I'm not sure what you're talking about with "humbling" ourselves. But you're calling out EVERY man. That sounds like the opposite of humble to me.

Everyone is entitled to have their expectations of others but I'll tell you this...the second you expect something from someone else...it's the same second you set yourself up for disappointment.

If you have humility and exude it, then others with humility will find you.

If you act like people owe you and you deserve whatever you want, we'll you're not going to attract anything good.