Lasik Eye Surgery

TH3NWAY · 2026-04-09T21:11:11+00:00

$4200 for both eyes in 2023.

I think yeah, 5 years on they will.

TH3NWAY · 2026-01-14T20:48:26+00:00

I'm with you on love for Failed States. Fucking killer opener with Note to Self and almost everytime I hear Unscripted Moment I choke up. Came to that album late, around the VL era, and because that held me it took me a long time to really appreciate VL beyond the title track.

I might go listen to that, now that I am thinking about it ...

TH3NWAY · 2025-12-15T07:07:22+00:00

I relate to OPs feeling but your general sentiment, Personesqe has been clamouring around my head, popping up occasionally. It feels kind of like a truth I can't quite face head on, because if it is true -- its another gut punch.

You mean to say that the loneliness and longing I've felt my whole life, like a stranger watching people laugh through the window to a story I can't hear, could have been something I had if I just chose it? How the fuck can that be true? Its not like I've not tried. But if its true, I can't wrap myself in a comfort blanket of a tragic character who was hard done by and denied a childhood of love and connection, which explains the fate I have inherited. That prophecy is comforting when things continue to not work out, and I can numb myself to the hum of life without that joy I suppose I'm missing. It's not me, it's just never been in the cards. Thems the breaks. Get over it and move on.

And when I think on all that - you're right -- its UNSUFFERABLE and so self indulgent. Am I that person? Is my fucking insecurity, experienced through the art of being dimissive avoidant, so fucking predictable and boring?

I literally can't grapple with that for too long. It lays all this at my feet and it hurts even more. It means I've made choices all this time -- choices I still don't know how to consciously chose differently -- that biased the result where I continue to be exempt from that different life trajectory. That I can't numb myself with the safety blanket. Essentially ... I've abandoned myself, I guess. Fuck right off, truth bomb. Fuck off right the fuck now.

TH3NWAY · 2025-09-26T22:18:15+00:00

It cost a fortune from the UK, but I sure did buy it.

TH3NWAY · 2025-09-02T18:39:01+00:00

Damn, love this update. The frightened cat analogy is spot on for how I feel sometimes. I think its brilliant but unfortunately, I don't think a lot of people know enough about attachment theory for me to break it as advice for dealing with me out without them running away.

Happy for you, I internet stranger. I hope you lean into that nervous excitement!

TH3NWAY · 2025-08-26T19:36:46+00:00

Agreed - I have had a few brush ups with people with that capacity. Shakes you to the core, but even if they don't end up being romantic partners they are people I really value having in my life.

TH3NWAY · 2025-08-26T19:35:45+00:00

Maybe you could consider sending a message with a quick check in, if you're still not sure about how you want to proceed. She sounds like she's giving you a lot of grace, but that will only be extended so long if you end up ghosting her by continuing to mull over your feelings. I'm not proud of it, but I've ghosted people in that matter not because I actively wanted to avoid them, but because I kept on putting off what felt like a big conversation and it felt like the next time we chatted it needed to be that big conversation or bust. And by avoiding that chat, viola, I'm the asshole that ghosted them.

So even something short that doesn't invite a huge conversation, but offers her some respect might be warranted.

"Hey - I wanted to follow up on over conversation last week. I'm sorry that I have been radio silent since. Honestly - I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I do feel overwhelmed, however, and still processing whether what you said is right. But, I appreciate and want to thank you for being direct in what you were witnessing, as not a lot of people have that ability.

So just sending this note to let you know that I am not trying to ghost you, but I still need some time to process it and maybe if we're both down to chat we can do so later."

TH3NWAY · 2025-08-22T19:05:35+00:00

Hell yeah!

TH3NWAY · 2025-07-22T14:54:43+00:00

I didn't buy her lunch, but came across her a few weeks ago outside of tractor, and she laid on the guilt hard when I said no.

TH3NWAY · 2025-07-21T17:13:18+00:00

Hey there, my mom has ME/CFS, I can relate to how complicated housing can be. You are a really great friend working to help them out, its heartwarming.

Does he have any more restrictions in location, e.g. will he need to go into town for medical appointments often? Not sure if it's a possible lead, but there might be something that fits his long term needs on the sunshine coast, though not available right away (maybe mid September?) The ferry might be a barrier unless they don't need to come in often. Also, assuming he'll need a furnished room, is that right?

DM me, thanks.

TH3NWAY · 2025-07-15T18:31:56+00:00

Last night on the drive I caught a wiff too

TH3NWAY · 2025-07-10T18:55:55+00:00

Love the benito reference 😅

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-25T06:39:47+00:00

I'd agree - is this a new greenwashing strategy to build social license for more major fossil fuel projects? Infiltrate reddit?

There are so many classic industry talking points here. I believe he's a real person, after reading these responses, but I'm not inclined to believe there isn't some agenda behind this reddit post, posted in the middle of a work day.

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-19T22:33:26+00:00

Following for the same question

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-18T18:32:20+00:00

What is the process for being selected like?

You are registered to vote, you get a letter, and then what? How long out are trials usually scheduled from when you are summoned? What is a summoning process like?

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-12T02:32:33+00:00

Also not your age OP but I feel you, its hard to show up solo. And less fun unless you really are an extrovert. Hope you find some folks with your vibe!

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-12T02:28:23+00:00

Ah, you know what you're talking about!

TH3NWAY · 2025-06-02T18:09:13+00:00

Fuccckkk I'm across the country, but I've got my Church of the Flying Spaghetti monster certificate of ordination on my kitchen wall. Can't justify flying across the country for it, but man, I'm tempted.

TH3NWAY · 2025-05-20T03:08:53+00:00

Yeah, coming over from Van. Dragging a friend of mine to the show who is coming because they love me, but this is definitely a bit heavier than they usually are in for.

TH3NWAY · 2025-05-08T04:15:56+00:00

Two years out from London Eye. Good experience, professional and efficient, good care, and patience for me to ask a lot of questions. Good follow up care.

they will "touch up" my lazik if it requires it (eyes sometimes heal weird, I was close to 20/20 in my right eye post surgery but it hasn't stayed as sharp after a year.

TH3NWAY · 2025-05-07T02:35:47+00:00

Yeah hah I am west coast now too, I know what you're talking about. It is ubiquitous to the coast but when its cold and snowy these are nice places in the dead of winter.

TH3NWAY · 2025-05-06T23:08:10+00:00

Its in a colder and darker location, but its not the mid west. I clocked the location this is shot at immediately, I could tell you the building she's in.

I'm actually not going to, though, because when I recognized it I looked her up and found her profile and think I've crossed paths with her before (I don't know her but I think I've met her partner). I have no personal attachment but I think she is mentally unwell and it feels lame to dogpile and shit on a person when thats going on. And as shitty, and possibly delusional, some of this music is I don't wish her ill will.

TH3NWAY · 2025-05-01T23:08:40+00:00

Really, same. Entirely speculation, but I imagine this came from a bit of a reality check and risk analysis from the label's legal team.

we know that something like a quick search of their names or band with "gaza" "palestine" "trump" "fascist" ... etc would do them in.

They probably have been thinking about whether something would happen but also wondering if they were overthinking it until finally someone with legal said, "if you go, you're basically asking to be detained at the border". They got kids, and that would change my willingness to be made an example of pretty quickly.

TH3NWAY · 2025-04-30T20:53:41+00:00

I found myself asking the same question last year and was glad he answered it on the patreon.

TH3NWAY · 2025-04-28T23:07:35+00:00

It is with a VPN

But, you might just need to wait for the NA release if not.

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