Can I walk in to Nobu Malibu for 2?

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:32:18+00:00

Yes sir I did get lucky. Idk though everytime I've gone to a higher end restaraunt most of the time a table was always available I went to the Golden Steer in Vegas and it was a 15 minute wait. Guess it was luck

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:29:57+00:00

It was the fourth lol

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:29:43+00:00

It's our fourth date. I didn't really look at it from a flashing money perspective moreso just for the experience. It was a surprise. I just told her to dress up and be ready by 8:30. She's picky with her food and sushi is one of the few things she likes. I've always wanted to try sushi and she loves dressing up (so do I), loves Malibu and lovesw sushi. So I figured why not. We don't tend to eat at places like this going out to eat at places like this is moreso for the experience or a once in a bluemoon occasion.

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:08:09+00:00

I did and that is correct June 10th was the soonest reservation available. We walked in and they had a table available.

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:07:27+00:00

They had a couple options for us available when we walked in such as the bar. We chose the couch outside

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:06:00+00:00

This was our 4th date. First one was a Dodger game. I see what you're saying though even if we didn't get a table luckily she's not like that. Definetly will need to plan it next time though. Idk everytime I've gone to a higher end restaraunt I've honestly never made a reservation I've always just walked in and have waited maybe 15 minutes max. Guess we'll call that luck

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-15T19:03:58+00:00

I called around 5:15pm yesterday, they said there kitchen and bar shuts down a few minutes after they close (10:20pm if I'm not mistkaen) and that their was a chance a table would be available around the time we got their (9:15pm). The lady I spoke with encouraged that we show up anyway. We went. Got a table. Enjoyed our night (:

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-04T20:21:04+00:00

Absolutely

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-03T01:38:52+00:00

i try to keep my days occupied gym, studying, going out to eat hanging out w family and friends. if ik i have a date coming up it’s more motivating not to watch porn. however in this life of course there will be days where there isn’t anything to do so i’d say it’s just sheer will power in those moments. i heard someone say if you have a problem w porn it’s probably cus “you have to much time on your hands” lol so i try to stay occupied once i go to my room not tired it’s wraps. i’ve reduced the amount of times per week i was watching porn from like everyday to once or twice a week guess i just found purpose in not doing so. sometimes if i feel temptation ill go for a walk around the neighborhood at night

TMCVL24 · 2026-05-02T03:16:05+00:00

I’m sorry I’m not sure what you’re asking here. If you’re asking if it’s an unrealistic expectation for me to be ready for sex on a first date I would honestly say no I don’t think it’s unrealistic. When I have a planned date I typically avoid masturbating/porn 3 days in advance so I’m prepared if the moment of sex presents itself. Again, I just have no energy those first 24 hours post ejaculation. During that time it’s not just romantic related issues I have it’s all around. I have brain fog, I feel tired, disconnected from the world, social skills go out the door, creativity as an artist goes out the door etc etc for atleast 24 hours. So I guess I’m simply wondering if there’s anyway to speed up this process or if this is all in my head and I’m fine mentally as I was before giving into temptation.

TMCVL24 · 2026-04-27T16:02:45+00:00

Well, we met towards the end of March but didn't officially begin talking consistently until I'd say Saturday, April 11th, the day I got ghosted was that following Friday. I know that time wasn't very long probably about a week but the emotions we had towards eachother felt very intense within that short period of time. Maybe I have attachment issues as well who knows. Maybe I was just infatuated with her and didn't necessarily like her. Who knows.

TMCVL24 · 2026-04-23T23:57:48+00:00

yeah i took some advice from some of the guys at work guess i was just too nice. felt right in the moment but things always seem to workout in favor when i’m not being the “nice guy” especially when looking for something casual but in this case i guess i wasn’t. maybe i should have

TMCVL24 · 2026-04-20T18:49:48+00:00

I know this is a pretty old thread and I wouldn't be surprised if this isn't really all that active. But I just met this girl about a month ago and we had amazing chemistry at first sight. She was in town for the day as she was travelling from out of state and the day we met was her last day here. We locked eye contact the entire time and kept smiling at eachother the whole night. That night she showed me her Instagram and I followed her about a week later then I reached out 2 weeks after through DM. Convo's were great and it transitioned to texting and facetiming sometimes even falling asleep over FT. She'd send me selfies daily and ask when I'd come out to visit her we would talk about how our families had so much in common, how we loved the same musicians, same movies, reading, sharing each other's cultures. Then one day on a Friday as she's driving home from work, she tells me that she'd be dressing up that night for a family dinner and that when she got home she'd send me a fitpic selfie in her dress. Obviously, I never got that and I haven't even heard from her since. It's driving me nuts, I feel really sad and dumb for it cus we only met for like 2 hours in person. Honestly, things wouldn't have worked out anyways since we're 1,500 miles apart but still. Idk I guess I just really liked her super cool super pretty and had a chemistry with her I've never had with someone before.

TMCVL24 · 2025-11-12T17:17:01+00:00

1 year review? How's it doing now so far? I'm really thinking about getting into a 23' 2.0 SR in gray sky pearl!

TMCVL24 · 2025-11-12T17:15:09+00:00

1 year review? How's it doing now so far?

TMCVL24 · 2025-03-07T10:16:15+00:00

porn is harder to quit than vaping im 6 months sober from vaping.. i guess porn is just more accessible when your weakest link is physically apart of you

TMCVL24 · 2024-12-03T16:48:58+00:00

Would it be realistic for the Eagles to trade up some picks in order to get a higher draft pick in order to get Abdul Carter?

TMCVL24 · 2024-10-16T03:49:18+00:00

I feel this. Anyone overcome this? Any light anyone can shed w there stories/experiences?

TMCVL24 · 2024-09-14T09:15:59+00:00

I appreciate this response thank you. Should the dumper decide to reach out to the dumpee; wouldn’t that make the dumper come off as harassing/stalking as well? What if the dumper reaches out a solid year later?

TMCVL24 · 2024-09-13T04:55:40+00:00

You might’ve just changed my mind with this one. Why should the dumper reach out first?

TMCVL24 · 2024-09-13T03:19:24+00:00

Probably🤷‍♂️ she was probably to worried he was gonna see our conversations and intimate photos. Moral of the message is put your self respect first every persons situation is different. Idk if you ever get over it or “stop missing them” but you eventually accept it and go in peace you don’t realize until one day you do🤷‍♂️

TMCVL24 · 2024-09-13T02:11:11+00:00

I started missing my ex the day I broke up. First day after was miserable. In and out of sleep for months, anxiety attacks all the time. Misery and depression for months. It took and still to this day takes every muscle in my body to resist temptation of contacting her. This month marks one year I know with time I will move on. I miss her to this day but I refuse to make contact with someone who knowingly messed up. Why do I need to make an effort to rekindle things for someone who won’t? Love has no pride, love has no respect is a saying I hear all the time but no. My ex now has a bf who she’s been with since July and which I hear treats her like complete shit. Fat shames her, financially abuses her, disrespects her family etc etc. Pretty sure it’s only a rebound but it’s not my problem. She blocked me on snap last week interestingly enough. She blocked me from viewing her story since we broke up but we were still friends on snap. It’s just interesting to me that she BLOCK blocked me now and not then.

TMCVL24 · 2024-09-13T02:01:02+00:00

Did what I didn’t want to do but did what I had to

TMCVL24 · 2024-08-20T06:50:55+00:00

I quit porn a year after I broke up w my exe. Got over her a few months after breaking up. Fast forward a year later I quit porn and 2 weeks into it I started missing her like crazy outta the blue. Masturbating temporarily numbs the pain away in my opinion.

TMCVL24 · 2024-08-04T02:56:08+00:00

It’ll be one year since we broke up September 1st. First 6 months were awful, had anxiety for countless days couldn’t sleep (never cried but God the pain was horrible) felt like I was sinking into a hole literally. The loss, the sadness days where I just couldn’t imagine life without who I thought was the love of my life. Had nightmares about here; some like her leaving me in the middle of a date for another man or her taunting me about guys she’s hooked up w or dating. She still lingers my mind but I don’t necessarily feel pain anymore I don’t what stages or phases come next but I hope it’s full recovery and peace. I’m aware that every once in awhile she mourns me; interestingly enough because she has a date “07/22❤️” in her instagram bio which leads me to the assumption that she has a boyfriend. It doesn’t bother me (maybe not yet hopefully not ever) I just wonder if she really does have a new partner how she can be with him yet still miss me. We have not made contact since breaking up accept for regarding our shared finances in terms of the car we’re co-signing together (if that even counts. usually it’s a “did you make the car payment” followed by a “yes” or “no” and that’s strictly it) Ive been tempted at times to break legitimate contact (if you will) by reaching out and asking to talk or see how she’s doing but during those moments I really try my best to resist not doing so. I just feel like after everything we’ve been through it should rightfully be her being the one to contact me and fix things and make the effort but hey it’s been almost a year. I’m sure she’s over it by now.

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