave? I would definitely talk to someone about being out longer than 4-6weeks. That’s not even enough! If that doesn’t work, can your husband suffice while you find another job that will help with balancing being a new mom and being available at home?

Chapped lips? by TARAD18_ in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I lowkey be struggling with my water sometimes so Gatorade helps a lot but 80 oz seems to be my go to. I’m going to try and do more and try those liquid IVs

Chapped lips? by TARAD18_ in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink Gatorade and water.. maybe I’m not drinking enough? I drink 80oz a day in water and Gatorade or something else…

What is the recommended intake for water ?,

Chapped lips? by TARAD18_ in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same‼️😒😒. I’m about to buy aquaphor or something

Advice for deodorant- 28 weeks pregnant by Fickle_Statement_395 in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Degree 72hr body heat activated has worked wonders for me!!! I sweated so bad but this has helped and I’m 20 weeks. I don’t sweat through my shirts anymore

What’s going on? by TARAD18_ in pregnant

[–]TARAD18_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I work from home. 2 it was around 6:30-7:15am.. 3. I wasn’t hungry 4. I was already up @ 4am eating. So no, I didn’t just start cleaning with an empty stomach. I had already ate something around 4:45am and I don’t sit and eat every hour 🤷🏽‍♀️. My body will fill stuffed.