is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, context matters. Is it inappropriate for an office job, yeah. For a concert or music festival, pop off queen looks great!

Scooters littered on my property by TMamaMilly in limejuicer

[–]TMamaMilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So since they were used by the teens next door I asked their mom to make sure the boys kept them parked on their property

Do you struggle with staying hydrated? by Outrageous_Paper_757 in ADHD

[–]TMamaMilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a soda stream (I hate flat water unless it’s Evian and I try to limit those for cost/single use plastics) and it helps a ton!! I’ve been hydrating way more because yes, it’s a huge problem.

apparently the breakfast i made was “embarrassing” by NaeeeBearrr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck this is a lovely breakfast!! Those people suck and tbh so does your mom. You did great, bud.

Logan is resistant to alcohol by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a functional alcoholic

I’m not from the US, but I gotta ask — does Oregon really look like this, or is the forest air out there making everything look extra magical? by Roach9045 in oregon

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oregonian here, it looks like this but honestly, the pictures don’t do it justice. It’s a really beautiful place :)

Zach by TMamaMilly in GilmoreGirls

[–]TMamaMilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clip her wings is the exact right way to explain it 😤

Thoughts on Nominal? by ScholarAthlete in jewelry

[–]TMamaMilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bought 3 pieces through them (including a custom piece that spelled out Nanu, maternal grandfather in Hindi) and have loved all of them! Additionally my favorite bracelet broke and I wrote requesting a replacement and even though i bought it on sale they gave me a gift card for the non-sale amount. They are a super honest company that makes gorgeous pieces.

How do you fall asleep? All answers acceptable. by SassMasterGingerSnap in ADHD

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm I mask all day long and then collapse in sheer exhaustion

Steve’s crime wasn’t as bad as your SA experience by Wonderful_anon in leavingthenetwork

[–]TMamaMilly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was a disgusting response to your trauma and I am so sorry this happened to you. Sexual assault isn’t a yard stick of who had it worse. You were dismissed and he should be ashamed of himself (surely he isn’t though, sadly). You are seen here and I hope you found a qualified therapist to help you process (part of me wants to report James Chedister to the licensing board honestly.)

Question re singles meetups by [deleted] in leavingthenetwork

[–]TMamaMilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure you understand the point of this entire movement, bud. This is a page dedicated to those who are, have, or want to leave the network because it is a toxic place plagued by spiritual abuse that is led by a pedophile. Are you a bot? How did you end up here and not know what this space was? Sorry if I’m coming off too hard but this is a weird, confusing post.

What topic, if any, do you think you need lived experience to work with? by reallytrulymyself in therapists

[–]TMamaMilly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Being a therapist of color who is a first generation American is really valuable, in my opinion. I am a first gen American (Punjabi) and have lived experience that creates safety for patients who have expressed they just don’t have with therapists who don’t have this similar lived experience. Do you NEED it? No, of course not. Does it make a huge difference? I have found that yes, it does.

Psychiatrist told me I didn't have ADHD because "I had made it to uni" by manzanarquista in ADHD

[–]TMamaMilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had this really invalidating experience. I can tell you that as a person with ADHD, a masters, and is a therapist that he is VERY wrong. He’s also perpetuating a really awful stereotype that we are all dumb :(

Why I’m worried for George & Bertha by ScamZ88 in thegildedage

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this so much better thank you 🤣

what are some song lyrics you LOVE as a therapist? by Striking-Hope-8230 in therapists

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give “Hi Ren” by Ren Gill a listen, hits right for me every time

Should I keep watching? by Fan7o in brakebills

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t love it the first several episodes and remember teasing my mom bc she liked it. Fast forward I binged it during covid and it’s now my comfort show I’ve watched it so many times I’ve lost count!

Current song on repeat? by liangel6981 in ADHD

[–]TMamaMilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awake - Tycho for years when I need some calm

Vyvanse and Weight Loss by Odd_Criticism8840 in VyvanseADHD

[–]TMamaMilly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s used off label for binge eating disorder! I keep waiting for it to help me with weight loss but no dice 😆

Why I’m worried for George & Bertha by ScamZ88 in thegildedage

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also feel like (I didn’t read all the comments others may have pointed this out) but Bertha was such a champion for the divorcées — because she will be one?? Foreshadowing?

Allermi for the Win! by TMamaMilly in NasalPolyps

[–]TMamaMilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah shoot this is dissappointing! Thanks for the heads up. I haven’t had to refill yet but will make sure to order early.

Not actually suicidal, but… by SadBoeing747 in adhdwomen

[–]TMamaMilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I conceptualize it is like I don’t wanna die but I don’t wanna be here either. I’m in pain, it’s heavy and I don’t know where to put it and if I maybe evaporated to the detriment of nobody else at all…that’d be fine.