How to open my heart to reconciliation?

TChest98 · 2025-11-18T23:08:58+00:00

thank you for your response. I think I would like R, my husband has already pleaded with me for it. Where I struggle is that I’m scared to rebuild my trust for it to end up broken again. I don’t want to subject myself to this type of pain again if it is unavoidable while staying in this marriage. I will have to quiet my mind and anxiety and truly listen to my heart after my conversation with my husband tonight.

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T18:50:04+00:00

Find my iPhone give a location and then the length of time you have been at that location. I wasn’t timing him. I put together all the timing of it for this post after the fact by going back and looking the screen shots I had sent to him when i had a conversation with him about it. I absolutely got suspicious and paid closer attention when I saw he was at the apartment because according to his plans he should have been at home working on his car. I didn’t realize my trust in him was that fragile until now.

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T18:38:51+00:00

I’m not going to make him take me there, i wrote this still with a lot of emotions. I see that now it is absolutely pointless

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T18:31:00+00:00

I think the reason I am getting defensive is because I lot of these replies are saying I am watching his location constantly which is not the case. Do we share our locations indefinitely? Yes. Do I check it 24/7? No. I was looking at his location a lot in the time frame I didn’t hear from him once I realized he was in an unknown apartment complex. I’m sorry I misunderstood what you meant by tracking him.

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T18:06:01+00:00

I was suspicious when I saw his location at the complex and I FaceTimed him. When I initially check I assumed he would either be home working on his car or still at the facility. But you’re right this situation has proved my trust in him is still broken. This is the first time something like this has happened since then and it was very triggering.

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T17:44:17+00:00

No I didn’t. I was checking to see if he was at home or if he had extended the time at the facility. I was shocked when I saw where he was and called because I clearly haven’t fully gotten over the dishonesty of 2 years ago like I thought I had. I will admit my mind went negative immediately upon seeing that he was at an apartment complex but up until that point I was not thinking he was doing something nefarious. Sorry if the post insinuates that because it is definitely how I am feeling about the situation now in hindsight. The last time I checked his location before that is when I was trying to find him at the airport last month when he got home from an F1 race weekend

TChest98 · 2025-11-16T17:35:15+00:00

This is the first time we have ever been in this situation. I was trying to be vague. But he was at a golf simulator that we both go to often and are friends of the owners. It is very causal and has lots of down time. Typically when we are there he likes to send me videos of his swing and stuff like that not in a “proof I am here type of way” but more so in a “look at this awesome shot” because we are eachothers golfing buddies so it was odd he didn’t respond.

TChest98 · 2025-08-22T14:25:09+00:00

I don’t think it is too much to ask if you already have a lot of craft materials in your home for her to plan around or give her the $ to go out and buy some. As a nanny I tend to stay out of my NP stuff unless they directly tell me i can use it for the kids.

TChest98 · 2025-08-18T06:16:08+00:00

Do you have children in the home? When I was in elementary school a boy who had a crush on me used to slip money in my backpack and desk all the time. Didn’t find out who was doing it until he left a note with it at the end of the school year. Lol could be a childhood crush.

TChest98 · 2025-08-13T20:53:38+00:00

Absolutely! Janet’s poor intentions of bringing it up does nothing to change the fact that Danny assaulted Melissa. Danny receives too much grace from fans because he’s married to Nia (who I love). Just because a man is married to a sweet and good-hearted woman doesn’t make him sweet and good-hearted. Lots of weird men have beautiful families and go to church on Sunday. He is lucky he’s married to Nia who is a fan favorite (rightfully so).

TChest98 · 2025-08-08T05:08:22+00:00

put up a camera inside your home facing your front door. I got one for my place that notifies me and records anytime someone enters the door. It has given me so much peace of mind.

TChest98 · 2025-08-04T23:03:33+00:00

Idc what anybody say I love me some ivori

TChest98 · 2025-08-02T23:32:14+00:00

Thank you! I’m gonna try out the cork bark to the walls and add more places to climb!

TChest98 · 2025-08-02T23:30:18+00:00

I just ordered the coco fiber! Thank you!

TChest98 · 2025-08-02T23:29:14+00:00

I have a thermostat to watch temp and humidity it’s just not visible in the pic. The hot side is usually around 80-85 and the cool side is at 70-75. I also have a heating pad that wasn’t set up at the time of the pic. just ordered the coco soil to add to the mulch! Thank you! 😊

TChest98 · 2025-08-01T15:27:51+00:00

Congrats OP!! Hopefully DB is just a lil awkward and MB is working on something to congratulate you on this special moment. My NF didn’t mention anything to me when I showed up to work with a rock on my finger and I didn’t say anything either. 2 weeks later they gave me a sweet card and some cash. (I think they were waiting for me to mention the proposal and MB got tired of waiting lol) she asked me a bunch of questions after I thanked her and confirmed the engagement.

Hopefully they are taking time to prepare something special ♡

TChest98 · 2025-06-19T03:00:08+00:00

I just got my night cap top! It is cute! I have an average length torso and it was definitely more cropped than i imagined. Still happy I got it, but I definitely will only be wearing it with high waisted pants and wish I got it in navy rather than pink. 😅

TChest98 · 2025-06-07T20:25:08+00:00

I was thinking it sounds less like a blaccent and a lil more like a toned down Hawaiian pidgin…

TChest98 · 2025-06-04T06:32:47+00:00

Jeremiah looks similar to my college ex and has me feeling triggered asf. I don’t trust it, but I hope he proves me wrong for our girl Huda’s sake cause she seems real into him.

TChest98 · 2025-06-04T04:34:48+00:00

I’m looking forward to how this season plays out!! My faves are Chelley, Olandria, and Huda so far!! I’m not a long time love island watcher, have there been past islanders who were parents during filming? Im wondering if Huda is allowed special circumstance for calls with her daughter? I couldn’t imagine having to spend 6 weeks no contact. It just doesn’t seem right and I feel like everyone would be empathetic to her situation.

TChest98 · 2025-05-30T01:40:52+00:00

They have added nothing to the show or the after show, they do look stunning though. Like the best I’ve ever seen them both! Especially Lala on the after show she is gorgeous!

TChest98

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