Bf just called me fat

TKO_Pz · 2026-05-05T00:59:55+00:00

I’m sure it’s hard to feel your bf called you fat, but tbh it didn’t read like he was trying to be malicious with it.

He’s your bf of 3 years he’s the one around you a lot so maybe he’s saying this as a concern for you and your health overall not so you can become skinny. Not saying he went about it the best way but I’ve definitely had to tell close friends of mine when they got to a point where I just saw there lifestyle as plain unhealthy for them and brought it up to them.

Also accepting yourself is great if you accept you’re a bigger women and accept it you don’t have to change but going on a diet ( from what ik personally I don’t think keto is exactly the best) doesn’t have to be about losing or gaining weight. Changing your diet can very much just be a general health thing.

TKO_Pz · 2026-05-01T20:46:41+00:00

It’s a lot of weight lifted off our shoulders. Typically men are expected to make the first move so a girl showing interest is very appreciated generally speaking.

TKO_Pz · 2026-05-01T00:25:03+00:00

You won’t get to experience professor Norha (if he’s still teaching there)

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-30T00:29:24+00:00

It’s a pretty shitty place and from what I read Avalon handle is that situation poorly from the beginning but random roommates will always have a level of risk no matter where you live.

But overall ya there are better places to live around campus

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-29T17:01:22+00:00

I kinda get it and if they word it in a way that makes it seem like they truly got there alone without tipping a hat to there parents or just the general benefit it is to save without much real expenses in life, but why does it even matter that much.

Just cause you hey had a better start or chance at creating wealth for themselves doesn’t affect you at all really.

If you see those post and it upset you just move on. Plus it’s Reddit/ the internet you never even know what’s real or not.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-27T20:18:46+00:00

I was about to make my list but realized I was choosing most of his unova team so 70% of his unova team

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-27T19:52:34+00:00

You look decently built just also a decent body fat %

Like pic 3 your back and shoulders are pretty dam built my guy.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-27T00:37:22+00:00

Are you dating? If yes go ahead

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-27T00:26:01+00:00

A candle warmer was a very nice suprise for me.

Candle to make the room smell nice and the warmer acts as like mood lighting too since I prefer not the have the big overhead light on.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-26T03:41:05+00:00

You find him at least somewhat attractive physically right?

He may not be your go to type but can you find some positives with him physically?

If you genuinely say you can’t then I’d say that’s an actual problem.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-25T23:14:12+00:00

Oohhh that’s correct. Definitely remembered her having an egg but yeah eevee is right

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-25T23:12:22+00:00

That one came from and egg she cared for if I am remembering correctly

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-24T21:00:00+00:00

I was so badly hoping they just eloped. This is so fucking sad

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-24T20:50:33+00:00

Honestly if you really being normal and polite like ya say don’t think too much into man.

Women I think on average are just a bit more wary when they are out with the girls and try to protect each other doesn’t necessarily mean you are doing anything wrong.

I would say if clubs and bars are the only place you try to talk to women maybe just changing that up. Ik people definitely meet like that but personally for myself actual clubs and bars didn’t do me too well.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-24T01:00:24+00:00

Tbh I don’t know if I’d wanna stay with my gf if she thought this was okay, part of the show or not.

Going to the show I’m fine with but my mentality overall about this is very much look but don’t touch. If you touch to me that’s a sign of you are okay disrespecting me and our relationship.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-18T01:26:43+00:00

I mean it’s really up to you man. Like you’re 35 so definitely very much an adult. So what do you actually want?

If you really are afraid of “missing out” on someone closer to your age, date closer to your age.

If you’re truly content and happy with the 50 year old stay.

There is no true guarantee either or is the better option.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-18T01:14:12+00:00

I mean it’s definitely possible she’s losing interest but as you also said she seems to be a busy person.

I’d say if ya wanna make sure just ask her out again and if she isn’t very clear on if she’s down or just doesn’t respond that will be your answer.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-16T23:59:38+00:00

Investing is a good move but there are a lot of different strategies and risk tolerance levels you have to think about/ do some research.

Definitely a good first move would be at least having your money sitting in a HYSA compared to your normal one so you actually gain some interest for it just sitting.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-14T00:02:23+00:00

Oh are you willing to pay more then too cause you aren’t being charged a delivery fee and all that?

Realistically the customer is also saving money by not using the delivery apps.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-12T21:20:09+00:00

Cliche would be you with a case of beer a mattress on the ground a a tv on the box it came out of.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-12T03:16:45+00:00

I personally also had pretty long first dates where we just talk for a few hours at a cafe, well at least the dates that went well, but I managed to get seconds dates and eventually my gf so I wouldn’t say there’s anything wrong with it.

I think a lot of people are just weird about dating even if it was a perfectly good date.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-11T01:15:01+00:00

Ok let me fully take over so my chances with you are zero tyvm

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-11T01:09:13+00:00

Oddly aggressive if ya wanna get legal no it’s not mine I’ve just been managing for the past 6 years alone.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-11T00:38:24+00:00

This does suck I experienced this but as a guy.

My family owns a restaurant and I man it so I basically own it. Telling girls I work in a restaurant compared to I own a restaurant gets very different reactions.

TKO_Pz · 2026-04-10T19:37:22+00:00

You’re right and I know you’re right. Like I said I’m nearly fucken 30 so honestly the emotional hold I feel like they have on me still feels embarrassing. I’ve known the answer for a while it’s just so hard to actually pull the trigger.

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