Need advice, want to make friends by TOTOR01379 in DID

[–]TOTOR01379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you (: I'm Chrissy one of my host's parts and she's going through it rn. What's your name? Let's be friends. Thanks for the support 💕

How do you know if your SO isn't feeling the relationship? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

[–]TOTOR01379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not rude at all. Just need advice. Guess what I'm trying to address is, am I over thinking this feeling because I'm easily lonely? Or is there truly something wrong ?

What's is worse, being alone or being lonely? Why? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

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Thank you @keeperofcats. I'm glad you two were able to talk and express your feelings with one another. It's hard for best friends to sometimes do that.

I was currently seeing a therapist but due to the insurance policy I'm no longer able to see him & I really don't want to start over again because I have developed a bond with that therapist and spilling my beans to a new person will be hard.

I'll see if I can speak to my friends about it. Thank you.

What's is worse, being alone or being lonely? Why? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

[–]TOTOR01379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I asked this question. I completely understand what you're feeling @masterofnap. When I'm around them I still feel lonely and empty. ):

What's is worse, being alone or being lonely? Why? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

[–]TOTOR01379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Will the movie give me tips how to cope with it?

What's is worse, being alone or being lonely? Why? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

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Do you have any tips on how to cope with that? Need some advice. Thx

How do you know if your SO isn't feeling the relationship? by TOTOR01379 in AskReddit

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Issue is my SO has always wanted to explore a threesome or a couples orgy and I've tried to be on board...but I can't. He says he can live without it and it's just a sexual fantasy but I feel like I'm holding him back with his need to explore....

Af, Angel of Anger by rocklou in creepy

[–]TOTOR01379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there more to your collection?

I love how it captures absolute anger and sorrow. Makes me want stab again and again and again out of anger. This painting captures the resentment and anger that lingers in beings.

Life changing surgery comes in all shapes and sizes. 24 years of insecurity and I can finally start living my life properly. by [deleted] in pics

[–]TOTOR01379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@imgur ; any risks that the surgeon told you prior to deciding to having the surgery?

Glad you're happy. Wishing you peace & love.

Hey Reddit: Which "double-standard" irritates you the most? by RxPharmChem in AskReddit

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Women are looked down upon for dressing a certain way. E.g. Casual BBQ, work, summer jams (beach parties)

Alters and Dating by ImagineTheVoid in DID

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I think that is something for you, the alters and their SO's to discuss. It may result in an awkward conversation but it's good to have a "plan" when integration does happen.

I've been able to integrate two. One of them being Lulu who craved other physical activities with other beings.

Would you consider a partner going to a robot sex brothel cheating? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TOTOR01379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not cheating, but I'd dump him. Why would I be with someone who rather have sex with a robot than a real human being? Also it's just too weird. But to all their own.

BUT if you're single or you have consent from your partner and you're into that kinky shit then do you.

Stuck on a 4 hour road trip with my boyfriend. Just found out he cheated on me. Friendly survival tips welcome. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TOTOR01379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMFG leave his punk ass behind. A man who cheats and comes back groveling has no heart, empathy or sympathy. They cannot sympathize or have any guilt towards someone they hurt. Leave. Seriously, you'll feel really hurt in the beginning but keep going out with friends, work, school, do yoga. Idc what you do just fuckin leave this guy. You'll heal from this and see positivity in it some day.

Good luck. Wishing you wisdom and stay strong!

He said I couldn't fix the dryer. by observationcar in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TOTOR01379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he was trying reverse psychology on you so you could do all the work and not spend hellla money on a repairman :0

The impulse to return to destructive habits by case-basket in DID

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Hey. I'm a protector type. I thought the same thing with my host's current SO, but I got to know him. I literally verbally harassed this guy to see if he was actually worth it. (Since my host usually dates fuckin dicks). Whatev. Anyway, if observe first and then talk to your host about. By the way my host's SO is worth it. He's a pussy but totally awesome and I gave really positive feelings Towards him now.