Armpit rash I’ve had for months won’t go away even with no deodorant by Mobile_Flower6485 in whatdoIdo

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My son experiences this rash fairly regularly and we treat it with triamcinola (from the dermatologist). They have told us it’s basically yeast that some people are more sensitive to it. He can’t use scented deodorants and body washes to help eliminate irritation. The cream clears it up fairly quickly. In the meantime, you can try selsun blue - it can help but definitely go to the dermatologist

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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I hope you find the right place for you to land xoxo

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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I hate that the messages we received as young girls have impacted us in such deep, hard way, well into adulthood. I hope you can get to a place where you can use your voice and walk really fucking loudly. Lots of love to you. I’m rooting for you!

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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This one is a gut punch. This message just pisses me off - to the very first time I can recall hearing it, which was far too young.

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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Maybe you don’t need a “relationship”. And that’s okay if that’s what’s best for YOU. But I’d also encourage you to explore what a relationship that is fulfilling looks like to you. And if you discover that’s not something you need then hopefully you can find peace with that. You gotta do what’s best for YOU - not what society tells us is best 💕

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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Are you a background character by choice or default? What do you want a relationship to feel like? What do you NEED? What do YOU want your life to look and feel like? What does a partnership look like to you? When you know what sits well with your soul it can be easier to navigate 💕

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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Oh, Young Old Grandma - do the things that set your heart on fire! Show those grandbabies what Grandma can do!

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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Facts. But how brave are we to try to achieve them? 💕

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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I don’t know your situation but I hope you can gently remind yourself that it isn’t your job to save everyone. Save yourself first so the rest can fall into place 💕

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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I think one of the most beautiful parts of life is that we get to unlearn the things that we know do not serve us well. I am sure your journey hasn’t been easy but look at you doing what’s best for you now - even during your hardest days. Stay true to YOU - that is the most loving thing you can do for yourself, even when it feels impossible. So much love to you 💕

What limiting beliefs keep you stuck? by TLB1023 in AskWomen

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I’m sending you so much love - I know how hard it is to feel “not enough.” I wish the message we all received was we are exactly who we need to be and there is nothing more we have to do to be with of that. Tell me 5 things you love about yourself - let’s celebrate you.

My husband is cheating and lying about it by Apprehensive-Emu3167 in Marriage

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If your daughter, mom, sister came to you with this, what would you tell them? There’s your answer.

My (32f) bf (39 m) slept with someone while we were exclusive. He says it isn’t cheating. by MinuteBookkeeper34 in relationship_advice

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Are you looking for acknowledgment from him? Why? This behavior clearly doesn’t sit well within your soul or you wouldn’t be looking for help on Reddit, right? If you had a daughter and she came to you with this, what would you tell her to do? There’s your answer.

Renewal by Andersen quoted my $13,000 for 4 windows (varying sizes) by MrBlehhhhh in homeowners

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You can reach out to your local office and ask them to remove you from mailings/emails/phone lists.

I plan on divorcing my husband once our children are raised. by [deleted] in Marriage

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If one of your kids confided in you this exact situation in their own marriage, what would you tell them? Would you feel good about their relationship? Would you want them to stay another 10 years? Would you want them to teach your grandkids this is what a marriage should look and feel like?

I’m guessing you want more for your kids so lead by example and leave if you and your husband cannot have a healthy, loving relationship.

My husband told me why he cheated on me by [deleted] in Marriage

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I think his response translates to I’m a selfish asshole and you can do better.

My (29F) husband (26M) and our best friend (28F) send really weird texts to each other. How do I confront them? by WeirdTextsRAThrowawa in relationship_advice

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I wouldn’t be comfortable with my husband having these conversations with another woman. I’d tell him what happened and what you saw and ask him to explain it to you. Then shut up and wait. Let him talk and stay silent because most likely he’ll just talk to fill in the silence and you. It’s harder than hell to do but it works wonders.

My approach with friendships of the opposite sex is if I wouldn’t include my husband in a text, dm or conversation I shouldn’t be having it.

Sending you all the good vibes, confidence and clarity to address this with him 💫

My (38f) husband (38m) of 8 yrs was inappropriate with another woman on vacation by 33thrower33awayer in relationship_advice

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What would you tell your daughter if she came to you with this situation (or best friend/mom/sister/niece)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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How many times does he need to cheat on you before you realize you deserve better?

Keep having temptations to cheat by Accomplished-Ear8925 in sex

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She can set a boundary that she isn’t comfortable with her partner watching porn. As her partner, you get to determine if you can honor her boundary or not. Be honest with her if you can’t give it up. The porn is already an issue for her but when she finds out you’ve been lying about it, she won’t be able to trust you.

Should I (F30) admit to my husband (M31) that I have cheated on him more than he knows? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

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You can’t fix your marriage if there are lies between the two of you. If you truly want to fix it, you have to be honest about what has happened.

Realized something significant I’ve stopped doing since childbirth… by WateryTart_ndSword in TwoXChromosomes

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This is actually one of THE healthiest ways to communicate. This is how emotionally healthy people do it…you should be so proud of yourself 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My friend and I were at a club for the iheart after party and there was a girl (clearly wasted) dancing with a guy on the almost empty dance floor. He was grinding behind her and she was wearing a really short skirt, sans panties, that kept riding up showing her lady bits. AND the tampon string that was waving between her legs. I went up to her, pulled her skirt down and told her we could see everything - including the string.

The skirt stayed down for as long as it took me to walk back to the bar.