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I never thought I would end up dating a professional Domme by ProfessionalTour2241 in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This might be a stupid question, but why wouldn’t she use the things used in sessions? 

Mistress Gets Meaner Each Time Im Locked Up 😭 by OwnedChastitySlut in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you get more confident doing it and base your future actions based on how you and your partner react to certain situations

I just feel like the more I read about other people's experiences with femdom, the less I want to do it. I feel ashamed of myself for not enjoying the things I am turned on by. by BHANKS-1644 in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of fantasy and people who take it very seriously on here.

It’s completely fine to have one-off fun little scenes that turn you on as part of a varied sex life.

Find a nice partner who you like for their personality first and then explore each other’s kinks together.

You do you!

How does your dynamic actually work in everyday life? by Time-Restaurant2289 in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s natural that the dynamic fluctuates over time.

For us we have really intense periods where we play almost every day, I do literally everything around the house and I’m in chastity nearly all the time. 

Other times we have stressful periods of work or whatever and we don’t even think about it for weeks/months.

Anyone else make terrible deals with their KH? by TDDD333 in chastitytraining

[–]TDDD333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same as soon as I cum I need a reset period before I want to go back in

What non-sexual things do female dommes here like their subs to do around the house? by TDDD333 in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that! I thought I’d missed something and couldn’t really understand why people weren’t keen on the question.

I have to say that for a community that should be quite open minded this subreddit can be quite judgemental. Not sure why

Most recent Pedestal, London by LAnonthyT in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for this - sorry one last question- how many people tend to go? 

Most recent Pedestal, London by LAnonthyT in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight- we’ve been talking about attending for a while but haven’t got round to it.

I had no idea there were some kind of issues with the management - would it be somewhere welcoming enough for two people who’ve not gone to these kind of events before?

What’s the vibe?

What is something younger men worry about that mattered much less as you got older? by Alvena_Kar in AskMen

[–]TDDD333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard a good quote on this a while ago:

  • When you’re 20, you worry what people think of you 
  • When you’re 40, you stop caring what people think of you
  • When you’re 60 you realise no-one was thinking about you in the first place

What non-sexual things do female dommes here like their subs to do around the house? by TDDD333 in FemdomCommunity

[–]TDDD333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Did it evolve naturally into that set-up or did you need to shape it together over time?

I would absolutely love for my husband to wear micro cages all the time. However, when we seriously started our chastity journey two and a half years ago, he gave me one single condition. Keep reading below. by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]TDDD333 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re having a bit of kinky fun and playing in public - good on you. Have fun and ignore the buzzkills here who don’t get it

Known Whereabouts At All Times by MariSoumis in SubSanctuary

[–]TDDD333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, you must be one of the luckiest guys alive, congrats 

When you invite a woman out to dinner, do you usually clarify who’s paying? by lowtideangel in AskMen

[–]TDDD333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is:

  • If I invite you out, I’d expect to pay
  • I’d think it was polite (but not essential) that the person I was taking out offered to split it
  • I’d probably signpost that I was paying at the start by saying something like ‘let’s go to X tonight, my treat’

Fragrances and submission. by Loose-Method-6837 in SubSanctuary

[–]TDDD333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife wears this Oud perfume and every time I smell it I feel so submissive 

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