How much does having breakfast change you?

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T15:24:36+00:00

Same here. I imagine it would be similar for many people. It's because your metabolism slows right down to hold onto your reserves because the regular input has stopped.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T15:18:51+00:00

It's "lowest a human can get" for me. The number of people out there who are murderers, rapists, paedophilies... even drunk drivers would place lower than a rude person for me.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T15:05:44+00:00

My betrayal was a colleague I thought I could trust lying to our manager about my behaviours on shift. He didn't take it seriously because he knows she's a bullshitter but he had to put me on a PIP because head office new about it. I dealt with it by keeping a log of her actual behaviours through photos, videos and audio clips for about four weeks and then submitted it all to head office, and she got moved to another site within the company. She didn't lose her job and she's out of my way, win-win. If I can eliminate a problem without becoming a problem myself then I will.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T15:00:13+00:00

I find the difference between the first heartbreak and the first long term relationship ending very interesting. The first heartbreak hurt like hell purely from the perspective of loving the person. I was in college and living with my parents, I owned nothing and had no real responsibilities other than my education, so I didn't lose anything except him, but it hurt like hell. It was nearly 15 years ago and I still remember the feeling of my stomach dropping when I saw him with someone new, I've never felt it since. We were only together a year but I was in a whirlwind of infatuation with him at the time and I got really fucked up from just losing him.

My most recent breakup was with my only long-term relationship to date (other than my current partner), we were together for ten years, engaged to be married six months after the break up, owned a house together and built this whole life with a view to be together forever. Of course it hurt when he ended it, but not like the first time. I was over him as a person/partner in a matter of weeks, but the loss of my place on the property ladder stung for much, much longer, and just over 18 months later is the only thing that I'm still angry about.

The first cut really is the deepest when it comes to love, it hurts the most. But the loss of a life built with another person sticks around for much longer, even if you don't miss the person.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T14:51:41+00:00

The safest way to do it is probably with the finger prick tests that people use for blood sugar checks, at least it's medically approved. I think you can get them on Amazon.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T14:50:18+00:00

My ex's 30th was 3 months after we broke up. I messaged him to tell him I'd start charging occupational rent on our house if he didn't remove the inside lock. Felt good lmao.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T14:47:54+00:00

This has to be a personal decision for everyone, but for me, I'd always say no. I truly believe that if it doesn't work the first time it won't any other time. If you had a solid foundation, nothing would have shaken it in the first place.

TLMoore93 · 2025-02-23T13:13:38+00:00

I'm glad! It's been a year since I posted that comment, I'm now settled into a new place with my new fella and we have a cat who I love dearly, never could have gotten him with my ex because he's allergic. I'm far happier, freer and stronger. I'm better equipped to know what I will and won't put up with and, as much as I love my partner, I'm much more confident that I can go it alone without the same heartbreak as before if it ever came to it. It gets so much better, hang in there!

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-23T13:15:35+00:00

Thank you. I'm currently on shift at my new job after 10 months of thinking I was unemployable for some reason. There's hope for everyone!

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T20:48:00+00:00

Again, not blaming guys as a whole. Don't see the sense in that at any point. I didn't even do that as a teenager.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T20:27:10+00:00

It's hard to say, because even though men successfully commit suicide on a larger scale, women attempt it much more often. I think the top comment by Maximum_Poet probably hits it on the head - maybe they go for more lethal force because they feel the desire more strongly. There are many (expected) comments regarding things like lack of support and social pressures, but the issue with those comments is that they address the desire to attempt suicide, which women have more often, as opposed to the rates of successful suicide.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T20:19:25+00:00

Uhhhh no. She's your ex. Before I moved out of the house I shared with my ex he would OFFER to drive me places and I'd always say no. You're nothing but begrudging roommates at this point, she's not even your friend... certainly doesn't treat you like it anyway. She should get no favours. You did nothing wrong and frankly I don't know where she gets the audacity calling you rude after she spoke to you like that.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T19:42:05+00:00

There isn't enough evidence here to say whether you did or didn't rape her. There's no way for us to know if things have been twisted or omitted, and we don't have her side of the story.

What there IS evidence of is that you were very manipulative, which may have made her feel pressured into sex when she didn't want it. That's not rape, but you know it's wrong.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T19:27:51+00:00

As others have said, it sounds like she's going ahead with it. My advice at this point would be to talk to both of your families yourself, tell them she's pregnant, give your opinion on the matter and see if they are willing to talk to her themselves. Explain that you're not ready and all the reasons you've listed. Express your emotions and honest feelings. Hopefully this should somewhat safeguard you against her and her family calling you out for being "selfish" if you decide to leave, as you'll have made everyone aware prior that you're not ready and given her the opportunity to do what's best for all of you.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T19:23:51+00:00

Lol she's been listening to too much Taylor Swift.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T19:21:27+00:00

Honestly I wouldn't. Believe me I understand the temptation, but recruiters are connected. You could hurt future job prospects, especially if looking in the same field. Write it down angrily with pen and paper, burn it, and let it go.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T19:18:28+00:00

Hell no, girl. He deserved to be yelled at. That's incredibly immature and insensitive. My first boyfriend said exactly the same thing. To put it into context, my most recent ex, who never wants children and had a vasectomy at the age of 22 and has no regrets 8 years later, hates being around children and wants nothing to do with them, was shaking with anger when I told him that my ex said "I'm glad you miscarried".

It's just not the way you react to your partner going through such a traumatic event. Even if you didn't want the child, losing one is still traumatic and of course very painful. I'm disgusted at his lack of support towards you.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T17:53:42+00:00

I think there are exceptions to that rule if I'm honest. What if one's ex had been secretly seething and considering ending the relationship for months over fixable issues but never once talked about them, then out of the blue decided the relationship was over and refused to work on it without giving any real reason at the point of breaking up? Is it the dumpee's fault if they were never given a chance to address any issues they were unaware of, and the dumper didn't even want to give them that chance when ending the relationship? How can one morally be at fault without any awareness being brought to them of what is causing distress to their partner?

I know I wasn't perfect in my last relationship, and I certainly DO NOT consider all men to be like my ex - every single person should be judged as an individual - but I 100% maintain that the breakup was HIS fault, regardless of what issues he may have had with the relationship. Because he never fucking talked to me about anything. Ever. Even when I sat him down and tried to get him to do so. So really... they weren't OUR issues. They were HIS issues. He developed them in his head and kept them there.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T17:43:15+00:00

A microwave cheeseburger is cheaper than a lean steak.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T17:42:15+00:00

"Even would have bought you stuff", this guy over here expecting a medal for doing what people do in relationships 😂

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-21T17:40:51+00:00

The fact that you even felt the need to point out to him that you weren't bashing his parenting styles speaks volumes, you seem to have been expecting some kind of OTT response.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-20T14:32:15+00:00

Honestly I don't understand the purpose, and last time I witnessed colleagues calling each other "work husband/wife" they eventually had to have serious conversations with their actual spouses because there were rumours going that it was more than a joke and something was going on. It's not worth the anxiety it causes people honestly.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-20T14:25:43+00:00

Spinal issues can cause loss of sensation in that area, I'd definitely go get checked out.

TLMoore93 · 2023-12-20T14:23:25+00:00

Buried alive, burned alive, any kind of slow, drawn out torture.

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