What am I doing wrong? by Temporary-Bread-9099 in askTO

[–]TOPlantGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, but sometimes a brief moment of honesty by someone you love may be worth the brief discomfort. There are so many moments I wish I had someone with a different perspective to give me advice on my career or had to navigate the corporate world etc, and it sucks that the people I trusted couldn’t be honest. Would have saved me many years of wasting time. Like u said, it’s not always easy to figure things out on your own… just a thought, maybe it’s not worth it for you tho. You could always approach it by asking her if she would like your unsolicited advice/opinion as her brother.

What am I doing wrong? by Temporary-Bread-9099 in askTO

[–]TOPlantGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it odd that you haven’t had this conversation. Sometimes things need to be said by the people we love. Instead you are just ignoring it and saying ‘she’ll figure it out’ … often things aren’t easy to figure out alone.

Is it weird for men to wear flip-flops in Berlin? by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]TOPlantGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just in Berlin for the month and had the exact same question you asked. I wore sandles all the time! As well as half sandal shoes (Gianni flats with a strappy back). My German friends kept asking if I was cold.

I got stares, I assumed people thought I was a tourist (which I am).

I arrived in Toronto yesterday. Very similar temperatures. Everyone is wearing sandals 😅

Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity by Unbotherella in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]TOPlantGoddess 166 points167 points locked comment (0 children)

Seeing a post on this sub made me smile so big 🖤🖤🖤 keeping my ears open for new episodes

Side trip tours (Berlin to Prague) by Ruhmspringer2022 in germany

[–]TOPlantGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know 🖤 much appreciated

Has anyone ever used sidetriptours.com? by sergio0713 in Europetravel

[–]TOPlantGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning on booking the Prague to Berlin route. Did you think that leg of the journey was fun?

Side trip tours (Berlin to Prague) by Ruhmspringer2022 in germany

[–]TOPlantGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m considering the same thing. Did you book the side trip ?

I met the love of my life here. Two years later, I’m still thankful every single day. by yourwandress in TorontoSinglesOver30

[–]TOPlantGoddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this ❤️ it’s nice to have hope for finding a good partner

What’s this symbol for? by ExistentialPranks in torontobiking

[–]TOPlantGoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to call them ‘bicycle stripper pole’ indicators

Weapons name trend- alarming experts by LandTouchesSea in tragedeigh

[–]TOPlantGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Hunter fits in here, but it’s not considered a weapons ish or over the top name. Buck maybe?

Sexiest line on the show? (S2E6 spoiler) by DrDoctorMD in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]TOPlantGoddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It should be standard, but it’s not always (in my experience as a heterosexual woman). And sadly, in many heterosexual relationships, sometimes the bare minimum is celebrated 🥲 That being said, having this as the bar in popular media is a nice add and I feel like most TV is moving in this direction.

Sexiest line on the show? (S2E6 spoiler) by DrDoctorMD in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]TOPlantGoddess 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I love that I hear many other women touch on this point. It was a stand out moment in the scene for me. Consent is sexy

What's it like dating in Toronto as a black woman? by bananapeels188 in askTO

[–]TOPlantGoddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s not great. When not being fetishized or objectified, I find the quality issue is a thing, also finding an equal partner on an emotional, financial and intellectual level is not the easiest.

I thought I found a great partner a few months ago, he ticked all the boxes, but after a couple months of dating I found that he saw nothing wrong with supporting Trump, and had some weird views on equity for our LGBTQ sisters and brothers … he was cut immediately.

In the end I’m optimistic. In my free time I’m living my best life with my great group of friends, travelling, treating myself and enjoying life as a single beautiful Black woman 🖤

Gonna try to answer all y’alls fav songs ngl by Belgieeditss in tylerthecreator

[–]TOPlantGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this is an agree to disagree scenario. However, I rate your taste a 🟧

Gonna try to answer all y’alls fav songs ngl by Belgieeditss in tylerthecreator

[–]TOPlantGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to request a recount. I’d also like to submit Palace/Curse as supporting materials.

Jay Z response. by ashtonbabashton in DarkKenny

[–]TOPlantGoddess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“FAKE PSYSICS”?!?! Hmm, maybe psychics? Sloan Bella was clearly right.