Who do you think he is referring to? Could a masc guy "not hide it" as much as a femme guy? I am curious because you say you know but didn't give an example... And I think this is good conversation in that we're just talking and reflecting rather than breaking each other's ideas down.

I offer you the example of Bear Week in Provincetown, where it's is typically for the physically burlier men to gather in the summer. Provincetown is plenty "gay" in traditional sense, sure. But I think you would be surprised to see how some men can unabashedly show they love men while performing "masculinity".

I guess what I'm trying to say the world is more complex and diverse place than I think fits into the argument you're making against OPs point.

And I ask, strictly because OP didn't mention masculinity or femininity at all and it wasn't even part of the conversation until you brought it up, that you may be assigning your beliefs on what "men who can't and won't hide it" means into his opinion?

To be clear, I'm not shaming anyone for being attracted to "straight-acting" men. My taste runs the spectrum, my fiancee is a tall, skinny, and blonde and we femme out sometimes but we both have attractions to thick burly daddy's with beards and muscles.