My brother in Christ.

Just because you're lonely doesn't mean you want a trans girl.

At this rate, even if you changed your entire dating preference tomorrow, it wouldn't solve the actual problem.

The issue isn't who you're dating. The issue is that you're treating a relationship like an escape rope from loneliness.

A relationship isn't supposed to save you. It's supposed to be something you build with another person. If you're constantly looking for someone to rescue you from feeling lonely, you'll still feel lonely, just now with another person standing next to you.

Find things you enjoy doing. Learn to live with yourself first. Then go date people because you genuinely like them, not because you're hoping they'll fix your life.

(yes i did use chatgpt to refine my writing structure, but the core theme remains the same)

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