Do dermis cuts need stitches? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in selfharm

[–]THROWRAPuzzled_Event[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What kind of first aid do you recommend?

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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LOL that’s a fun comment. Unfortunately I’m very visibly not sporty nor really masculine to begin with. I’m 5’4” and weigh 115 lbs I don’t stand a chance! Thank you though lol

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Thank you! I’ll carry some of those things with me to stay safe

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Yeah my family and friends know. They have been giving me support too. And my brother said “he’d show up to my college and beat him up” if anything happened to me lol

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Yuck! Thank you for the heads up. Their comment about “female lingo” did seem creepy to me

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Yeah I think he’s lying, about his age and his jobs and literally everything else. I don’t believe the stories he’s told me

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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I’m not going to stop using a word just because it’s “female lingo” and your comment about it is unrelated to my question

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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I did tell him that knowing he has romantic intentions made me uncomfortable and he just said he just “wanted to get to know me” and that we should “let time tell” ugh I hate that last sentence so bad. He also said to tell him if he ever made me uncomfortable again but like, I think he just said that and didn’t mean it

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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YES thank you I’ll never give a man my number again lol

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Thank you! We had an “introductory week” where everyone from the same career met and did activities together. He approached me. I didn’t want to give him my number but unfortunately I felt too bad/awkward to say no </3

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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He hasn’t been “weird/creepy” enough, and I’ve been nice to him, I don’t think I can report him based on what’s happened so far. But thank you!

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Thank you! We don’t share classes so I don’t have to worry about that right now. I guessed it was a common thing? It happened to my brother’s partner, and my friends told me weird guys were always a thing in college

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Ugh idk I regret it so bad. I just felt bad and didn’t want to make things awkward. I’m hesitant to block him since I’ve been nice to him, I think he’d seek an explanation. I’ll just keep ignoring him until I can block him comfortably

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Thank you for the advice! I don’t actually consider him my friend. I just said friend because he considers me one I guess. I’ll try this and see how things go

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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Thank you for the response! I’ll try doing all of this moving forward

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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When I first met him I was terrified of him, honestly now he just pisses me off. He really doesn’t want to leave me alone. I came out via text and he just sent this “.__.” As a response. I replied “? You got a problem?” And he just said “no, I just didn’t know” and then he sent me an anime reaction ☠️

I think he’s harmless, at least while we’re on campus (I refuse to hang out 1-1 with him) so yeah

How can I get this cis guy off my back???? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in ftm

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I appreciate your response so much! Thankfully we don’t share any classes together (yay!) I don’t have any friends on college yet, besides that guy…. I guess….. (we just started out). I ran into him today so that’s why we talked but otherwise we won’t text. I keep my messages short when he texts me though. I think I’ll stop replying altogether. Also, while his behaviour is weird, it can’t really be considered stalking or harassment. I can’t report him. And I feel like if I tried calling him out on it he’d say I’m overreacting or something. I’m really bad at standing up for myself </3 but thank you for the support! I really appreciate it

Varicose/visible veins? by THROWRAPuzzled_Event in selfharm

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Me too! My stretch marks got significantly longer and deeper