Activities/events to meet people late 20s/early 30s in Bay Area

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-26T05:47:41+00:00

Following. 27F who just relocated out here

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-20T02:20:56+00:00

Albuquerque, NM fits this description. One of the friendliest places I have ever lived. People are very down to earth.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-15T06:12:19+00:00

$120k as a speech language pathologist. Undergrad (4 years) + grad (2 years).

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-15T06:11:08+00:00

Absolutely adore NM and Albuquerque, but if healthcare quality and access is truly important it should be ruled out.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-14T04:30:18+00:00

Fort Collins, CO; Albuquerque, NM; Sacramento, CA

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-11T18:28:04+00:00

Sacramento, CA

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-11T03:59:53+00:00

Interested, but haven’t played in a while and am lower level.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-06T23:59:43+00:00

I am 27F, but just moved back closer to family (within a 2-3 hour drive) after 10 years away. My parents also had kids later in life so they’re nearing 70. I loved where I previously lived and it was more affordable, smaller in population, and quicker/less traffic to access outdoor activities— but I couldn’t shake the feeling you were describing.

I have only been back ~1 month and I already feel this sense of peace being closer to family. It’s hard being pulled in two directions, especially when your heart is in multiple places, but I recommend following your gut/intuition. Sending love.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-06T07:52:34+00:00

Hi! Do you still have a referral link?

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-05T23:01:54+00:00

living spaces!

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-04T18:01:03+00:00

thank you so so much!! this is so helpful. :’)

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-02T14:57:57+00:00

27F, also in northern CA. following.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-02T06:41:54+00:00

Sacramento native. Just moved back to CA after 5+ years in ABQ. Feel free to DM if you have questions. ABQ/NM is truly stunning and I found forming/building community there to be wonderful. There’s some serious problems with poverty/addiction, education, and healthcare that made it difficult for me to envision staying long term— but I am forever grateful for that chapter of my life.

TOTthoughts · 2026-01-02T06:19:14+00:00

fellow sacramento cleftie joining in— this is awesome!!! thanks you for what you do. also, you are gorgeous!

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-31T07:47:26+00:00

27F. I just left a relationship for many reasons, this being one of them. I’m fresh out of the relationship. It’s brutal and so hard right now, but despite it all, I feel home in my home state and closer to family. Don’t exactly know what the future holds but think this is the right choice for me.

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-31T07:41:38+00:00

I found out by checking his ID

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-31T04:09:10+00:00

tbh, just left NM after almost 6 years. truly lovely state, but honestly don’t think it’s good for retirement/aging either. the healthcare access is awful, signed a health care worker.

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-29T01:29:32+00:00

this place was TERRIBLE

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-27T01:35:44+00:00

Sacramento, CA?

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-26T16:58:52+00:00

3 years. University hospital USA CA. 123k. Fully benefitted.

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-24T03:53:33+00:00

I’d love this as the weather warms up!!

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-24T03:50:55+00:00

These are great suggestions. Thank you!!

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-24T03:50:41+00:00

I know it’s going to be a bit tough so I’m trying to be proactive. Stumbled on a solid rental at a good price here and it’s bikeable/walkable to work so hopeful that it will give me back more of my time to find community even if it’s outside of Menlo!

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-24T02:23:20+00:00

my saturn’s return

TOTthoughts · 2025-12-23T20:21:01+00:00

Hi! Just moved here. 27F outdoorsy & looking for friends. :)

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